How sorry can a cheater really be..?
Question: I KNOW HOW MUCH I AM WORTH BUT WANT THE BEST FOR MY SON...DOES HE DESERVE A CHANCE....OR SHOULD I BE THE WOMAN I AM AND MOVE ON JUST ME AND MY TRUE LOVE...MY SON...
Answers: It sounds like you already know the answer. You're right, your son is the most important thing. And if your man cheated once, he'll cheat again. You do deserve more. So, take your son and go find the man that truly deserves you both. Good luck
just remember once a cheater......always a cheater. I would move on down the road.
A cheater is not sorry. Don't let him fool you. Cheaters always cheat. That is a fact. The question is, can you manage without him? If you have a son and can afford to move on, best to throw the cheating bum out. Think of your son.
I have absolutely no tolerance for someone cheating on me. Their bags would be packed and waiting.
Cheating is an addiction, just like everything else. Some cheaters are also sex addicts---so there ya have it.
i really understand what you going through...want give you a big hug...i think you better find another man for 2 of you because when they can cheat you 1 time,they gonna do it again...wish you strong...
well to say there is usually a reason y someone cheats,so maybe u should try talkin about it first, and i mean really talk..i know i important it is to communicate with the one u love..so try tht first and if it cant be resolved then ya get the hell out of there.
The problem is if you stay with them that means that got away with it. When they get away with it they will do it again.
I think it is a normal reaction to believe Once a cheater always a cheater but you have to take into consideration what kind of person he is. don't break up the family until you are sure there is no way to save the relationship. Go to councelling, i do not belive people are fully equipted to handle this type of situation alone. Also, take extra good care of yourself and those hurt feelings you have going on. When you have enough information you will make the decision that is best for you both. Make the decision together!
I am going through the same thing, It would really be too hard at this point in my life to venture on my own. I've decided to have my cake and eat it too. I am staying with my man for now. I have a 15 month old son and when he gets easier to handle (around 2 y.o) I plan on going back to work and/or school to make my own money. That way if he mucks up again, I will have my own money and can support myself without the unnecessary hardships. He will probably cheat on me again, so I don't hold my breath. I'm a stay at home mom and have been for 8 years. Leaving now would be hard financially. I can tolerate him, and he is good to our kids, so for now it's a waiting game. My advice, plan ahead. Best wishes!
PS check out my profile for more advice on our cheating men.
Answers: It sounds like you already know the answer. You're right, your son is the most important thing. And if your man cheated once, he'll cheat again. You do deserve more. So, take your son and go find the man that truly deserves you both. Good luck
just remember once a cheater......always a cheater. I would move on down the road.
A cheater is not sorry. Don't let him fool you. Cheaters always cheat. That is a fact. The question is, can you manage without him? If you have a son and can afford to move on, best to throw the cheating bum out. Think of your son.
I have absolutely no tolerance for someone cheating on me. Their bags would be packed and waiting.
Cheating is an addiction, just like everything else. Some cheaters are also sex addicts---so there ya have it.
i really understand what you going through...want give you a big hug...i think you better find another man for 2 of you because when they can cheat you 1 time,they gonna do it again...wish you strong...
well to say there is usually a reason y someone cheats,so maybe u should try talkin about it first, and i mean really talk..i know i important it is to communicate with the one u love..so try tht first and if it cant be resolved then ya get the hell out of there.
The problem is if you stay with them that means that got away with it. When they get away with it they will do it again.
I think it is a normal reaction to believe Once a cheater always a cheater but you have to take into consideration what kind of person he is. don't break up the family until you are sure there is no way to save the relationship. Go to councelling, i do not belive people are fully equipted to handle this type of situation alone. Also, take extra good care of yourself and those hurt feelings you have going on. When you have enough information you will make the decision that is best for you both. Make the decision together!
I am going through the same thing, It would really be too hard at this point in my life to venture on my own. I've decided to have my cake and eat it too. I am staying with my man for now. I have a 15 month old son and when he gets easier to handle (around 2 y.o) I plan on going back to work and/or school to make my own money. That way if he mucks up again, I will have my own money and can support myself without the unnecessary hardships. He will probably cheat on me again, so I don't hold my breath. I'm a stay at home mom and have been for 8 years. Leaving now would be hard financially. I can tolerate him, and he is good to our kids, so for now it's a waiting game. My advice, plan ahead. Best wishes!
PS check out my profile for more advice on our cheating men.
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