Help! I'm in a dilema with my daughter and the other half of her family.?
Question: I am not sure where to go right now. Maybe I just need to vent, but I was told you can ask ?'s here and some people are pretty open. My problem is...over the last few months I've been through hell with my baby's father and his sister. He hasn't seen his daughter despite my inviting requests and the sister only became my friend after I invited her to my party and my own family told me I couldn't trust her. The father who is 28 years old hasn't made no effort or attempt at all to see his child, which is fine, no worries, I ain't gonna make him do what he doesn't want to do, especially after he requested to give up his rights but it didn't get him out of child support...sadly that is what this is all about....he didn't want to pay the state minimum and his sister has threatened me from day one. Should I cut her lose and tell her not to contact me again. I would like to tell the father of my child that but i don't want to take my babys right away of ever knowing her biological father
Answers: Absoluetly dreadful that you lay down and have sex with a man, hoping he cares for you---only to find out that he must have had other thoughts---just an easy hump----BULLETIN---babies do happen this way--and you have one. So the big man has turned into a worm----did the lowest thing a dad could do--and his sister is involved---how charming is this gal-----face the facts--your life is for the baby--he won't help and she is a dirtbag---drop all of it---rethink your future--seriously----baby comes first--18 years of all this----tough lesson but millions have been through it--you are now a mom, figure out what you will do---the drama is too much---why waste anymore time on this dead beat dad issue---baby will grow up and follow your example--set a good one ---who dad is doesn't matter---drop the whole act, lose his sister, walk tall and have a nice life---good luck
I would , I have been there . I am a single dad with custody of two , it is hard to do, but I would tell the sister to no longer contact you . He (the father) has given up his rights ,and rest of his family really never had any to begin with . As hard as it is sometimes the child is better of with few ,if any memories . Hopefully, one day he will realize how stupid it was to give up a child. Trust me he will one day regret ever doing that. If anyone else such as his sister or his parents wish to see the child it is at your disgression. If they can not behave make them aware that unwanted contact can be in some states considered harassment . It is tough to have to be mean in situations such as yours ,BUT remember you have to act on the best interest of the child .and sometimes the best thing does not always feel right. Best of Luck to you .
Absolutely, walk away from this sister, she is bad news. Any guy who asks to give up his rights to his own child is not worth giving a second thought. Do you think this scum bag cares about you not taking away his rights of ever knowing the child. He already told you he wants to give up the rights. Make him pay child support, he owes that much, other then that, I would say, good riddance to bad rubbish. For his sister to get involved in anyway is a joke. Cut all association with her.
Answers: Absoluetly dreadful that you lay down and have sex with a man, hoping he cares for you---only to find out that he must have had other thoughts---just an easy hump----BULLETIN---babies do happen this way--and you have one. So the big man has turned into a worm----did the lowest thing a dad could do--and his sister is involved---how charming is this gal-----face the facts--your life is for the baby--he won't help and she is a dirtbag---drop all of it---rethink your future--seriously----baby comes first--18 years of all this----tough lesson but millions have been through it--you are now a mom, figure out what you will do---the drama is too much---why waste anymore time on this dead beat dad issue---baby will grow up and follow your example--set a good one ---who dad is doesn't matter---drop the whole act, lose his sister, walk tall and have a nice life---good luck
I would , I have been there . I am a single dad with custody of two , it is hard to do, but I would tell the sister to no longer contact you . He (the father) has given up his rights ,and rest of his family really never had any to begin with . As hard as it is sometimes the child is better of with few ,if any memories . Hopefully, one day he will realize how stupid it was to give up a child. Trust me he will one day regret ever doing that. If anyone else such as his sister or his parents wish to see the child it is at your disgression. If they can not behave make them aware that unwanted contact can be in some states considered harassment . It is tough to have to be mean in situations such as yours ,BUT remember you have to act on the best interest of the child .and sometimes the best thing does not always feel right. Best of Luck to you .
Absolutely, walk away from this sister, she is bad news. Any guy who asks to give up his rights to his own child is not worth giving a second thought. Do you think this scum bag cares about you not taking away his rights of ever knowing the child. He already told you he wants to give up the rights. Make him pay child support, he owes that much, other then that, I would say, good riddance to bad rubbish. For his sister to get involved in anyway is a joke. Cut all association with her.
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