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What will i do,my husband is keeping his money himself.i am a plain wife taking care of our kids..when i want?


Question: i feel so depressed..looks like he never trust me.
Answers: That is not right.A woman should be in control,old fashioned maybe but that is how it should be.I have my partner's bank card and empty the wages each week and pay bills etc.He gets pocket money.
get ajob, kick the f-cker out
open a credit card
marriage is about SHARING and trust. your hubby obviously has issues with both. talk to him and tell him if he doesn't start, you will have to get a job yourself and dump some of the child-raising responsibilities on him.
Keep in mind that if you are in the states and married 10+ years or more you are legally entitled to 1/2 of all assets. Even if you live in a home that your name isn't on a deed ; you may be entitiled to 1/2 of that as well if you live in a community property state. Time to start making demands.
Maybe it is time to leave him! You are a human being and DESERVE respect!
Trust has to be earned and if ever you break trust it's very hard to get it back...It sounds like a trust issue. Get a job and make your own money. Be responsible with your own finances and perhaps he'll learn to trust you with household funds.
Are you neighbour or of a family? Think it over. Find a job, kick him out and remember retrieve half of his money at divorce, because there are kids to feed.
you need 2 talk clearly about your wishes & requirements 1day,start today.Don't b dishearted .if he loves u , sure he will understand .just b confident.
dont give me no money I will get a job and you pay for the daycare and if that dont work kick his a __ out and go for everything child support and alimoney then see who buckles


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