What can I do to convince my wife to stay with me?
Question: She was happy with our marriage and told me that she loved me and everything was going just fine. She went to another state for Easter with the kids and when she came back she said that she wanted to leave me. It was just out of the blue. Now she is telling me that she is trying to work it out, but she pushed me away, she won't let me touch her, she won't seriously sit down and talk about working it out. She told me that she has been telling me lies so I will hit her. I haven't hit her and I've treated her like a princess. Is there anyone out there who can give me some advice?
Answers: she obviously feels guilty for something she has done, these are very obvious signs, what you should do is seperate from each other, not for a long time, just tell her that you give her two months in-which to decide if the decision is the rite option. she needs to think for a while, work out her demons before she can think without a clouded head. don't ask if she has done anything, let her tell you away from the house, she obviously just wonts to be away for a bit, everyone needs there space, she just needs to think about what she's doing, she has the children to think about, she has a job to think about, a house, food, ya know all those important things, she will find out that life is much better with you. she can't live without you, but she can't live without you knowing she has done something bad, let her have those two months, don't beg her to come back, just tell her when she's ready, come home. tell her, if there is anything she needs to talk about you'll be there. good luck my friend, lots of well wishes...
Hmmmmmmmm - did she meet someone else when she was away for Easter??
take her out to the best 5 star restaurant it worked for me
leave her cause she is a physco
hey jus jus like if she sees any where u just passby then her mood may change best of luck ! and i hope she will stay with u
Sounds like she needs an excuse to leave. Shes hoping you will give her that excuse so she can feel better about herself. Be the bigger person and let her go. Obviously its over and she doesnt want to work it out.
This is a seriously disturbed woman. I suggest some counseling or therapy for her AND your marriage.
Try talking to her through e-mail! I know it sounds funny but if she continually pushes you away, at least you can say what you want to say to her like this. Be positve about things and ask her to respond. Maybe she will open up and you can get to the root of the problem.
I wish you luck!
I think that you should just give her some space. She is probably just confused with her emotions. I think that she is really ready to move on. So as much as you love her, you have to let her go. even for a while. Some people really know how much they actually needed that person when they realise they don't have them any more. If she is meant to be your soulmate she will come back. Good luck.
If she went to visit other people for Easter, they might of convinced her that you are no good for her. Maybe her family is saying bad things about you! OR she met someone else & she's just saying/doing those things so that you'll just leave & she can be w/ the other person.
She sounds like she has made up her mind, and there may be nothing you can do. Since she is unwilling to talk to you will she talk to a counselor? You have a responsibility to your children to try to save this marriage so you need to get her to tell you or a counselor what is going on. Your children know something is wrong so she and you need to come together to talk about telling them something. It might be better to let her go fro a while so she can sort things out. Good luck
I would see what the reason she wants to leave you is? Why did she go to the other state? Is she having an affair? I wonder why she is pushing you away? Is she willing to go to counseling with you and see what you can do to salvage the marriage? I wonder why such a drasstic change in such a short time... I think she may be having an affair but i am not sure.....
Treat her with respect and take her out only you and your wife no kids and just go and have lots of fun and clear your mind and while your haveing the time of your life try and ask why she is doing the things she's doing. then try and ask how you can make this relationship work out.
Is it possible she met someone while she was away? Honestly - I would give her space, let her know how much you love her and how much you want her but let her do her thing (or she will have regrets) just be there for her.
Even if she does leave, let her do her thing - she will come back. It's cheesy but its true if you love something set it free
You could just tell her how much you love her and if that doesn't work then I don't know.
LOVE and RESPECT ...Go to a marriage counselor....don't give up.....marriage is a battle... but it is worth it...Show her your love with good actions... do not push her....give her time....love conquers...
God bless you and good luck
I feel so bad for you, it sound like your wife may have another man out of town. If she was truly trying to work it out she'd suggest counseling. I am proud of you for not hitting her because that is a whole nether problem and that's not what yall need. Maybe you should give her space and if the love is as strong as you think it will come back until then go to God and tell him about ur troubles and he'll work it out.
Leave her, throw her ars out of the house!
you should leave her.It seems that she doesn't respond your love anymore and her heart is somewhere else.If you keep being nice to her,you will hurt more.
