I think im gay but im not sure?
Question: im sexually, mentally. physcially, attracted to my best friend but im sure i mean shes a girl and im a girl so in a way its wrong but right. Idk what to do because i dont know if shes bi or a lesbian or whatever. but what should i do i think im in love with her
Answers: I didn't know until my best friend came on to me and now I like both women & men
maybe you just love her as a friend???
you will know if you are...i am bi and i new i loved both girls and guy i just was not open to it for a long time...just such your soul and you will know!
You should like who you want to like.
Don't think about people making fun of you if you do happen to be gay.
I think you should just go with the flow.
And see what happens.
Get her drunk and tell her how you feel about her. Being drunk is the easiest way to talk to somebody about those kinds of things. Who knows, she may feel the same way about you.
No one can tell you that! You have to decide for yourself.
Yeah, your gay.
maybe you should play truth or dare one night and if she says truth then ask her if she is bi,lesbian,or straight
I'm not a fan of the gay lifestyle. I'm totally straight (I have a husband--he's a man!!!) I hope for your sake you're just confused. Have you had problems with men in the past? Have you been hurt one too many times. There are a lot of things we may have in our secret fantasies that are never meant to be acted upon.
My advise to you would be to pray to God & ask him for answers. Only he can help give you the answer to your problem not someone on the internet.
Please don't give in to sinful lusts!!
If you are close enough to be best friends you should already know if she is gay. If you don't know that much about her maybe you don't know her well enough to approach her with that. I would be careful, you can lose a friend.
listen honey, you need to know how she feels about this too. If she's your best friend you must know if she is bi or lesbian, right? Sometimes we feel strong for close people and it is just this, you feel like she means so much for you. And other times love and attraction is just there regardless of your gender. Listen to you heart! and follow it, do not be afraid to ask and reveal. Be true to yourself. good luck! Ah and one more thing - if this has never before happen and she is the only female you have evr been atracted to do not be fast in labeling yourself gay. We are human and we get attracted by beutiful other human beeigns. Do not worry about it . you are not doing anything wrong or unknown to the rest of the world.
Don't worry about trying to define what you are. You don't need to feel pressured to define yourself as gay, straight, bi, whatever. It doesn't matter what you call it, the only thing that matters is how you feel.
The thing with your friend could be a difficult situation. How would she react if she knew you were attracted to her? How do you think it would affect the friendship? Is this something that you want to discuss with her? You should probably get a better idea of her own feelings before telling her how you feel.
your words sound faithful and deep, and I think you are in a real love , don't lose it because of that poor sort of classifications . live as you like and let others say whatever they say !!
wow! b4 i give u advise does she no this? being gay is a disision that u and only u can make and change. i no its bot da rigth thing to do or be but juss go wit ur instincts. try to let her no how ur feeling without cuming on too strong. i wish u the best of luck!!!
Bi-sexuality and Lesbianism or being gay is something you are born with. Noone can just wake up one morning and decide they are going to be gay or bisexual. I am definitely straight BUT I have known people who are gay and bi-sexual and some who have though they are gay or bisexual BUT really were not sometimes people do it for attention or because they are confused.
I say that if you're attracted to her that much...just go with it...cause its so hard to find that. You can find someone that you're attracted to physically but mentally its just not there or vis versa. Don't look at it as being bi, homosexual or heterosexual...see it as these incredible feelings for her. If you bind yourself to sexual orientation than you're not being true to yourself.
Answers: I didn't know until my best friend came on to me and now I like both women & men
maybe you just love her as a friend???
you will know if you are...i am bi and i new i loved both girls and guy i just was not open to it for a long time...just such your soul and you will know!
You should like who you want to like.
Don't think about people making fun of you if you do happen to be gay.
I think you should just go with the flow.
And see what happens.
Get her drunk and tell her how you feel about her. Being drunk is the easiest way to talk to somebody about those kinds of things. Who knows, she may feel the same way about you.
No one can tell you that! You have to decide for yourself.
Yeah, your gay.
maybe you should play truth or dare one night and if she says truth then ask her if she is bi,lesbian,or straight
I'm not a fan of the gay lifestyle. I'm totally straight (I have a husband--he's a man!!!) I hope for your sake you're just confused. Have you had problems with men in the past? Have you been hurt one too many times. There are a lot of things we may have in our secret fantasies that are never meant to be acted upon.
My advise to you would be to pray to God & ask him for answers. Only he can help give you the answer to your problem not someone on the internet.
Please don't give in to sinful lusts!!
If you are close enough to be best friends you should already know if she is gay. If you don't know that much about her maybe you don't know her well enough to approach her with that. I would be careful, you can lose a friend.
listen honey, you need to know how she feels about this too. If she's your best friend you must know if she is bi or lesbian, right? Sometimes we feel strong for close people and it is just this, you feel like she means so much for you. And other times love and attraction is just there regardless of your gender. Listen to you heart! and follow it, do not be afraid to ask and reveal. Be true to yourself. good luck! Ah and one more thing - if this has never before happen and she is the only female you have evr been atracted to do not be fast in labeling yourself gay. We are human and we get attracted by beutiful other human beeigns. Do not worry about it . you are not doing anything wrong or unknown to the rest of the world.
Don't worry about trying to define what you are. You don't need to feel pressured to define yourself as gay, straight, bi, whatever. It doesn't matter what you call it, the only thing that matters is how you feel.
The thing with your friend could be a difficult situation. How would she react if she knew you were attracted to her? How do you think it would affect the friendship? Is this something that you want to discuss with her? You should probably get a better idea of her own feelings before telling her how you feel.
your words sound faithful and deep, and I think you are in a real love , don't lose it because of that poor sort of classifications . live as you like and let others say whatever they say !!
wow! b4 i give u advise does she no this? being gay is a disision that u and only u can make and change. i no its bot da rigth thing to do or be but juss go wit ur instincts. try to let her no how ur feeling without cuming on too strong. i wish u the best of luck!!!
Bi-sexuality and Lesbianism or being gay is something you are born with. Noone can just wake up one morning and decide they are going to be gay or bisexual. I am definitely straight BUT I have known people who are gay and bi-sexual and some who have though they are gay or bisexual BUT really were not sometimes people do it for attention or because they are confused.
I say that if you're attracted to her that much...just go with it...cause its so hard to find that. You can find someone that you're attracted to physically but mentally its just not there or vis versa. Don't look at it as being bi, homosexual or heterosexual...see it as these incredible feelings for her. If you bind yourself to sexual orientation than you're not being true to yourself.
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