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Should I tell her?


Question: I have a close girl friend. She is my closest best friend, indeed. However, as time pass by, I think that I really like her. Do you think I should tell her? I cannot afford to lose this friendship but I am really eager to tell her the truth.
Answers: Ask yourself before asking us. If I tell her, is that affect our friendship..? Whats my goal..her friendship or her love..? In my opinion, friendship is divine. love is disaster.
Tell her. Best of friends make best of lovers.
Yeah, time to cash in your chips. If you don't you'll always wonder. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

Oh, and keep your sense of humor.
Think about how telling her might change your relationship. It sounds like you are both comfortable with things just the way they are. Telling her might change that.

BUT --

There's no better person to marry someday than your best friend! If she feels as you do, it's a big win. If she doesn't feel the same way about you, your relationship will certainly change once you tell her how you feel. Weigh the risk, then decide if it's worth the risk.
Yeah I think you should. But be prepared for the consequences if things don't turn out the way you expected it to be. But it's better to try it than to go on life thinking what might have been.... :-)
feel the waters see if there seems to be a spark at all then try and tell her use your heart
go easy and delicately
talk to her and explain to her how you now feel and tell her that you DO NOT WANT TO MESS UP THE FRIENDSHIP


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