I just found out that my young daughter wears thongs. SHould I panic?
Question: I know they are whats in fashion now but if she does this and I didnt know about it( she never added them to her normal laundry pile and would wash them when no one was home), what else might she be doing that I dont know about. ARe thongs a sign that your teen is sexually active and wants to show off her butt to boys.?
Answers: Well, sometimes women wear thongs because the type of pants and or skirts they wear so we won't have a panty line as we call it. Doesn't neccessarily mean she is sexually active, but it could. Just sit down and talk to her about it. Just don't make it a big deal because she won't talk to you.
as long as shes wearing them its fine
lol, good luck.
no..do u think she is flashing guys? If thongs are signs of being racy then shouldnt bras be too? No its just something she want to wear but she probably not doing anything
I'd be more worried if she wasn't wearing any underwear at all....
I would definately have a serious talk with her, about appropriate dress and behavior for a young lady. Give her the male perspective, little girls have no idea what goes through mens minds.
Thongs are an indication that your child is at least thinking about becoming sexually active: what else are they good for, besides turning on guys--there certainly not for comfort.
No it doesn't mean that at all. It just means she wants to feel more womanly. I just started wearing thongs because underwear just made me feel too much like a kid.
don't worry about it I've thought about wearing them too
Stop making a mountain out of a mole hill. Its underwear. Yeah, sexy stuff and she knew you wouldnt like it since she was hiding them, but its still just underwear. Tell her (dont yell) you are aware of it now and ask why she was hiding them. She knows the answer and so do you. You just want her to know you are aware of it.
Here is the panic button Nitro--> O. Hit it. She is wanting to show off her butt to boys. She may not be sexually active...yet. That is the next step. I'd make her wear a flannel dress to school with no makeup...or homeschool her.
not realy man!!!!!!1
it is used to show of butts but not mean to someone may be it is for herself to get proud of her intimate things .....teens think like this believe me.....cooldown and ask her by yourelf and calmly....and explain to her the right and the wrong in your way according to her age, of course,and you can ask me just give me some information and i will help you....Dr.Leo..............leoledentist@...
no ...some girls prefer thongs they are more comfortable to some of us ....no worries ,,it's not a sign your little lady is having sex......she may be afraid you are taking things out of contents ...have some trust in your little girl .....
If you object, sit down and talk to her about how you feel and set ground rules - like she can't wear them under age 16. She could be thinking about more grown up things than you would like at whatever age she is.
how well do u know ur daughter? A girl can wear thongs cuz it's fashion, teenagers are different now..they can be sexy but doesn't mean they are active on sex, u know. They are shy to see it with d family because u may think its not appropriate but since they like trying new things as part of teenagers, they just can't stop wearin like that.On my experience though, I had the confidence to wear thongs when I lose my virginity but when I was a virgin, I was shy trying sexy stuff.I guess your daughter is just confident on her body, that's all.
personally, i really don't think that wearing thongs is a sign that one is sexually active & wants to show off butts to boys..it could be that your daughter just finds it more comfortable than wearing the normal undies! it could also be that she's keeping it as a secret since wearing thongs could make one think that one who's wearing it is sexually active or so. i guess you just hafta talk to her & let her feel that it's ok to wear it & not hide it from you. let her feel that it's ok to share things to you..Ü
Thongs are currently the fashion. You would be surprised at how many young girls wear them, and swear by their comfort.
This doesn't mean that your daughter is giving it up to every boy that comes along, nor is she pole-dancing in a strip club somewhere.
She likely keeps her undergarments out of view, out of fear that you will overreact, and think poorly of her. Chances are good that all of her friends are wearing them too.
Going near-commando gives teens the opportunity to feel like they are being rebellious and wild. As long as they are under her clothes, does it really matter?
NO...just relax and stop over reacting.
I grew up my daughter to be a prude, but I let her explore certain things that were not harmful, but let her feel that she was breaking loose. One of those things was not to fight the thong thing. Kids want to explore, let them do small things that make them feel like they are growing up. The thing is to pick your battles. The thong thing is minor. When you put your foot down on the larger things (like a poison concert) it will be easier if you had let them get by on the smaller harmless things
Just because she wears certain clothes doesn't mean that she engages in certain behavior, I wouldn't be so quick to assume the worst. And, boys can't be trusted regardless of what undergarments she wears, so you have to have trust in the sense and morals that you instilled in her. If she can be trusted it doesn't matter what she wears.
