Can a child live with the mother and a guy she is not married to?

Question: I'm the father and i don't want my child living with another guy that isn't married to the mother.

Answers: unfortunately, yes

yes

yeah. but why don't you go visit him every once in a while

yes if they are divorced.

omg thats life

youll have to take that up with the judge

Yes as long as that man doesn't abuse your child in any way

you could.. tons of people do. but you should talk to the mother/bf about how you're not comfortable with this arrangement. maybe you'll come to a compromise. :) good luck!

Suck it up. Deal with it. There is not law to prevent it or anything you can do about it

It depends. is there a threat to the child?

UGH that just stinks, I'm sorry. The only way you can block this is by taking her back to court and have a judge order it. Or try going for full custody. Good luck!!!!!

You are correct..
She should not subject your kid to this kind of life...
Unfortunately, she can probably do it unless you
can convince a judge to prevent it...

Sure - and you may live with a girlfriend one day and will not want slack for it! Be this guys friend - do it for the child and get trust involved in the situation not resentment and disgust...

I'm sorry. My friend went through an awful divorce and then moved in with her boyfriend, and they went through a nasty break up too. The kids had to endure through both of these. Children should not be dating .

I agree that the situation is less than ideal for your child. Perhaps you should attempt to get custody...however, remember, don't be a hypocrite. If you don't feel that this is good environment for your child, it will not be good to come into your home with a girl friend living there either.

I don't know why men and women both submit their children to casual and/or temporary sexual relationships. It doesn't make them feel secure in their home life. It's hard enough for a child to accept a new stepfather, stepmother or stepsibling...mommy or daddy's live in honey is just not right.

oh well....sorry but you cannot dictate how she lives her life.....unless it is physically or emotionally harming your child, you don't have a leg to stand on...sorry....

YES THEY CAN.

yep

This goes on in society all the time and there is nothing that can be done about it. You can take it to court but they will completely ignore you because you don't have custody of the child and there is not viable reason (unless there is sexual, or physical abuse) for the child not to stay with the mother.

if the kid will tolerate it otherwise if the kid doesn't want to then the kid could come to you anyway im no expert but if the kid didn't want to live that person i believe that should happen

Then bring the child to live with you.
And of course you won't be living with anyone that isn't married to you.

It happens all the time. At this point is it best to remain a positive roll in your child's life.

unfortunatly ya, it doesnt seem right though...

Sorry, but their is no law against it, and it is very common.

Unless you have custody I don't see much you can do about it.

If you were married and divorced you can post a complaint to the courts about it but if you weren't married, there isn't a thing you can do.

Sorry

Yes the child can. As long as the child is not in any danger and being reasonably cared for. Dont be so jealous unless you are truly concerned about the childs welfare. I understand where your coming from but my best advice to you is to spend as much time with your child as you can and try not to waste it badmouthing the others to him/her. Dont put your child in the middle. What your child needs most is you and your time.

sorry, the answer is yes

It's not your decision anymore. I don't think her mother will endanger her childs safety. Unless your child tells you she is being mistreated then there is no need to get jealous.

I think the child should live with the mother anyway beacuse its the childs mother but even better you should make a schedlue so sometimes the childs at your house and sometimes at the mothers!

I dont see a problem with it, I used to go back an forth between my mom and her boyfriend, and my dad..

However if theres a big issue, like hes abusive, or that you can prove your a better parent our the kid wants to live with you, that give you more leverage to get your kid..

Yes , but if you think their is a serious problem with the guy you could bring it to court. The only circumstances I could think is if he was abusive to your child or if he had a violent criminal record or pedophile.

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