How to say wife that i hate her sister,brother and all her relatives, without making her angry ?
Answers: I dont think its any other way u can say this without pissing her off
You don't, you keep your trap shut for her sake. It's called LOVE!
Don't say you hate them. List all of the things that you hate about them, and then ask her how she would react if that was your family. Do the ol' switcheroo. Usually works.
dont talk with them.This will make ur wife to understand
Don't tell her that you hate them..
Tell her that you feel uncomfortable around them, you
do not relate to them, you do not wish to be around them
and that you do understand any attachment she has to her
family and you will make every effort to be pleasant on her
behalf because you love her but please do not insist that
you be around any of them any more than absolutely necessary..
Just a nice sensitive & diplomatic way of giving her the message.
Bet she already knows it. So what you doing to do about it, arguing with wife won't help. Staying away from her family might, but that might mean staying away from her, too! Good/bad idea?
simply say that u rather not socialize with the family because u know u can not get along
I think that this is more your problem than theirs. When you hate someone (several for you), you are really seeing something in them about yourself that you don't like. Take a moment and ask yourself if you are really happy, do you like your life, self, family, and job. You may find out that you have issues and are finding it easier to say I hate them instead of I hate my life or present situation and need help . Best of luck.
hate will not make life any better. have a relook at the people you hate , you will find they are lovely people in some sense or other and thats why they are here and attached to you. Then why involve your wife in your personal perception about others. Just ask her what you dont like in her relatives as a general question. Like if you dont like hoarse voice in one just ask her how your wife feels about hoarse voice? you are wise enough to give love priority over hate.
JUST TELL YOUR WIFE THAT YOU FEEL EXTRAORDINARY LOVE FOR HER BROTHER, SISTER AND HER OTHER CLOSE RELATIVES...SHE WILL UNDERSTAND THE SATIRE IN YOUR EXPRESSION AND IF SHE MAKES AN ISSUE OF IT YOU CAN ALWAYS POLITELY TURN THE TABLE ON HER BY SAYING COME ON DEAR...YOU ALWAYS MISUNDERSTAND ME...I HOPE THIS TECHNIQUE WILL SATIATE YOUR DESIRE TO TELL YOUR WIFE HOW MUCH YOU HATE HER RELATIVES..WITHOUT MUCH FUSS
Honey, I love you , and you smell like beautiful roses!
But tell me:
Why do your relatives smell like garlic and onions?
avoid going to any functions of her relatives
2
Try and tell her how you enjoy her company and not her relatives due to the manner they behave (Im sure they really behave funny for you to dont like them) she will understand.
But dont be harsh....just say it casually dont get in to arguments.
Just give her divorce papers. after all family blood is thicker then what comes out of your @$$, ooops I meant mouth, well same thing
Shes your wife. You did meet her family before you got married didn't you?!?!??! They are her makeup. They are her substance... Don't hate them. Just love them for their good points however small that may be.
Look for reasons to love them.. after you reach this point you can go about it like this:
a.) Wow your sister is a cool person most of the time.. but man when she does things like that it seems to bother me... Does my little brother do that to you too (relate it back to your own family's nuances) I know it has before to me (personalize the problem)...
b.) Don't do it all at once. Then you come across as critical.
c.) Think about a stranger coming up to you and saying I hate your family, they all suck! and then think about someone who is intimately connected to you saying the same. You need be careful and think about your wife's feelings.
Hope this helps.
Rm
Don;'t ever make that kind of statement to her..
it will make her very upsad..
If you want to be hated by your wife,you go ahead tell her that you dont like her kith and kin.why dont you try not to hate all of them?Are they that bad?
Sit your wife down and explain why you don't like them. Don't just come out and say I hate your family! Tell her about the problems that make you not like them. Tell her that you've been having these feelings for sometime now, and it's bugging you so you have to come out with it because you need her help to get through this. Tell her the reason you come to her with this dilemma is because it is her family that you have a problem with and maybe she could give you some insight on why they act the way they do, after all it is her family. Who should know them better than her?
Your problem is a common problem with most of the people.You have to be very diplomatic, this is a very delicate problem, since it affect your routine too. Bestway is you try not to hate your wife's relatives, atleast you don't show it on face, and neglect or postpone the things related with them. Without hurting your wife you must be able to show your uncomfert.During this whole affair,you must maintain yourself.I think over the period of time your wife may realise your disliking.
just notice her even the small mistakes done by her relatives which will satisy ur own will and even she will not be hurted.
You say it...and i bet your life will become even more difficult! Then u will be including your wife's name in the hate list as well
cos honey....blood is always thicker than water....
u should not have such attitude if she has accept u n ur family wd full respect so u should also accept her family n respect them .u like that she is adjusting in ur family so u should do it 4 her, cause she is ur love never say this 2 her just let her know if any body did any mistake take those thing wisely cause she loves her parents n brother n sister .she will understand u n u will be wd ur love.
No way, you have to tolerate.
whats the need to say that? I mean, its of no use.!!! She wudent like it?
Buy why you hate whole wife's family. Try to improve your behaviour. Hate to any person is not correct, In place of telling your wife you can improve yourself.
whether u hate ur wifes relativeand want to tell her that without making her angry,the best way is not to tell her but try and make up with them.........