its alright, pantie lines are embarrassing especially when other girls don't have them,plus full bottom underwear can ride up causing you to spend all day pickin your butt. she probably hid them to save an embarrassing conversation with her parents about her underwear, as long as she isn't wearing them with short skirts you shouldn't worry, if shes going to show her butt to a boy its not going to matter what kind of underwater shes wearing
Wearing a thong don't mean sex, it mean sexy. she may not feel comfortable talking to you. Go to her and tell her that you notice that she's wearing a more adult type underwear and that you were concerned about that. She may not open up to you so let her know it's ok to talk to you or someone. Make her feel comfortable to be able to talk to you about anything. open up to her on the things you did when you were young
maybe she's embarrassed to tell you that she's wearing them...knowing that you'll react this way. important thing is to talk to her bout it, dont be a mother but be a friend when talking to her. tell her what bothers you and what you think bout girls wearing thongs, but talk to her lightly and gently. good luck
take it from me (im pretty young to but im not giving my age ) im a teenager. i started out the same way, except i was too embarrased to even go to the store to buy thongs so id order them online w/ like a shirt then when it came in the mail my parents would js give me the box b/c i told them it was my shirt and id show it to them when i opened it up. so ya it take out my thongs then show them my shirt. thats how i got them hehehe ANYWAYZ!!!!!!!!! she probably hid it from you b/c she doesnt want you to make a big deal out of it. and plus its kinda of weird to have ur parents know that one day you could be wearing regular panties and the next you could not. next, dont freak out and think shes sexually active js b/c she wears thongs. i wear them b/c they are a nessesity. like when i wear white pants, a thin skirt, or like my gauchos. wouldnt u rather know that her butt isnt totally covered but know that guys cant see her panty lines??? its nothing to worry about shes not sexually active js b/c she wears thongs. also dont confront her about it all serious and everything, thatll js make her self concious. and keep lettin her wash her own panties/thongs, its js for the greater good.
thongs are not only for showing off. For some they are more comfortable. Also, the panty line doesn't show. Maybe she hid them to prevent being accused of something. Anyways, just talk to her about it
thongs = good!
I would not let my daughter at a young age wear thongs. they cause irritation and infections. Think about it as having toilet paper stuck up your butt all day. Ask your Dr. and they will tell you all of the negative things that can go wrong.
It is a fad. there are plenty of lingerie stores were you could purchase nice under ware and not have it ride up. Pantie lines- if she is that young what the hell do you care. i wouldn't.
i wouldnt worry too much. its just underwear, by no means a thong is a sign of a sex life, talk to her and ask her why she wears them, dont judge her or tell her to stop, let her know you wont make a big deal, and that you understand she is growing, that way she will tell you the more important things
Answers: Well, sometimes women wear thongs because the type of pants and or skirts they wear so we won't have a panty line as we call it. Doesn't neccessarily mean she is sexually active, but it could. Just sit down and talk to her about it. Just don't make it a big deal because she won't talk to you.
as long as shes wearing them its fine
lol, good luck.
no..do u think she is flashing guys? If thongs are signs of being racy then shouldnt bras be too? No its just something she want to wear but she probably not doing anything
I'd be more worried if she wasn't wearing any underwear at all....
I would definately have a serious talk with her, about appropriate dress and behavior for a young lady. Give her the male perspective, little girls have no idea what goes through mens minds.
Thongs are an indication that your child is at least thinking about becoming sexually active: what else are they good for, besides turning on guys--there certainly not for comfort.
No it doesn't mean that at all. It just means she wants to feel more womanly. I just started wearing thongs because underwear just made me feel too much like a kid.
don't worry about it I've thought about wearing them too
Stop making a mountain out of a mole hill. Its underwear. Yeah, sexy stuff and she knew you wouldnt like it since she was hiding them, but its still just underwear. Tell her (dont yell) you are aware of it now and ask why she was hiding them. She knows the answer and so do you. You just want her to know you are aware of it.
Here is the panic button Nitro--> O. Hit it. She is wanting to show off her butt to boys. She may not be sexually active...yet. That is the next step. I'd make her wear a flannel dress to school with no makeup...or homeschool her.
not realy man!!!!!!1
it is used to show of butts but not mean to someone may be it is for herself to get proud of her intimate things .....teens think like this believe me.....cooldown and ask her by yourelf and calmly....and explain to her the right and the wrong in your way according to her age, of course,and you can ask me just give me some information and i will help you....Dr.Leo..............leoledentist@...
no ...some girls prefer thongs they are more comfortable to some of us ....no worries ,,it's not a sign your little lady is having sex......she may be afraid you are taking things out of contents ...have some trust in your little girl .....
