How do you get a good rep back?
Question: This year I have been really changing and there was this girl I got in a fight with but before we were best friends and I told her I went down on a certain person and she told everyone when we were in the fight.+ of course she said a whole bunch of other crap that wasn't true.Now everyone thinks I am the biggest **** ever. HELP!!!
Answers: There is absolutely nothing you can do to get your reputation back. People are going to believe the worse about others - just human nature. All you can do is keep living your life in a respectable manner. Go about your business and be happy. Time alone will take care of that. Just don't share your intimates with anyone.
Three words: High School Ends! Rumors and reps come and go and people grow and eventually don't care anymore.
Don't do things that further hurt you rep and then ask her if she is such a good friend to take the rumors back and say some good stuff about you
Be good for a very long time.
don't tell personal info to anyone --- since this is already out, ignore it --- respond with: people believe everything they hear --- did you know I won the lottery? Make a joke of it and from then on behave yourself....
just lay back on everything bad you do and start showing your good side more often,people may not forget but they will compare what they heard and what they see so if you do a good job people might just forget about it.
words are just words,but people in the end judge you by your deeds.live a good life,people will see that you are not what you were called.
to put it quickly and simply:
trust and reputations take years to build but seconds to destroy
Only you can change what youve done. Dont let the fear of striking out keep you from playing and always remember that even when people sya theyre not your friend anymore, time heals all wouds.. Hope it works for you
it wont follow you forever... and I am sure that all those that think bad of you are no saints them selves... but the best thing to do would be to keep on changing.. start being the girl that has the rep. of saying NO... do a 100% turn around.. you will think more of urself so therefor others Willl too.. it wil take a little time and effort but I know you can do it... give your self a break, we all make mistakes in life and it will soon pass...take slow baby steps and think about things 1 at a time.. be urself but a better you !!!! God bless
Ignore it. Your rep is very important right now. Make sure that you NEVER do anything with any guy...EVER. The guy will tell everyone and then your friend will be able to say to her friends, I told you so! . You told her something very personal which should have never been discussed in the first place. Remember, rumors run fast and furious at your age. You will have to be mature and level headed about everything from here on out. Keep your legs crossed and keep your mouth shut! Only say positive things about people, never negative. Honey gets a person further than vinegar. Find a new crowd and start anew. Just do not share personal things with anyone because high school girls cannot and will not ever keep a secret. A hard lesson to learn, but true.
First i must applaud for the changes,I hope for a better within self!(smile)People will be people when it comes down to drama!And,the X-friend!whom thought she was slaying you by telling your naughty secret,can be forgiven!we tend to say messed up crap in the heat of confrontation like such,but getting the rep back,girl hold your head up high,regards to what anyone think,say or try to do to degrade you,lesson learned,You will know whom your true friends!are,And you will have learn to watch a bit better,of how people really are.
who Ceres what other people think about you i think your sexy. Come to Colorado and I'll treat you right
Answers: There is absolutely nothing you can do to get your reputation back. People are going to believe the worse about others - just human nature. All you can do is keep living your life in a respectable manner. Go about your business and be happy. Time alone will take care of that. Just don't share your intimates with anyone.
Three words: High School Ends! Rumors and reps come and go and people grow and eventually don't care anymore.
Don't do things that further hurt you rep and then ask her if she is such a good friend to take the rumors back and say some good stuff about you
Be good for a very long time.
don't tell personal info to anyone --- since this is already out, ignore it --- respond with: people believe everything they hear --- did you know I won the lottery? Make a joke of it and from then on behave yourself....
just lay back on everything bad you do and start showing your good side more often,people may not forget but they will compare what they heard and what they see so if you do a good job people might just forget about it.
words are just words,but people in the end judge you by your deeds.live a good life,people will see that you are not what you were called.
to put it quickly and simply:
trust and reputations take years to build but seconds to destroy
Only you can change what youve done. Dont let the fear of striking out keep you from playing and always remember that even when people sya theyre not your friend anymore, time heals all wouds.. Hope it works for you
it wont follow you forever... and I am sure that all those that think bad of you are no saints them selves... but the best thing to do would be to keep on changing.. start being the girl that has the rep. of saying NO... do a 100% turn around.. you will think more of urself so therefor others Willl too.. it wil take a little time and effort but I know you can do it... give your self a break, we all make mistakes in life and it will soon pass...take slow baby steps and think about things 1 at a time.. be urself but a better you !!!! God bless
Ignore it. Your rep is very important right now. Make sure that you NEVER do anything with any guy...EVER. The guy will tell everyone and then your friend will be able to say to her friends, I told you so! . You told her something very personal which should have never been discussed in the first place. Remember, rumors run fast and furious at your age. You will have to be mature and level headed about everything from here on out. Keep your legs crossed and keep your mouth shut! Only say positive things about people, never negative. Honey gets a person further than vinegar. Find a new crowd and start anew. Just do not share personal things with anyone because high school girls cannot and will not ever keep a secret. A hard lesson to learn, but true.
First i must applaud for the changes,I hope for a better within self!(smile)People will be people when it comes down to drama!And,the X-friend!whom thought she was slaying you by telling your naughty secret,can be forgiven!we tend to say messed up crap in the heat of confrontation like such,but getting the rep back,girl hold your head up high,regards to what anyone think,say or try to do to degrade you,lesson learned,You will know whom your true friends!are,And you will have learn to watch a bit better,of how people really are.
who Ceres what other people think about you i think your sexy. Come to Colorado and I'll treat you right
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