You don't, you keep your trap shut for her sake. It's called LOVE!
Don't say you hate them. List all of the things that you hate about them, and then ask her how she would react if that was your family. Do the ol' switcheroo. Usually works.
dont talk with them.This will make ur wife to understand
Don't tell her that you hate them..
Tell her that you feel uncomfortable around them, you
do not relate to them, you do not wish to be around them
and that you do understand any attachment she has to her
family and you will make every effort to be pleasant on her
behalf because you love her but please do not insist that
you be around any of them any more than absolutely necessary..
Just a nice sensitive & diplomatic way of giving her the message.
Bet she already knows it. So what you doing to do about it, arguing with wife won't help. Staying away from her family might, but that might mean staying away from her, too! Good/bad idea?
simply say that u rather not socialize with the family because u know u can not get along
I think that this is more your problem than theirs. When you hate someone (several for you), you are really seeing something in them about yourself that you don't like. Take a moment and ask yourself if you are really happy, do you like your life, self, family, and job. You may find out that you have issues and are finding it easier to say I hate them instead of I hate my life or present situation and need help . Best of luck.
hate will not make life any better. have a relook at the people you hate , you will find they are lovely people in some sense or other and thats why they are here and attached to you. Then why involve your wife in your personal perception about others. Just ask her what you dont like in her relatives as a general question. Like if you dont like hoarse voice in one just ask her how your wife feels about hoarse voice? you are wise enough to give love priority over hate.
JUST TELL YOUR WIFE THAT YOU FEEL EXTRAORDINARY LOVE FOR HER BROTHER, SISTER AND HER OTHER CLOSE RELATIVES...SHE WILL UNDERSTAND THE SATIRE IN YOUR EXPRESSION AND IF SHE MAKES AN ISSUE OF IT YOU CAN ALWAYS POLITELY TURN THE TABLE ON HER BY SAYING COME ON DEAR...YOU ALWAYS MISUNDERSTAND ME...I HOPE THIS TECHNIQUE WILL SATIATE YOUR DESIRE TO TELL YOUR WIFE HOW MUCH YOU HATE HER RELATIVES..WITHOUT MUCH FUSS
Honey, I love you , and you smell like beautiful roses!
But tell me:
Why do your relatives smell like garlic and onions?
avoid going to any functions of her relatives
2
Try and tell her how you enjoy her company and not her relatives due to the manner they behave (Im sure they really behave funny for you to dont like them) she will understand.
But dont be harsh....just say it casually dont get in to arguments.
Just give her divorce papers. after all family blood is thicker then what comes out of your @$$, ooops I meant mouth, well same thing
Shes your wife. You did meet her family before you got married didn't you?!?!??! They are her makeup. They are her substance... Don't hate them. Just love them for their good points however small that may be.
Look for reasons to love them.. after you reach this point you can go about it like this:
a.) Wow your sister is a cool person most of the time.. but man when she does things like that it seems to bother me... Does my little brother do that to you too (relate it back to your own family's nuances) I know it has before to me (personalize the problem)...
b.) Don't do it all at once. Then you come across as critical.
c.) Think about a stranger coming up to you and saying I hate your family, they all suck! and then think about someone who is intimately connected to you saying the same. You need be careful and think about your wife's feelings.
Hope this helps.
Rm
Don;'t ever make that kind of statement to her..
it will make her very upsad..
If you want to be hated by your wife,you go ahead tell her that you dont like her kith and kin.why dont you try not to hate all of them?Are they that bad?
Sit your wife down and explain why you don't like them. Don't just come out and say I hate your family! Tell her about the problems that make you not like them. Tell her that you've been having these feelings for sometime now, and it's bugging you so you have to come out with it because you need her help to get through this. Tell her the reason you come to her with this dilemma is because it is her family that you have a problem with and maybe she could give you some insight on why they act the way they do, after all it is her family. Who should know them better than her?
Your problem is a common problem with most of the people.You have to be very diplomatic, this is a very delicate problem, since it affect your routine too. Bestway is you try not to hate your wife's relatives, atleast you don't show it on face, and neglect or postpone the things related with them. Without hurting your wife you must be able to show your uncomfert.During this whole affair,you must maintain yourself.I think over the period of time your wife may realise your disliking.
just notice her even the small mistakes done by her relatives which will satisy ur own will and even she will not be hurted.
You say it...and i bet your life will become even more difficult! Then u will be including your wife's name in the hate list as well
cos honey....blood is always thicker than water....
u should not have such attitude if she has accept u n ur family wd full respect so u should also accept her family n respect them .u like that she is adjusting in ur family so u should do it 4 her, cause she is ur love never say this 2 her just let her know if any body did any mistake take those thing wisely cause she loves her parents n brother n sister .she will understand u n u will be wd ur love.
No way, you have to tolerate.
whats the need to say that? I mean, its of no use.!!! She wudent like it?
Buy why you hate whole wife's family. Try to improve your behaviour. Hate to any person is not correct, In place of telling your wife you can improve yourself.
whether u hate ur wifes relativeand want to tell her that without making her angry,the best way is not to tell her but try and make up with them.........
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