Am I in love and Is God with me in this relationship?........plz help me.......It's been 1 year since I'm

Question: I'm born again and dwelt in a beautiful fellowship having only youth. As the days gone by I found a peculiar interest in my worship leader because I like the way she worships God. It was just a respect and nothing else ran into my mind. But after few months I started to have dreams of only two people one is my pastor and the other is this girl and everyday it happened. So I started having a special interest in this girl and though our congregation is a beautiful one with many young ones worshipping God, this girl is not so handsome and fair, you understand what I mean but my eyes are fixed on this one girl I don't know why though there are many beautiful girls out there. Slowly I had some desires in my heart like seeing her from a very near distance and I know it would be only a dream because I have no access to meet her personally. But I don't know how One day she ended up at my workplace though we couldn't talk I could gaze at closeup distance. Is this love? Is this all from God.

Answers: With your detailed story I feel that your dreams have made the whole story into a love relationship and your faith in God is so high.......Do you really think that God was fulfilling your desire or is it a coincidence.......I wanted to know more details but I think you didn't have space to write more anyways............If God is with you who can be against you..........Just hang on buddy you will come with flying colours and as you say she isn't so handsome or beautiful then how do you still love her........It is surely a spiritual business. It is a triangle between You, girl and God...........

only you can answer that. just approach her, conversate with her, see if ya'll hit it off.

pray on it read your bible and really think and pray

ask her out.

I think sence you have been saved, the question you pose should be asked to the Lord

You know what is the right thing to do for yourself. Now all you have to do is just do it.

Maybe or maybe not God has something to do with your feelings. I believe it is written for you to get better acquainted and possibly a long term relationship with smiles and happyness. Looks is only skin deep. It is how she makes you feel and you wanting to give uncondtionally. Call it what you like, but do your homework and it will work out for you! Tell her she is so pretty and you like what you see and feel/ I wish you the best!

one year since you what?? the suspense dude!!
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It's awfull,I've been were you are and the one thing I regret most is not speaking,the longer you stand on the edge the less likly you will be to jump 'cause it will seem like a bigger and bigger hurdle till you sweat and dream of opening your heart to her and it will all make sense to you till you do and it totaly wierds her out 'cause you've let it build up in you too far.
I grew up around wild animals and this I know,if you're scared they will be too. We are the same.
wish you the best,just speak fast before you go crazy!!
you may be suprised at how she's hoping you do.
there will never be the right moment.
you make the moment

Of couse God is with you in your relationship.In the bible god says he is always with you rather you're doing good are bad it just rather or not you believe in him or not.If you claim you love this person then you shouldn't have any doubt
either you love this person or you don't.

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