If you object, sit down and talk to her about how you feel and set ground rules - like she can't wear them under age 16. She could be thinking about more grown up things than you would like at whatever age she is.
how well do u know ur daughter? A girl can wear thongs cuz it's fashion, teenagers are different now..they can be sexy but doesn't mean they are active on sex, u know. They are shy to see it with d family because u may think its not appropriate but since they like trying new things as part of teenagers, they just can't stop wearin like that.On my experience though, I had the confidence to wear thongs when I lose my virginity but when I was a virgin, I was shy trying sexy stuff.I guess your daughter is just confident on her body, that's all.
personally, i really don't think that wearing thongs is a sign that one is sexually active & wants to show off butts to boys..it could be that your daughter just finds it more comfortable than wearing the normal undies! it could also be that she's keeping it as a secret since wearing thongs could make one think that one who's wearing it is sexually active or so. i guess you just hafta talk to her & let her feel that it's ok to wear it & not hide it from you. let her feel that it's ok to share things to you..Ü
Thongs are currently the fashion. You would be surprised at how many young girls wear them, and swear by their comfort.
This doesn't mean that your daughter is giving it up to every boy that comes along, nor is she pole-dancing in a strip club somewhere.
She likely keeps her undergarments out of view, out of fear that you will overreact, and think poorly of her. Chances are good that all of her friends are wearing them too.
Going near-commando gives teens the opportunity to feel like they are being rebellious and wild. As long as they are under her clothes, does it really matter?
NO...just relax and stop over reacting.
I grew up my daughter to be a prude, but I let her explore certain things that were not harmful, but let her feel that she was breaking loose. One of those things was not to fight the thong thing. Kids want to explore, let them do small things that make them feel like they are growing up. The thing is to pick your battles. The thong thing is minor. When you put your foot down on the larger things (like a poison concert) it will be easier if you had let them get by on the smaller harmless things
Just because she wears certain clothes doesn't mean that she engages in certain behavior, I wouldn't be so quick to assume the worst. And, boys can't be trusted regardless of what undergarments she wears, so you have to have trust in the sense and morals that you instilled in her. If she can be trusted it doesn't matter what she wears.
its alright, pantie lines are embarrassing especially when other girls don't have them,plus full bottom underwear can ride up causing you to spend all day pickin your butt. she probably hid them to save an embarrassing conversation with her parents about her underwear, as long as she isn't wearing them with short skirts you shouldn't worry, if shes going to show her butt to a boy its not going to matter what kind of underwater shes wearing
Wearing a thong don't mean sex, it mean sexy. she may not feel comfortable talking to you. Go to her and tell her that you notice that she's wearing a more adult type underwear and that you were concerned about that. She may not open up to you so let her know it's ok to talk to you or someone. Make her feel comfortable to be able to talk to you about anything. open up to her on the things you did when you were young
maybe she's embarrassed to tell you that she's wearing them...knowing that you'll react this way. important thing is to talk to her bout it, dont be a mother but be a friend when talking to her. tell her what bothers you and what you think bout girls wearing thongs, but talk to her lightly and gently. good luck
take it from me (im pretty young to but im not giving my age ) im a teenager. i started out the same way, except i was too embarrased to even go to the store to buy thongs so id order them online w/ like a shirt then when it came in the mail my parents would js give me the box b/c i told them it was my shirt and id show it to them when i opened it up. so ya it take out my thongs then show them my shirt. thats how i got them hehehe ANYWAYZ!!!!!!!!! she probably hid it from you b/c she doesnt want you to make a big deal out of it. and plus its kinda of weird to have ur parents know that one day you could be wearing regular panties and the next you could not. next, dont freak out and think shes sexually active js b/c she wears thongs. i wear them b/c they are a nessesity. like when i wear white pants, a thin skirt, or like my gauchos. wouldnt u rather know that her butt isnt totally covered but know that guys cant see her panty lines??? its nothing to worry about shes not sexually active js b/c she wears thongs. also dont confront her about it all serious and everything, thatll js make her self concious. and keep lettin her wash her own panties/thongs, its js for the greater good.
thongs are not only for showing off. For some they are more comfortable. Also, the panty line doesn't show. Maybe she hid them to prevent being accused of something. Anyways, just talk to her about it
thongs = good!
I would not let my daughter at a young age wear thongs. they cause irritation and infections. Think about it as having toilet paper stuck up your butt all day. Ask your Dr. and they will tell you all of the negative things that can go wrong.
It is a fad. there are plenty of lingerie stores were you could purchase nice under ware and not have it ride up. Pantie lines- if she is that young what the hell do you care. i wouldn't.
i wouldnt worry too much. its just underwear, by no means a thong is a sign of a sex life, talk to her and ask her why she wears them, dont judge her or tell her to stop, let her know you wont make a big deal, and that you understand she is growing, that way she will tell you the more important things
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