Why would a man tell a woman he loves her, if hes not sure if he means it?
Question: we are in a relationship and he got a little tipsy and told me he loves me and dosnt remember saying it and im scared that he didnt mean it
Answers: In my opinion he didn't mean it. Instead of apologizing it was a mistake, he said he didn't remember saying it. Some people don't have enough courage to admit. Forget is the easiest excuse which save him from explaining anything. You deserve someone better!
He likes to be score thats all.
lol.. I am not laughing at you. It reminds me of my husband and I. He did the same thing. His reason was that he was waiting for the right time and he blurted it out after a few drinks and he felt he ruined the moment.
We have been married for 10 years now.
He said it because it made you happy and he wanted someting in return.
Love is a feeling so strong that there can be no doubt as to whether u r in love or not....
so the question of not being sure doesnt arise..
he doesnt rememeber cuz he was lying.
He either wants something e.g. sex, stability or a great back rub etc. Or perhaps he is learning to “mean” it and therefore says it to see how he actually feels about the concept. Love is a huge commitment and sometimes it takes a-lot of work to truly understand where to fit within the equation. I would also like to add that love isn’t what you are getting from someone else but what you are giving to them. True love doesn’t require conditional in-put, it’s about up-lifting and edifying another person with whom you have a relationship with.
By the way, PinkIsAttitude, someday you’ll find someone who’ll rock your world. For sure. Not every guy is a hater.
If he can't say it when he's sober, he didn't mean it. Was it the I love you in the same sing song as Whaaaaaatsssss' Uuuuupp? or the I love you, Man kind of thing? That's just friendship talk.
He may have said it because he thought that's what you wanted to hear. On the other hand, the alcohol may have lowered his inhibitions and allowed him to express feelings that frighten him when he is sober.
Either way, he should be willing to say it when he's sober if he really means it. If not, whether he has feelings for you or not, there is some deeper issue. If he doesn't have feelings for you, it could mean he is stringing you along. If he does, it could mean he has difficulty expressing his feelings. These are important things to be aware of as you continue in this relationship. If you become serious with him, they will need to be dealt with.
Dr. Barb Nefer, http://www,bnlifeskills.com
He may have felt pressured into it from something said before he got intoxicated. If not you know what they say, you say, when you're drunk, what you feel when you're sober . Take it for what it's worth.
I believe if he meant it, it should NOT have been said when it did, he either has bad timeing or just a player.
Answers: In my opinion he didn't mean it. Instead of apologizing it was a mistake, he said he didn't remember saying it. Some people don't have enough courage to admit. Forget is the easiest excuse which save him from explaining anything. You deserve someone better!
He likes to be score thats all.
lol.. I am not laughing at you. It reminds me of my husband and I. He did the same thing. His reason was that he was waiting for the right time and he blurted it out after a few drinks and he felt he ruined the moment.
We have been married for 10 years now.
He said it because it made you happy and he wanted someting in return.
Love is a feeling so strong that there can be no doubt as to whether u r in love or not....
so the question of not being sure doesnt arise..
he doesnt rememeber cuz he was lying.
He either wants something e.g. sex, stability or a great back rub etc. Or perhaps he is learning to “mean” it and therefore says it to see how he actually feels about the concept. Love is a huge commitment and sometimes it takes a-lot of work to truly understand where to fit within the equation. I would also like to add that love isn’t what you are getting from someone else but what you are giving to them. True love doesn’t require conditional in-put, it’s about up-lifting and edifying another person with whom you have a relationship with.
By the way, PinkIsAttitude, someday you’ll find someone who’ll rock your world. For sure. Not every guy is a hater.
If he can't say it when he's sober, he didn't mean it. Was it the I love you in the same sing song as Whaaaaaatsssss' Uuuuupp? or the I love you, Man kind of thing? That's just friendship talk.
He may have said it because he thought that's what you wanted to hear. On the other hand, the alcohol may have lowered his inhibitions and allowed him to express feelings that frighten him when he is sober.
Either way, he should be willing to say it when he's sober if he really means it. If not, whether he has feelings for you or not, there is some deeper issue. If he doesn't have feelings for you, it could mean he is stringing you along. If he does, it could mean he has difficulty expressing his feelings. These are important things to be aware of as you continue in this relationship. If you become serious with him, they will need to be dealt with.
Dr. Barb Nefer, http://www,bnlifeskills.com
He may have felt pressured into it from something said before he got intoxicated. If not you know what they say, you say, when you're drunk, what you feel when you're sober . Take it for what it's worth.
I believe if he meant it, it should NOT have been said when it did, he either has bad timeing or just a player.
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