This boy keeps asking me out and i keep saying no,how do i let him down gently?
Question: my best friend has a major crush on him,and im only 13-i dont want a boyfriend yet!
Answers: Tell him that you appreciate his interest, but that you do not want a boyfriend. If he persists, tell him that you would prefer that he leaves you alone. If he still keeps it up, you need to be more assertive, and if it comes down to it, nasty. Some people don't take gentle hints.
And I think you're wise to realize that, at 13, you're not ready for a boyfriend!
Just keep saying no,he'll get it one of those times.
I don't think that there is a way to let him down gently. You can tell him that you aren't ready for a boyfriend right now, and telling him the truth is the best, and it also doesn't reflect negatively on him.
Be persistent and say no every time. Don't do what you don't want to do just to 'be nice' to him. He won't understand.
The best way to get him off your back is to get him and your best friend together!
don't be gental when he asks you again sit him down and tel him strait out you don't like him you never have and you never will
You could let him down easily but sometimes boys just get the hint. You may have to tell him bluntly what your feelings towards him are (or aren't in this case). Tell him exactly what you said about only being 13 and not being ready for a boyfriend.
Sometimes being gentle is quite useless. So that is when being real comes in. First tell him not to take it too personal. After that, state what you are thinking... feel me?
okay, if he doesnt want to stop just be firm on saying no! maybe after one year he'll finally get it that you dont wanna go out with him! lolz
Tell him simply it is never going to work-but you may be friends with him. ONLY frreinds because your not interested in him like that. You never know because you might start to like him.
Answers: Tell him that you appreciate his interest, but that you do not want a boyfriend. If he persists, tell him that you would prefer that he leaves you alone. If he still keeps it up, you need to be more assertive, and if it comes down to it, nasty. Some people don't take gentle hints.
And I think you're wise to realize that, at 13, you're not ready for a boyfriend!
Just keep saying no,he'll get it one of those times.
I don't think that there is a way to let him down gently. You can tell him that you aren't ready for a boyfriend right now, and telling him the truth is the best, and it also doesn't reflect negatively on him.
Be persistent and say no every time. Don't do what you don't want to do just to 'be nice' to him. He won't understand.
The best way to get him off your back is to get him and your best friend together!
don't be gental when he asks you again sit him down and tel him strait out you don't like him you never have and you never will
You could let him down easily but sometimes boys just get the hint. You may have to tell him bluntly what your feelings towards him are (or aren't in this case). Tell him exactly what you said about only being 13 and not being ready for a boyfriend.
Sometimes being gentle is quite useless. So that is when being real comes in. First tell him not to take it too personal. After that, state what you are thinking... feel me?
okay, if he doesnt want to stop just be firm on saying no! maybe after one year he'll finally get it that you dont wanna go out with him! lolz
Tell him simply it is never going to work-but you may be friends with him. ONLY frreinds because your not interested in him like that. You never know because you might start to like him.
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