Is it him or me?

Question: ok me and this guy dated for about 3 years and we were very serious..we had acoul ebreak ups that didnt last long and we were always together..he even propsed to me...well we just got back together after a sorta long break up and it was going great...he callled me one night lie a week after we got together and said we couldnt be together anymore...he said he made out with this girl (who i hated i the first place) and waswith her now...he just threw everything away...well they broke up a little bit later and now he started going out with another girl...theyve been going out for like 2 months now butshe lives like 4 hours away. well he says he is so inlove with or wutev but he paid this guy 15 dollars to come pick him up so he coul come over to see me...when he got to my place it was back when we were complteely inlove...he was so sensual and said he loved me in a way ive never heard him say it b4...he said he made a istake and wants to get back with me.. wut hould i do?

Answers: let him go! he is only playing games with you

Sounds like you're letting him play the field at your expense. He gets to check out the other ladies, believing you'll be there when he's done. I don't see a long-term benefit for you here.

leave him now right now he is having his cake and eating it too of course he will tell you whatever he can to keep you hanging on so in case it doesnt work with the new girl he has a back up trust me honey get out while you can do you really want a man who will dump you at the drop of a dime then still want to be with you when he has another girl if hes cheating on her he will probably be cheating on you i have been in your shoes so i know you love him and want to believe what he says but he is a liar dont get back with him stop calling him and dont return his calls dont answer the door if he shows up an block emails and text messages find you a new man and move on with your life you will get over him in time and your life will be better with him not in it trust me i went back and regretted it everyday till i finallty let him go

I don't think this is someone a nice girl should be having anything to do with. I essentially pulled this (explitive) when I was a teenager on this woman ten years older than me. I used her for food and sex. Then she gave me 4grand. I dated her friends from work. I had sex with other women. All I had to do was show up at her house and sorta make sexual innuendo and she would be interested in me that way again.

I was wrong for my actions.

This boy, I'm sorry, he is just useing you he doesn't really love you.

go with him.

You know the answer to this Dear. Get Rid of the Scumbag!! you don't need him to make you feel special, yourself are special to you!!.

if you love him give him another chance don't expect much but try it and see if it works if it don't it wasn't meant to be. but the saying if you love something let it go if it comes by then its for real. good luck and i hope it works out for you.

lady if he's really for real you dont have to take him back its his fault not yours and if he inst y let him make a fool of you
i think you should dump his @$$ unless you want him yourself and even then dont take him back in without leting him understand that u do it out of your good heart not for believing him

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