Me and my friend had a fight. she normally tells my secrets and i told one of hers. She is ignoring me.?
Question: one of my good friends is really mad at me. she never keeps my secrets and yesterday i spilled one of hers, but it waws a serious secret that i would have felt bad keeping. whenever i get mad at her for telling my secrets, i move on and im friends with her the next day. she has been ignoring me all week and she says she wants me to apologize. i feel like i cant apologize because she never does and its not fair that i have to say soory when she doesnt ever. normally shes the one who does something mean. what should i do to make up with her?
Answers: Again the old saying is always right TWO WRONGS DON'T MAKE A RIGHT if she always tells your secrets and you let her get away with it than apparently you don't mind and by you not saying anything she felt that it's OK to tell your secrets but what works for you does not work for her so she feels betrayed by you sounds to me like you didn't know your friend as well as you thought you did if you really want to remain friends with her apologize and don't tell her anything you don't want anyone else to know and if a friend comes to you and tells you something private then it shall remain between the two of you be the bigger person just watch what you say because it sounds like your friend can't hold water are you sure you want a friend like that friendship is give and take do onto others as you would like them to do unto you
like tel her what u just told me *us* that she does it to you and and she doesnt apologize so she should start too. Then apolagize lol
if you really want to be friends with her again, then i think you should apologize. Just because she tells YOUR secrets all the time doesn't mean you should lower yourself to that level and do the same. Also, i don't think you should tell her secrets anymore if she is always telling them to other people, and especially if she doesn't apologize. And if she is always doing something mean, maybe you shouldn't be friends with her in the first place. Maybe she isn't the right friend for you. I don't think it's right, though, how she never apoligizes to you. Why are you friends with someone like that anyway?
After all, it is your choice though. If you really can't say sorry, even though that is the best choice, then maybe you should tell her how you feel about her always telling your secrets and stuff. Be honest with her.
I hope she starts talking to you again! Good luck!
:)
Answers: Again the old saying is always right TWO WRONGS DON'T MAKE A RIGHT if she always tells your secrets and you let her get away with it than apparently you don't mind and by you not saying anything she felt that it's OK to tell your secrets but what works for you does not work for her so she feels betrayed by you sounds to me like you didn't know your friend as well as you thought you did if you really want to remain friends with her apologize and don't tell her anything you don't want anyone else to know and if a friend comes to you and tells you something private then it shall remain between the two of you be the bigger person just watch what you say because it sounds like your friend can't hold water are you sure you want a friend like that friendship is give and take do onto others as you would like them to do unto you
like tel her what u just told me *us* that she does it to you and and she doesnt apologize so she should start too. Then apolagize lol
if you really want to be friends with her again, then i think you should apologize. Just because she tells YOUR secrets all the time doesn't mean you should lower yourself to that level and do the same. Also, i don't think you should tell her secrets anymore if she is always telling them to other people, and especially if she doesn't apologize. And if she is always doing something mean, maybe you shouldn't be friends with her in the first place. Maybe she isn't the right friend for you. I don't think it's right, though, how she never apoligizes to you. Why are you friends with someone like that anyway?
After all, it is your choice though. If you really can't say sorry, even though that is the best choice, then maybe you should tell her how you feel about her always telling your secrets and stuff. Be honest with her.
I hope she starts talking to you again! Good luck!
:)
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