My 20 year old sister (I'm the older bro) lives with me and is a stuck up selfish princess. How do I deal?
Answers: >Be a kind person and give her at least 30 days to find a new place to live.<
throw her out
threaten to kick her out if she doesnt change do ittt.
Tell her its time to see the real world. Give her a newspaper and have her go apt shopping.
Kick her to the curb. That'll show her how much of a 'princess' she really is
throw her out her make her pay part of the rent
send her packing
be kind, changes, irreversible type, come fast
Ignore her. Whose home is it, yours or hers? If it's yours you don't have to put up with any junk from her.
tell her to shut up or she'll find herself on the side walk. people like here just need a reality check (the world DOES NOT revolve around them and they think it does).
or you can be nice (which is okay, but not as much fun) and sit her down and tell her to get her attitude into check or she'll have to do all of the chores around the house.
basically? you're older, which means, you gotta take charge.
Slap her in the face and say ***** you better reconize!!!!
well tell her to stop bothering u and or u will call the secerat service on her. or just buy her an apart ment!!!!
Maybe you are an unbearable @sshole as we're only getting one side of the story. Think yaself lucky that you got a baby sister fella.
why is she living with you? does she pay rent?Set some boundaries and if she is too much of a princess, for her own good send her packing.
face her tell her how you really feel and if she doesn't change she can leave no sense in being unhappy in you own home that crazy
i agree kick her *** out....let her get a tatse of the hard life and then she'll wake up to reality.
It might sound harsh but its for her own good.
Don't call her selfish. If you are calling her princess you really love your sister. Pamper her.
Give her the boot, and with resolve. It will be the best thing you can do for her.
Just because you are brother and sister does not mean that you do great living together. As any other adults you have to sit down and talk about expectations, chores, finances--because you basically roommate with your sister. Once you and her agreed on who is responsible for what chores and how to handle the finances, you can relax. Make a written agreement with your sister as far as the financial stuff goes(rent,utilities,phone, etc)and agree with her on who washes the dishes or the laundry etc. Have the financial agreement notarized at a bank(they do it for free if you bank with them), and give your sister a copy. It is all about choices and the one thing I believe is that just because it is family does not mean that we have to accept all the b.s. If your sister does not want to enter into an agreement like that then you should point out to her that she has to do so if she roommates with someone else and that she can make her choice. In all likelihood will she agree and hopefully it will work out once you clarified who was responsible for what chores in the home...Good Luck
HAVE HER HIT THE ROAD.
First stop seeing her that way,if she is particular that is not always a bad thing. unless it is used to avoid and manipulate. But in terms of the selfishness ,about what,her time,money,sharing chores??? She maybe ur baby sister but at 20 she is also an adult and u should hold a family meeting in terms of what u have a right to expect from her. Be firm and stick with it. Also let her know there will be consequences for her actions. Be realistic about what those should be because u have to carry through once u impose them ok Good luck Curious 2006
show her the door , and tell her welcome to the real world baby.
throw her out
threaten to kick her out if she doesnt change do ittt.
Tell her its time to see the real world. Give her a newspaper and have her go apt shopping.
Kick her to the curb. That'll show her how much of a 'princess' she really is
throw her out her make her pay part of the rent
send her packing
be kind, changes, irreversible type, come fast
Ignore her. Whose home is it, yours or hers? If it's yours you don't have to put up with any junk from her.
tell her to shut up or she'll find herself on the side walk. people like here just need a reality check (the world DOES NOT revolve around them and they think it does).
or you can be nice (which is okay, but not as much fun) and sit her down and tell her to get her attitude into check or she'll have to do all of the chores around the house.
basically? you're older, which means, you gotta take charge.
Slap her in the face and say ***** you better reconize!!!!
well tell her to stop bothering u and or u will call the secerat service on her. or just buy her an apart ment!!!!
Maybe you are an unbearable @sshole as we're only getting one side of the story. Think yaself lucky that you got a baby sister fella.
why is she living with you? does she pay rent?Set some boundaries and if she is too much of a princess, for her own good send her packing.
face her tell her how you really feel and if she doesn't change she can leave no sense in being unhappy in you own home that crazy
i agree kick her *** out....let her get a tatse of the hard life and then she'll wake up to reality.
It might sound harsh but its for her own good.
Don't call her selfish. If you are calling her princess you really love your sister. Pamper her.
Give her the boot, and with resolve. It will be the best thing you can do for her.
Just because you are brother and sister does not mean that you do great living together. As any other adults you have to sit down and talk about expectations, chores, finances--because you basically roommate with your sister. Once you and her agreed on who is responsible for what chores and how to handle the finances, you can relax. Make a written agreement with your sister as far as the financial stuff goes(rent,utilities,phone, etc)and agree with her on who washes the dishes or the laundry etc. Have the financial agreement notarized at a bank(they do it for free if you bank with them), and give your sister a copy. It is all about choices and the one thing I believe is that just because it is family does not mean that we have to accept all the b.s. If your sister does not want to enter into an agreement like that then you should point out to her that she has to do so if she roommates with someone else and that she can make her choice. In all likelihood will she agree and hopefully it will work out once you clarified who was responsible for what chores in the home...Good Luck
HAVE HER HIT THE ROAD.
First stop seeing her that way,if she is particular that is not always a bad thing. unless it is used to avoid and manipulate. But in terms of the selfishness ,about what,her time,money,sharing chores??? She maybe ur baby sister but at 20 she is also an adult and u should hold a family meeting in terms of what u have a right to expect from her. Be firm and stick with it. Also let her know there will be consequences for her actions. Be realistic about what those should be because u have to carry through once u impose them ok Good luck Curious 2006
show her the door , and tell her welcome to the real world baby.
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