Why do people marry 3,4, or 5 times?
Question: After the 1st or 2nd one don't work shouldn't that tell them something. And if the man left his 1st wife to marry another woman. Don't you think the other woman should know she's walking on thin ice? (or vice verus).
Answers: because people are looking for someone else to complete them. they dont realize than another person can never do that...you have to be complete in yourself before you pursue a relationship! When people get married and find that they still arent whole they think its the other person, when its really them.
because they are too stupid to learn from their mistakes and too quick to fall in love :)
cuz if u get a divorce, you cant just live alone, u gots to have a man or wife with you, u cant just give up on da first try, right?
u haveto speak to them
if at first you dont succeed, try try again third times a charm (sucker)...
because the are super horny
People who do that see the other person as the problem..not themselves and really its them..or at least one of the earlier marriages would work.
hey your cant blame them for trying.
no brains. just looking for their soul mate and every partner is it. they just cant be without someone in their life.
people believe in the institute of marriage. You keep saying to yourself, 'Maybe this time will be the one; maybe it will be different.' Some people find happiness the 4th or 5th time. Some are fortunate enough to find love at first sight. It happens.
wellllllllllllll there are some people that just have to learn their lessons the hard way. My DH and I both are each others 3rd marriage, my first was when I was 16 and my parents pushed for it, the second lasted 9 years longer than it should have because of kids(out of a 10 yr marriage), and the third, well theres not enough room here to write enough good about that man.... People do this for many many reasons, most I will venture to say are just irresponsible and marry for the wrong reasons (ie: me and dh) but some have issues such as being co-dependant and HAVE to have that safety net of marriage, good or bad.... I could go on about this for hours, but thats just my opinion in a nutshell... I'm curious to see some more answers here....
Because their searching for something that's not their.
I have been married many times I wwanted to be loved and to love so much. I made many wrong choices. Each time I chose someone different than the last until I found one that worked. We have been together now 25 years. Try very hard to find someone with similat likes and dislikes in areas important to you.
Its a case of searching for love in all the wrong places .
practice makes perfect.they practicing to become perfect....
i have to say after a couple of failed marriages i would have to look at myself and think what am I doing wrong. because obviously your doing something wrong weather its not being smart on who your picking or it just being you that is hard to live with.
Because there stupid. You would think common sense would prevail. People just go into marriage, without thinking it through properly, and the thought if it doesnt work, they can get a divorce. Ive been divorced once, it wasnt much fun thats for sure. So if i was ever to marry again, i d have to be 99.9% sure it was gonna be forever, of i just want do it.
Finally a question I a fully qualified to answer.LOL
I am going to try to make this short.I hate long drawn out answers.I will list them by #
Wife#1--I was 21 she was 24.We met out dancing.Then I called her we went out and home to bed.Next day I moved to her apartment.2mos.later we got married.we had 2 sons and were married 6yrs.I woke up one morning her and boys are gone.30 days later I find her 2500 miles away.We agree to divorce.
Wife #2 Immediately I am back out dancing.Meet this beautiful blonde 34 I am 28.She and I spend the night together.Next day she takes me to her house to meet her 4 kids 11,13,14,16 yrs.old.2boys 2girls.We go out and she asks me to move in.So I do.She tells kids we went to Tahoe and got married last-night.6 and a half yrs later I come home from fishing,she is loading U-Haul and moving out.
Shack-up,Common law#3 Back out dancing again.Meet Barbara Eden(I dream of Genie)look a like.3mos. later she is moving to Boise.She is 36 I'm34.She has Girl 12, Boy 14 and girl 15.We are together 3yrs.I decide it's over I move out.
#4 Shack-up/common law.Back out dancing again.Meet Gorgeous Black haired lady.She is 47 I'm 37.This time no kids at home we are together Dancing,drinking and partying for 4yrs.we start fighting a lot I move out back to Sac.Ca. Where I met #2.Back out dancing I go again meet Tall Long Legged Fox.This is not going to happen this time.She chases me for 3mos.I finally give in.1 week later we get townhouse for us and her 2 daughters 11,14.She is #5 shack up/common law.She is 46 I'm 41.We are together 6 yrs.We agree to split up.
I am 47 and take off for Houston.Been here alone for 16 yrs.
No more wine,women and song.But I have to say I still love them all.
If you count up the kids it should come to 9 teenagers I helped raise and provide for.From the time I was 28 to 47.
I have know Idea where my 2 sons from the first marriage are.The youngest boy from wife #2 looked me up about 3yrs. ago and calls 1time per week.
Why would a man do this time after time?
