What do you do if your husband has been lying about small amounts of money spent on gambling?
Question: Between $50-100 a few times a month.
Answers: That can add up to a lot in one month. If he is hiding or even lying about anything he is wrong. There should be no secrets between you and him. If he does this about gambling just think if there is anything else he is hiding or isn't telling you. You need to nip this in the bud as soon as possible. If you all can afford for him to do that then let him do it. If you can't afford for him to do that then let him know he needs to stop. That money could be used elsewhere especially if you all have children. Communication is best here. Good Luck!
r u sure??? of then ask him directly
dont worry wait till he loses the house in a few months
May be he dont like to lost his reputation in front of you.
May be he like you too much and would like to save you by lying.
You'd have to be absolutely positive where this money is going. Gambling is an addiction and can cost everything in the end. You definately have a choice here... ask him directly and watch him lie again, have an intervention and let him know you know he is gambling and he needs to stop. OR... wait for him to hit rock bottom and yes, lose the house or more. I wish you luck... it's a bad situation.
You need to talk to him and tell him that this is unacceptable and he needs to discover the reason for it and stop. Or you cant take it anymore
Good luck and God Bless!!
A few times a month and its not a small amount of money, talk to him in a nice way- best thing is explain what all other things that money would buy, get him to set a limit, on what he can spend- consider it a hobby.
Confront him and talk about it.
Well that really isnt small. Over the course of a year its much more. Marriage is totally about trust. And it looks like he betrayed that trust. Sit him down and talk about it. He may have a problem.
Ask him. If he admits to it, try to get him to agree to counseling.
Answers: That can add up to a lot in one month. If he is hiding or even lying about anything he is wrong. There should be no secrets between you and him. If he does this about gambling just think if there is anything else he is hiding or isn't telling you. You need to nip this in the bud as soon as possible. If you all can afford for him to do that then let him do it. If you can't afford for him to do that then let him know he needs to stop. That money could be used elsewhere especially if you all have children. Communication is best here. Good Luck!
r u sure??? of then ask him directly
dont worry wait till he loses the house in a few months
May be he dont like to lost his reputation in front of you.
May be he like you too much and would like to save you by lying.
You'd have to be absolutely positive where this money is going. Gambling is an addiction and can cost everything in the end. You definately have a choice here... ask him directly and watch him lie again, have an intervention and let him know you know he is gambling and he needs to stop. OR... wait for him to hit rock bottom and yes, lose the house or more. I wish you luck... it's a bad situation.
You need to talk to him and tell him that this is unacceptable and he needs to discover the reason for it and stop. Or you cant take it anymore
Good luck and God Bless!!
A few times a month and its not a small amount of money, talk to him in a nice way- best thing is explain what all other things that money would buy, get him to set a limit, on what he can spend- consider it a hobby.
Confront him and talk about it.
Well that really isnt small. Over the course of a year its much more. Marriage is totally about trust. And it looks like he betrayed that trust. Sit him down and talk about it. He may have a problem.
Ask him. If he admits to it, try to get him to agree to counseling.
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