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I need some help please.?


Question: I didn't seen my boyfriend for 19 days and last night was the first time I had seen him in 19 days and this girl in our church who makes me and myles mad was at church and well he kinda ignored me all day long and he used excuses like i am going to see if my dad is ready to go and junk like that. Well last night after church we went out to eat and Kayley (the enoying girl) went. When I got there they were all talking and I sat down at the table and sat there for over 30 min. and he didn't say a word to me so I got up. Then he said something like Rachel something. HE didn't even ask what was wrong. But he talked to this girl all night. Here I am we haven't seen eachother in 19days and he is talking to the girl he hates more than anything in the world and ignoring me. I asked him if he still liked me and he said yes but he didn't act like it. After a while he started talking to me but not much. Then afterwards I told the girl that he talked to her & ignored me she just laughed.
Answers: hon, by the way you spell annoying i can tell that this is just a high school love . in a year you probably wont even like him any more.
GIRL LET HIM GO IT LOOKS LIKE THE GIRL HE HATED BECAME HIS GOOD FRIEND AND HE PROBABLY HAS A CRUSH ON HER THATS WHY HE WONT PAY ANY ATTENTION TO YOU THERE ARE PLENTY MEN IN THE SEA AND IM SURE YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE ELSE IF YOU GIVE YOURSELF THAT CHANCE.
maybe hes just not interested in you anymore
take it easy let him go if he wants too.
What you need to do is this... You have to walk up to him, and tell him politely that you're not going to take any of this treatment from him. I know you're in love with him, girl, but can you imagine what it would be like in the future, having him call you his girlfriend but ignoring you in front of others? Sounds like mental abuse to me. Do it for your own good, my dear. There ARE other guys who think you're a gem, you know.
You have to make it clear to him that if this is the way he's gonna treat you, you're going to leave him. And also politely tell that 'annoying' girl that if she can't think of anything to talk to you about, then her head must be empty or she's just being mean. I'm sorry I know it's harsh, but such people annoy me too. You shouldn't take any of this shabby treatment, because there's a world out there who's dying to hear your voice.
And if, and only if, you find that you have to leave him, just tell yourself that the person you once loved isn't there anymore, because the person you fell in love with wouldn't subject you to this torture. Best of luck, girl.


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