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Question: Why is my partners daughters so diagreable with me every i try to do with her trips treats etc and and all she does is throw back in in my face she is 14 and disabled at T 7 para we've tried every thing but it dos'nt work have i gone wrong we tried to conjola her gave her all she wanted Help were at are whits end
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Answers: I don't know how long you have been with your partner or what happened to her mother.
Perhaps she is jealous and angry that her dad is with you - and not her mum.
I don't know how she received her injury. Or maybe she was born with it. If it was as a result of an accident, I would imagine that she would be VERY angry with that.
Perhaps she needs someone indpendent to speak to and try to overcome her problems with you and also the problems that affect her life generally. Perhaps you should also stop trying to buy her affection - which is what perhaps she thinks you are doing.
You can persevere without bribery. Ultimately, if she will not change her mind, it is her mind and she is entitled to make her own decisions as to whether she likes/dislikes you/the relationship etc. In which case you will have to learn to live with it.
Please !
Get your grammar right and rephrase the question !!!!!
just be there for her if she needs you. DON'T try to hard. she will come round when shes ready
There could be a frustration/anger here as the original parents are no longer together, you have'nt mentioned who's who? male female? I v'e found that partners with children, the new male to the group will get on much better with the daughter than the son.
don't try so hard ,and in time she will see ,and i would stop giving her everything that is one mistake u will regret down the road.don't try to win her love ,show her love and respect and maybe she will understand and give it back..but u have to be respected ur the adult don't forget that ....
It could be the fact that she resents the fact that you are not her mum/dad, coupled with her disability for which she may also feel angry and resentful, she feels that you are a good target and therefore receive the brunt of it all.
Do try to remember she is also going through puberty and teenagers of 14, especially teenage girls, are a challenge at the best of times with their parents.
Try to be patient, continue to show her love, possibly not give in to all her demands - it sometimes does good to have wants - and then when they have been fulfilled they are much more appreciated.
When you have the opportunity it may help if you, your partner and the daughter, sit down to discuss the situation and give each the chance to air their thoughts and feelings - this may bring up issues that can easily be resolved and help put life back on a more even keel.
Most of all hang on in there and I'm sure you will be rewarded - eventually.
God Bless you all.
she is 14 and will act like one it doesnt matter that shes disabled, its a side factor. treat her like a 14 year old and not like a disabled child.
stop pampering to her every need and spoiling her its probably driving her crazy.
maybe sit down and talk about something she enjoys like music, film, art, books something where you can have common ground.
its worth a try if nothing else
stop trying babe as that is what is fuelling her to have a go its called a teenage thing. You will find when you stop trying she will come round. Good Luck
Please no fercous commets SEROUS FEED BACK ONLY
Answers: I don't know how long you have been with your partner or what happened to her mother.
Perhaps she is jealous and angry that her dad is with you - and not her mum.
I don't know how she received her injury. Or maybe she was born with it. If it was as a result of an accident, I would imagine that she would be VERY angry with that.
Perhaps she needs someone indpendent to speak to and try to overcome her problems with you and also the problems that affect her life generally. Perhaps you should also stop trying to buy her affection - which is what perhaps she thinks you are doing.
You can persevere without bribery. Ultimately, if she will not change her mind, it is her mind and she is entitled to make her own decisions as to whether she likes/dislikes you/the relationship etc. In which case you will have to learn to live with it.
Please !
Get your grammar right and rephrase the question !!!!!
just be there for her if she needs you. DON'T try to hard. she will come round when shes ready
There could be a frustration/anger here as the original parents are no longer together, you have'nt mentioned who's who? male female? I v'e found that partners with children, the new male to the group will get on much better with the daughter than the son.
don't try so hard ,and in time she will see ,and i would stop giving her everything that is one mistake u will regret down the road.don't try to win her love ,show her love and respect and maybe she will understand and give it back..but u have to be respected ur the adult don't forget that ....
It could be the fact that she resents the fact that you are not her mum/dad, coupled with her disability for which she may also feel angry and resentful, she feels that you are a good target and therefore receive the brunt of it all.
Do try to remember she is also going through puberty and teenagers of 14, especially teenage girls, are a challenge at the best of times with their parents.
Try to be patient, continue to show her love, possibly not give in to all her demands - it sometimes does good to have wants - and then when they have been fulfilled they are much more appreciated.
When you have the opportunity it may help if you, your partner and the daughter, sit down to discuss the situation and give each the chance to air their thoughts and feelings - this may bring up issues that can easily be resolved and help put life back on a more even keel.
Most of all hang on in there and I'm sure you will be rewarded - eventually.
God Bless you all.
she is 14 and will act like one it doesnt matter that shes disabled, its a side factor. treat her like a 14 year old and not like a disabled child.
stop pampering to her every need and spoiling her its probably driving her crazy.
maybe sit down and talk about something she enjoys like music, film, art, books something where you can have common ground.
its worth a try if nothing else
stop trying babe as that is what is fuelling her to have a go its called a teenage thing. You will find when you stop trying she will come round. Good Luck
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