My friend finally talked to me...but she was real harsh, saying i need to realize what i am doing?
Question: she said i need to realize she doesnt always want to talk to me, which is fine. But she said some mean things--she said i make her sound like the bad guy--but i wasnt trying to. Now she says we r good but im still kind of worried we arent. any advice?
Answers: take a break from worrying and slack off toward the friend.
EVERYONE needs a break form someone. This doesn't mean she stopped like are caring abour you.
Give you some space and you will see that things will get better, if you let it alone..
I have a awesome friend of 25 yrs., we need a break from each other at times. I know she is there when I need her and she knows I'm there for her. We just don't spend every moment with each other or on the phone day and night.
Your friend and you will be just fine..
apparently your friend thinks you need to chill out and quit worrying so much so do it.
You guys are not friends anymore, sorry.
Find a new friend. Doesn't sound like much of a friend to me!
A real relationship has its ups and downs. A phoney relationship is superficial and you think everything is okay.
Consider yourself lucky to have a real relationship when sometimes you are on the outs. because you will find that is the way it is when you are an adult.
Some people don't make good friends, so if she is saying bad things about you to your face i can only imagine what she says behind your back!
say bye 2 her
Go to her and ask her what you have done. if she tells you try improving your self... and try and do more for her then you did before afta all shez your mate
Its cool, trust me she is cool. But, with her saying that you make her sound like the bad guy says many things. Maybe you have done things to her that you dont realize. You can question her on these things, but wait a few days. Maybe you annoy her alittle(sometimes). My best friend annoys me, but I still love him to death.
For now, you probably should put some distance between the two of you. Sometimes, it not a good idea to spen a lot of time with the same person. That seems to be what she is feeling. She probably needs her alone time space.
Do you really need a friend like this? Maybe it's time to cut your losses & find a new friend! A true friend will talk to you whenever you need to talk, will never say mean things and will always be there for you. I would cool it for a while and try to find new people to hang out with. Stay pals but on your terms to avoid getting hurt like this again!
im not sure if i completely understand the story. if you're saying that one minute shes all being mean to you and the next minute shes saying that you and her are ok and you're friends again then you need to tell her that you're not ok and tell her she needs to realize that in a friendship there is more than one person so that means there is more than just her own feelings that are going to be affected...if she realizes that you were affected too, tell her about how you felt. if she doesn't and she starts acting mean again, just leave don't look back. she'll eventually come to her senses
Answers: take a break from worrying and slack off toward the friend.
EVERYONE needs a break form someone. This doesn't mean she stopped like are caring abour you.
Give you some space and you will see that things will get better, if you let it alone..
I have a awesome friend of 25 yrs., we need a break from each other at times. I know she is there when I need her and she knows I'm there for her. We just don't spend every moment with each other or on the phone day and night.
Your friend and you will be just fine..
apparently your friend thinks you need to chill out and quit worrying so much so do it.
You guys are not friends anymore, sorry.
Find a new friend. Doesn't sound like much of a friend to me!
A real relationship has its ups and downs. A phoney relationship is superficial and you think everything is okay.
Consider yourself lucky to have a real relationship when sometimes you are on the outs. because you will find that is the way it is when you are an adult.
Some people don't make good friends, so if she is saying bad things about you to your face i can only imagine what she says behind your back!
say bye 2 her
Go to her and ask her what you have done. if she tells you try improving your self... and try and do more for her then you did before afta all shez your mate
Its cool, trust me she is cool. But, with her saying that you make her sound like the bad guy says many things. Maybe you have done things to her that you dont realize. You can question her on these things, but wait a few days. Maybe you annoy her alittle(sometimes). My best friend annoys me, but I still love him to death.
For now, you probably should put some distance between the two of you. Sometimes, it not a good idea to spen a lot of time with the same person. That seems to be what she is feeling. She probably needs her alone time space.
Do you really need a friend like this? Maybe it's time to cut your losses & find a new friend! A true friend will talk to you whenever you need to talk, will never say mean things and will always be there for you. I would cool it for a while and try to find new people to hang out with. Stay pals but on your terms to avoid getting hurt like this again!
im not sure if i completely understand the story. if you're saying that one minute shes all being mean to you and the next minute shes saying that you and her are ok and you're friends again then you need to tell her that you're not ok and tell her she needs to realize that in a friendship there is more than one person so that means there is more than just her own feelings that are going to be affected...if she realizes that you were affected too, tell her about how you felt. if she doesn't and she starts acting mean again, just leave don't look back. she'll eventually come to her senses
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