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To tell or not to tell my friend?


Question: My friend wants me to go to court to testify on her behalf but I dont know that I want too. She is going thru a custody issue with her ex. Problem is way back years ago I had a friends with benefits type relationship with her ex and I misscarried his baby. She doesn't know anything about it as he was my friend first and she only became my friend cuz he started dating her. Now that they are about to go to court should I tell her about my relationship with him? I am afraid it might come out in court and that would be bad. I never told her cuz I really did not think it mattered. He and I are still friends. What should I do??
Answers: Maybe you should just stay out of the middle of it. Give her support, but just tell her that you rather just not get involoved, unless he did something serious to her.
You need to be honest and tell her if you are her true friend and if she is your friend she will forgive you! Even if it may hurt you!!!!
you should have told her the first time they started dating. it is up to you what you want to testify or not, so i cannot help you there. do what you think is best for you and when you tell about the miscarriage, just let her know that you are sorry you waited so long to tell. let her know that you will always be here for her,testimony or not. if she is a true friend, she will understand and respect the decision you make.and hopefully she also understands that you regret not telling about the miscarriage later then sooner. do what you feel is best, girl!
Tell her and be extremely apoligetic. you made a mistake, you no it, so make sure she knows that you realized how much you did. that should ease her anger a bit.
Very tacky. Its kind of late to be confessing to such a thing. How could you be friends all that time and not tell. It is something that would be eating away at the conscience in my book. Look good luck but don't bank on her still being your friend after.
I think you should honestly tell her. You don't want to have to go to court and tell them you lied to her. It would make you look bad. So you should tell her and I don't think you should get in the middle of this. If he is still your friend. He will feel betrayed that you're helping her.
uhh u should tell her but in an honest way tell her y u didnt tell her before and testify wat would be best for u and ur guys friendship ik u will make the right choices cuz i have confidence in u
I think you should tell your friend the truth about your past relationship with her now ex. and even if do go to court on her behalf it will only show that you have been a better friend to him but you still don't think that he deserves custody it just may benefit her in the long run just have her attorney to bring it up first.


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