I highly doubt it was out of the blue. Also I highly doubt you actually treat her like a princess.She probably has been b!tching about wanting your attention for years. Now another man has put the moves on your wife, and your territory was weak with neglect to the heart, and she has fallen for another man. The best I can say is to ignore her, like you have been doing for years, and let it go quietly, and try not to neglect your kids anymore either, or this man will become their new Daddy .
Let her go......either one of two things will happen 1. she will be very happy with someone else.....or she will see the error in her ways and come running back. You can't force someone to love you, so no need in making it worse...she wants to go, let her!!!
Chances are she has met someone else and is trying to make you the bad guy to alleviate her guilt. If you hit her she has reason to leave. If you are sweet, understanding, and do things that are important to her then she doesn't have reason, therefore, causing inner turmoil. Try marriage counseling, helping out around the house and with the kids, and giving her a card expressing how you feel. If she really loves you she will get over her infatuation with whomever, and if not you will have to let her go. You can't force her to stay and it is her choice to make, but you can give it your all and really try. Good luck!
sounds liek she wants out , but wants to blame it on you . let her go . don't hit her .. you can not make some one want to be with you ,if they don't want to .
is there sombody else in the picture? or does she feel negleted or smothered maybe you can try some marriage counsling.has she been in a abusive realtionship in the past? she may be tring to see how far she can push you
Could you possibly be degrading her all the time .I had an X that did that did this to me .That is 10 times worse than a Physical hit.
What have you done to show her you love her are you a slob around the house overbearing everything has to be your way. Do you leave big messes around? Then don't offer to help with the kids and house without being asked. Think about the last time you washed a dish or did the laundry without being asked.
If women think they are being taken advantage of they will think they don't love you anymore. To show a woman you really love her it isn’t the candy and flowers and expensive restaurants. It’s the little things like entertaining the children cleaning up after your self Telling her you love her and she pretty that you appreciate what she does for the family and you.
Are you to controlling have to know where she is all the time women don't like this either.
I don't think she cheated on you yet. I think she has gotten mad over something you did or did not do complained to her family. Probably talk with the family and they said she should leave due to all the complaining.
When's the last time you had date night. You have to woo a woman to keep her.
My X thought he could by my love he bought things all the time then tried to control me and yelled at me was a slob.
I left him after 6 mts of this. He thought he was treating me like a princess.
I don't say this to be mean just to make you wake up and take a good long look at your self and change before you lose this good woman to another man.
I would also go to therapist if she refuses to talk with you.
She had an affair. Point blank ask her, did you have an affair . Would you want to stay with her then?
Answers: she obviously feels guilty for something she has done, these are very obvious signs, what you should do is seperate from each other, not for a long time, just tell her that you give her two months in-which to decide if the decision is the rite option. she needs to think for a while, work out her demons before she can think without a clouded head. don't ask if she has done anything, let her tell you away from the house, she obviously just wonts to be away for a bit, everyone needs there space, she just needs to think about what she's doing, she has the children to think about, she has a job to think about, a house, food, ya know all those important things, she will find out that life is much better with you. she can't live without you, but she can't live without you knowing she has done something bad, let her have those two months, don't beg her to come back, just tell her when she's ready, come home. tell her, if there is anything she needs to talk about you'll be there. good luck my friend, lots of well wishes...
Hmmmmmmmm - did she meet someone else when she was away for Easter??
take her out to the best 5 star restaurant it worked for me
leave her cause she is a physco
hey jus jus like if she sees any where u just passby then her mood may change best of luck ! and i hope she will stay with u
Sounds like she needs an excuse to leave. Shes hoping you will give her that excuse so she can feel better about herself. Be the bigger person and let her go. Obviously its over and she doesnt want to work it out.
This is a seriously disturbed woman. I suggest some counseling or therapy for her AND your marriage.
Try talking to her through e-mail! I know it sounds funny but if she continually pushes you away, at least you can say what you want to say to her like this. Be positve about things and ask her to respond. Maybe she will open up and you can get to the root of the problem.
I wish you luck!
I think that you should just give her some space. She is probably just confused with her emotions. I think that she is really ready to move on. So as much as you love her, you have to let her go. even for a while. Some people really know how much they actually needed that person when they realise they don't have them any more. If she is meant to be your soulmate she will come back. Good luck.
If she went to visit other people for Easter, they might of convinced her that you are no good for her. Maybe her family is saying bad things about you! OR she met someone else & she's just saying/doing those things so that you'll just leave & she can be w/ the other person.