Go through That much pain.I look back and think it was the fear of being alone.Fear makes us make strange choices.
Hope this answer helps someone.It was hard to type.
Answers: because people are looking for someone else to complete them. they dont realize than another person can never do that...you have to be complete in yourself before you pursue a relationship! When people get married and find that they still arent whole they think its the other person, when its really them.
because they are too stupid to learn from their mistakes and too quick to fall in love :)
cuz if u get a divorce, you cant just live alone, u gots to have a man or wife with you, u cant just give up on da first try, right?
u haveto speak to them
if at first you dont succeed, try try again third times a charm (sucker)...
because the are super horny
People who do that see the other person as the problem..not themselves and really its them..or at least one of the earlier marriages would work.
hey your cant blame them for trying.
no brains. just looking for their soul mate and every partner is it. they just cant be without someone in their life.
people believe in the institute of marriage. You keep saying to yourself, 'Maybe this time will be the one; maybe it will be different.' Some people find happiness the 4th or 5th time. Some are fortunate enough to find love at first sight. It happens.
wellllllllllllll there are some people that just have to learn their lessons the hard way. My DH and I both are each others 3rd marriage, my first was when I was 16 and my parents pushed for it, the second lasted 9 years longer than it should have because of kids(out of a 10 yr marriage), and the third, well theres not enough room here to write enough good about that man.... People do this for many many reasons, most I will venture to say are just irresponsible and marry for the wrong reasons (ie: me and dh) but some have issues such as being co-dependant and HAVE to have that safety net of marriage, good or bad.... I could go on about this for hours, but thats just my opinion in a nutshell... I'm curious to see some more answers here....
Because their searching for something that's not their.
I have been married many times I wwanted to be loved and to love so much. I made many wrong choices. Each time I chose someone different than the last until I found one that worked. We have been together now 25 years. Try very hard to find someone with similat likes and dislikes in areas important to you.
Its a case of searching for love in all the wrong places .
practice makes perfect.they practicing to become perfect....
i have to say after a couple of failed marriages i would have to look at myself and think what am I doing wrong. because obviously your doing something wrong weather its not being smart on who your picking or it just being you that is hard to live with.
Because there stupid. You would think common sense would prevail. People just go into marriage, without thinking it through properly, and the thought if it doesnt work, they can get a divorce. Ive been divorced once, it wasnt much fun thats for sure. So if i was ever to marry again, i d have to be 99.9% sure it was gonna be forever, of i just want do it.
Finally a question I a fully qualified to answer.LOL
I am going to try to make this short.I hate long drawn out answers.I will list them by #
Wife#1--I was 21 she was 24.We met out dancing.Then I called her we went out and home to bed.Next day I moved to her apartment.2mos.later we got married.we had 2 sons and were married 6yrs.I woke up one morning her and boys are gone.30 days later I find her 2500 miles away.We agree to divorce.
Wife #2 Immediately I am back out dancing.Meet this beautiful blonde 34 I am 28.She and I spend the night together.Next day she takes me to her house to meet her 4 kids 11,13,14,16 yrs.old.2boys 2girls.We go out and she asks me to move in.So I do.She tells kids we went to Tahoe and got married last-night.6 and a half yrs later I come home from fishing,she is loading U-Haul and moving out.
Shack-up,Common law#3 Back out dancing again.Meet Barbara Eden(I dream of Genie)look a like.3mos. later she is moving to Boise.She is 36 I'm34.She has Girl 12, Boy 14 and girl 15.We are together 3yrs.I decide it's over I move out.
#4 Shack-up/common law.Back out dancing again.Meet Gorgeous Black haired lady.She is 47 I'm 37.This time no kids at home we are together Dancing,drinking and partying for 4yrs.we start fighting a lot I move out back to Sac.Ca. Where I met #2.Back out dancing I go again meet Tall Long Legged Fox.This is not going to happen this time.She chases me for 3mos.I finally give in.1 week later we get townhouse for us and her 2 daughters 11,14.She is #5 shack up/common law.She is 46 I'm 41.We are together 6 yrs.We agree to split up.
I am 47 and take off for Houston.Been here alone for 16 yrs.
No more wine,women and song.But I have to say I still love them all.
If you count up the kids it should come to 9 teenagers I helped raise and provide for.From the time I was 28 to 47.
I have know Idea where my 2 sons from the first marriage are.The youngest boy from wife #2 looked me up about 3yrs. ago and calls 1time per week.
Why would a man do this time after time?
Go through That much pain.I look back and think it was the fear of being alone.Fear makes us make strange choices.
Hope this answer helps someone.It was hard to type.
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