Ive only known one lover and i married him we have been together since high school 9 yrs?
Question: weve been married a year but am attracted to another i still love my husband but want to know if i should have shopped around or maybe dated more or did i just marry cause hes the only guy i ever knew
Answers: Honey, there is no man that women consider to be perfect. You will always find flaws in your man and desirable goodies in other men. This is totally unfair to your man. He gives you all kinds of security and now suddenly you decide you get to go boink the first guy you see??? I am so glad it's not me who is married to you! I bet you are full of flaws, and your husband has looked at a LOT of women and wished he could have them. And yet he is still with you. You should be ashamed.
Yeah, you should have. Of well, too late now.
see this is exactly why your not suppose to marry the first person u hook up with. go head. you midas well f around cause if not you gonna think about it forever.
dont do that.love ur husband truly
Unless you want to be a whore then you should stay with just sleeping with your husband. You don't belong shopping around or dating other people. YOu are married if you don't like it get a divorce.
you can be attracted' to others, but if you seriously believe in your wedding vows why would you act on them? If you are in love with your husband then spend more time showing him and tell him how he can show you more love. also sounds like yes, you should have waited to marry. you thought, since this was the only sensible guy that you could know i think you didnt take the time out who YOU ARE. being married is a SERIOUS step to take and to Take them seriously.
My husband is the only guy I ever knew sexually and we have been married 33 years. We got married a few months before I graduated high school. (No, wasn't pregnant, was able to talk my parents into letting us get married - had been engaged for over a year). I don't' feel that I missed out by not dating more. Marriage is a hard thing to make it through, a lot of hard work goes into being married and staying married. Being attracted to another can happen, but don't mess around with it. Stay away and quit having contact with the person you are attracted to. That will only go down a destructive road. Neither my husband nor I have cheated on each other, and in the long term of how it will affect your marriage and life, it does make a difference.
Don't go fooling around now, too late.
hi i can understand how u must be feeling but as u said u love ur husband alot that means it just an attraction and this will go after some time,wait and watch and still the case is same then goahead to the person and have a casual talk ur attraction will become less and forget him as if he is just a normal person around u and nuthing much thts it
when u dnt understand wht to do let time go everything will be normal coz time is the best medicine, let it pass away sit back and wait
best of luck I am sure u will be out of this soon
You're probably getting bored. Everything is the same ole thing..You have been together for quite some time now. I too, met my husband my senior year of school..married him as soon as I was of legal age and we just celebrated our 9 year wedding anniversary. I have, many times, asked myself if I was nuts in settling down with him so soon and not shopping around as you put it. I would question whether or not I was missing out on being with other men...wondered if I really had a good thing or just thought I did because that was all I had. It's normal to feel like this. I got over those feelings though...I love my husband with all my heart and we do alot of stuff to keep the relationship fun and exciting in and out of the bedroom. We try new things, buy toys and communicate!! I have seen other attractive men. Sure my eyes liked it but my heart knows where it lies. I am so glad I found my one and only so young because we have soooooo much time to be together, it's a wonderful thing. The most important thing is that he treats you just as good as you treat him. Having true happiness is key. Be open and honest at all times. Those feelings of attraction for another man are normal...as long as you don't act on them. Your hubby treat you good? Show you he loves you? Do what it takes to satisfy you? Treat you like a queen? If yes, you've got a good man...don't let him get away!!! Best wishes and Good luck!!
you should have asked these questions before you got married, Its a bit late for shoulda,coulda,woulda. If you still love your husband and trully want to be with him than I guess you have your answer.
Answers: Honey, there is no man that women consider to be perfect. You will always find flaws in your man and desirable goodies in other men. This is totally unfair to your man. He gives you all kinds of security and now suddenly you decide you get to go boink the first guy you see??? I am so glad it's not me who is married to you! I bet you are full of flaws, and your husband has looked at a LOT of women and wished he could have them. And yet he is still with you. You should be ashamed.
Yeah, you should have. Of well, too late now.
see this is exactly why your not suppose to marry the first person u hook up with. go head. you midas well f around cause if not you gonna think about it forever.
dont do that.love ur husband truly
Unless you want to be a whore then you should stay with just sleeping with your husband. You don't belong shopping around or dating other people. YOu are married if you don't like it get a divorce.
you can be attracted' to others, but if you seriously believe in your wedding vows why would you act on them? If you are in love with your husband then spend more time showing him and tell him how he can show you more love. also sounds like yes, you should have waited to marry. you thought, since this was the only sensible guy that you could know i think you didnt take the time out who YOU ARE. being married is a SERIOUS step to take and to Take them seriously.
My husband is the only guy I ever knew sexually and we have been married 33 years. We got married a few months before I graduated high school. (No, wasn't pregnant, was able to talk my parents into letting us get married - had been engaged for over a year). I don't' feel that I missed out by not dating more. Marriage is a hard thing to make it through, a lot of hard work goes into being married and staying married. Being attracted to another can happen, but don't mess around with it. Stay away and quit having contact with the person you are attracted to. That will only go down a destructive road. Neither my husband nor I have cheated on each other, and in the long term of how it will affect your marriage and life, it does make a difference.
Don't go fooling around now, too late.
hi i can understand how u must be feeling but as u said u love ur husband alot that means it just an attraction and this will go after some time,wait and watch and still the case is same then goahead to the person and have a casual talk ur attraction will become less and forget him as if he is just a normal person around u and nuthing much thts it
when u dnt understand wht to do let time go everything will be normal coz time is the best medicine, let it pass away sit back and wait
best of luck I am sure u will be out of this soon
You're probably getting bored. Everything is the same ole thing..You have been together for quite some time now. I too, met my husband my senior year of school..married him as soon as I was of legal age and we just celebrated our 9 year wedding anniversary. I have, many times, asked myself if I was nuts in settling down with him so soon and not shopping around as you put it. I would question whether or not I was missing out on being with other men...wondered if I really had a good thing or just thought I did because that was all I had. It's normal to feel like this. I got over those feelings though...I love my husband with all my heart and we do alot of stuff to keep the relationship fun and exciting in and out of the bedroom. We try new things, buy toys and communicate!! I have seen other attractive men. Sure my eyes liked it but my heart knows where it lies. I am so glad I found my one and only so young because we have soooooo much time to be together, it's a wonderful thing. The most important thing is that he treats you just as good as you treat him. Having true happiness is key. Be open and honest at all times. Those feelings of attraction for another man are normal...as long as you don't act on them. Your hubby treat you good? Show you he loves you? Do what it takes to satisfy you? Treat you like a queen? If yes, you've got a good man...don't let him get away!!! Best wishes and Good luck!!
you should have asked these questions before you got married, Its a bit late for shoulda,coulda,woulda. If you still love your husband and trully want to be with him than I guess you have your answer.
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