She sounds like she has made up her mind, and there may be nothing you can do. Since she is unwilling to talk to you will she talk to a counselor? You have a responsibility to your children to try to save this marriage so you need to get her to tell you or a counselor what is going on. Your children know something is wrong so she and you need to come together to talk about telling them something. It might be better to let her go fro a while so she can sort things out. Good luck
I would see what the reason she wants to leave you is? Why did she go to the other state? Is she having an affair? I wonder why she is pushing you away? Is she willing to go to counseling with you and see what you can do to salvage the marriage? I wonder why such a drasstic change in such a short time... I think she may be having an affair but i am not sure.....
Treat her with respect and take her out only you and your wife no kids and just go and have lots of fun and clear your mind and while your haveing the time of your life try and ask why she is doing the things she's doing. then try and ask how you can make this relationship work out.
Is it possible she met someone while she was away? Honestly - I would give her space, let her know how much you love her and how much you want her but let her do her thing (or she will have regrets) just be there for her.
Even if she does leave, let her do her thing - she will come back. It's cheesy but its true if you love something set it free
You could just tell her how much you love her and if that doesn't work then I don't know.
LOVE and RESPECT ...Go to a marriage counselor....don't give up.....marriage is a battle... but it is worth it...Show her your love with good actions... do not push her....give her time....love conquers...
God bless you and good luck
I feel so bad for you, it sound like your wife may have another man out of town. If she was truly trying to work it out she'd suggest counseling. I am proud of you for not hitting her because that is a whole nether problem and that's not what yall need. Maybe you should give her space and if the love is as strong as you think it will come back until then go to God and tell him about ur troubles and he'll work it out.
Leave her, throw her ars out of the house!
you should leave her.It seems that she doesn't respond your love anymore and her heart is somewhere else.If you keep being nice to her,you will hurt more.
I highly doubt it was out of the blue. Also I highly doubt you actually treat her like a princess.She probably has been b!tching about wanting your attention for years. Now another man has put the moves on your wife, and your territory was weak with neglect to the heart, and she has fallen for another man. The best I can say is to ignore her, like you have been doing for years, and let it go quietly, and try not to neglect your kids anymore either, or this man will become their new Daddy .
Let her go......either one of two things will happen 1. she will be very happy with someone else.....or she will see the error in her ways and come running back. You can't force someone to love you, so no need in making it worse...she wants to go, let her!!!
Chances are she has met someone else and is trying to make you the bad guy to alleviate her guilt. If you hit her she has reason to leave. If you are sweet, understanding, and do things that are important to her then she doesn't have reason, therefore, causing inner turmoil. Try marriage counseling, helping out around the house and with the kids, and giving her a card expressing how you feel. If she really loves you she will get over her infatuation with whomever, and if not you will have to let her go. You can't force her to stay and it is her choice to make, but you can give it your all and really try. Good luck!
sounds liek she wants out , but wants to blame it on you . let her go . don't hit her .. you can not make some one want to be with you ,if they don't want to .
is there sombody else in the picture? or does she feel negleted or smothered maybe you can try some marriage counsling.has she been in a abusive realtionship in the past? she may be tring to see how far she can push you
Could you possibly be degrading her all the time .I had an X that did that did this to me .That is 10 times worse than a Physical hit.
What have you done to show her you love her are you a slob around the house overbearing everything has to be your way. Do you leave big messes around? Then don't offer to help with the kids and house without being asked. Think about the last time you washed a dish or did the laundry without being asked.
If women think they are being taken advantage of they will think they don't love you anymore. To show a woman you really love her it isn’t the candy and flowers and expensive restaurants. It’s the little things like entertaining the children cleaning up after your self Telling her you love her and she pretty that you appreciate what she does for the family and you.
Are you to controlling have to know where she is all the time women don't like this either.
I don't think she cheated on you yet. I think she has gotten mad over something you did or did not do complained to her family. Probably talk with the family and they said she should leave due to all the complaining.
When's the last time you had date night. You have to woo a woman to keep her.
My X thought he could by my love he bought things all the time then tried to control me and yelled at me was a slob.
I left him after 6 mts of this. He thought he was treating me like a princess.
I don't say this to be mean just to make you wake up and take a good long look at your self and change before you lose this good woman to another man.
I would also go to therapist if she refuses to talk with you.
She had an affair. Point blank ask her, did you have an affair . Would you want to stay with her then?
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