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I would like opinions on whether or not you think he likes me, please.?


Question: This is long but please read it all. I could really use some opinions because I can't go to people I know about this because I don't want my friend to find out). So there's a guy..not any guy, but my best friend in the world after Jesus Christ. We are EXTREMELY close. Now, he broke up with his ex-girlfriend a few months ago but they still like each other but he told me he's confused and wants to get over her. They still somewhat act like they're dating but they don't talk a lot like they used to. Then there's little ol' me over here, in love with him, and everyone sees it but him. Of course, I deny it, in fear of losing friendship with my best friend. EVERYONE thinks we like each other, we're together, or something of that sort - friends and strangers. He calls me everyday and sometimes we talk the night away. We ALWAYS hang around each other at school when we see each other and at church and I've gone to his house several times.
Answers: I think that he definetely likes you but I'm not sure that he feels the same way that you do about him. ( he may not be as clueless as you think, he could just pretend its not there) I also feel that he is obviously not over this past gf and moving in now could only make you a rebound and ruin your great friendship. I would try and not talk to him so much, distance yourself a little, give him some space to come to terms with his current situation and let things just work themselves out...Best of luck!
It seems to me, that this guy is indeed a good friend, and thinks of you as a close friend also. He is upset and hurt by the break-up and is looking to you for advice. The feelings you have for him may not be a boy friend kind of love....your heart and head might be getting those types of feelings mixed up. Just continue to be a good friend to him, and if you are ment to be together...it will happen in time!
This is a hard question since you need a little bit more details...did you ever date before or be close? what happened after? He may be using you for advice but at the same time he cares about you....sometimes we appreciate people more when we see them with someone else, if he sees you with someone else and is jealous then you should talk about why? if you see him with someone else it bothers you too, and may be hard to admit, but just stay friends and ask him about what his goals are and what he wants in the future and you will know......:o)
i think you need to get some other friends, you need more then 1 friend. i also think he doesn't like you. he's had a gf, he knows how to show a girl he likes her, and i think telling someone they looked pretty and telling them they love you doesnt' mean anything other than that. i have guy friends with gf's, who tell me they love me, or tell me i'm hot, and i know it's just in a friend to friend way. they love there gf's, but you can still tell other girls nice stuff to, w/out liking them.


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