Why do people lose the romance?
Question: What I mean is why do people think that once they move in together that the romance needs to stop? Why only do the great stuff during the dating ritual?
Answers: Dating is a mating dance and we show each other our best . Once marriage is achieved, it's too easy to fall into routine . You need time for yourselves to keep the romance alive. Have someone babysit and go out for dinner & a movie once a month or so. Go dancing, if that's what you used to do. Couples will stop doing some of the fun things they did before they got married. They need to keep doing the fun things together.
If the Great Stuff has stopped, then make it start again. There are two people here. Think back and remember one thing you did that was just too fun. Then do it again. Think of something new, perhaps, what can you do with a roll of clear Saran Wrap? A squirt bottle of Chocolate syrup? Or just drive out into the country and look at the cows, and give them names.
When you movin in together ... You have decided to share expenses, share cleaning,share bill paying,
share cooking, share cleaning, share friends...
Your trial relationship, so you can test the other person.
Not to much romantic about that.
Hey... Even the sex is not so great :(
Find a life partner that you enjoy period!
If they are of any quality you will have to marry them.
get The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman,
great book, easy read, start the romance again....
Answers: Dating is a mating dance and we show each other our best . Once marriage is achieved, it's too easy to fall into routine . You need time for yourselves to keep the romance alive. Have someone babysit and go out for dinner & a movie once a month or so. Go dancing, if that's what you used to do. Couples will stop doing some of the fun things they did before they got married. They need to keep doing the fun things together.
If the Great Stuff has stopped, then make it start again. There are two people here. Think back and remember one thing you did that was just too fun. Then do it again. Think of something new, perhaps, what can you do with a roll of clear Saran Wrap? A squirt bottle of Chocolate syrup? Or just drive out into the country and look at the cows, and give them names.
When you movin in together ... You have decided to share expenses, share cleaning,share bill paying,
share cooking, share cleaning, share friends...
Your trial relationship, so you can test the other person.
Not to much romantic about that.
Hey... Even the sex is not so great :(
Find a life partner that you enjoy period!
If they are of any quality you will have to marry them.
get The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman,
great book, easy read, start the romance again....
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