Im married and i dont think i love my husband?
Question: we fight constantly, i have cheated on him(not bragging) and there is just nothing there anymore. we have been seperated for alittle over a month. but then i checked his cell phone bill and it shows 1 number calling constantly. he says it was someone for his job. i called and it was a girls answering machine. he swears he cant be with anyone in spite of what i have done. but now why is this bothering me? is it cause i dont want anyone to have him or maybe it is my own guilt. from what you hear is he cheating on me? honestly i think i deserve it but why is he denying it? please help
Answers: If you dont want him does it really matter.
Just be done and stop causing such drama.
divorce him and see if u still miss him. if yes marry him again
if u r cheating on him, devorse him!
passion fades..love is immortal. if you dont feel passion for him you may still love him..if you dont love him you never did...
if you don't love him get a divorce get back into the world and date more guys. how long have you been married to him? and how old are you???email me at sbe_daddysgurl@yahoo.com
Just bcuz ur marriage has been more down then up it doesn't mean anything. Every marriage goees through the same once in a while. But is up to the both of u to fix the problem. You probably say u don't love him, but if that was the case it wouldn't bother u if he is cheating on u, bcuz u would of left him and kept messing around with the other person. Then again u may scared to leave bcuz of being comfortable in ur relationship..not letting go scared of being by yourself or starting over..I thinkhe is cheating on you, think about urself and numbers on your cell what would u have said..if he asked u about those numbers.
Yes he is cheating on you and the reason he is denying it is so he can hold what you did to him against you. You know make himself out to be the better person. And the reason you feel upset is because all though you dont love him anymore he is still your husband and there will always be a bond there (more than likely anyway). Keep your seperation get your divorce and move on. But just remember, the ONLY reason he's denying it is because he wants to feel superior to you and wants you to know it and he wants you to think that he's the better person in the relationship or what's left it anyway. Hope this helps.
2 wrongs do not make a right. just because it's a girls answering machine doesn't mean hes cheating. It maybe a girl whos calling him from work about his job, dont jump to conclusions just sit down and talk to him if its bothering you that much
There is a huge difference between love and being inlove .
Being inlove creates a feeling of extreem pleasure but
this stage always always fades away. After this fades many
people seek out for that high again , wanting that feeling
to never end like a drug. The problem is when we are in
the inlove stage we cannot concentrate on anything but
that other person and other things in our life goes unattended to or atleast compromised.
If we all stayed in that inlove stage nothing would ever
get done.
LOVE HOWEVER IS A CHOICE.
Yes it sounds awful to some but its very very true.
Once you are past that inlove stage we have to make a
choice to love. It may sound unromantic and disappointing
but the truth is once you have choosen to love and someone
has choosen to love you the waters run much deeper and
are more rewarding than being INLOVE
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY, WHISPERSOFHOPE74
it doesnt matter forget it time to move on
Marriage isn't a game --- it takes lots of effort and work from both people to make it a success - if neither of you are going to commit to this marriage then - divorce....
Sweetheart,
There are still good men out there your husband is probably one of them. You were wrong for cheating, but ask yourself this question if he knows you cheated on him why would he deny cheating on you. I my eyes he hasn't he is thinking about it though. Where do most of the arguments stem for you or him? If it is you, you might want to think longer on disagreements before jumping to conclusions. If there is a big age gap that may full the fire because one is more mature than the other. Take time to think out your actions before you act, your marriage can still work, just leave the past behind(both of you).
Hey b itch, he's already moving on. He just told you that so you don't get defencive and start sleeping around too. You're just mad that he got over you faster than you got over him. Best way to get over someone is to get over someone...or under someone.
Yes I think he is cheating, but at this point does it matter? Contact an attorney & start the divorce
If you cheat on him and dont love him and can't stay true to him then let him go... Divorce the poor guy and set him free.... He has every right to divorce you because of the adulerous affairs you have on him....
MOVE ON PARTY
it is over accept it and don't get married again untilyou are really ready.It has happened to me and i'm stillnot married and it was myex-wifes cheating that broughtit on and she is married so it can happenfor you but you abviously wasn't ready.
Answers: If you dont want him does it really matter.
Just be done and stop causing such drama.
divorce him and see if u still miss him. if yes marry him again
if u r cheating on him, devorse him!
passion fades..love is immortal. if you dont feel passion for him you may still love him..if you dont love him you never did...
if you don't love him get a divorce get back into the world and date more guys. how long have you been married to him? and how old are you???email me at sbe_daddysgurl@yahoo.com
Just bcuz ur marriage has been more down then up it doesn't mean anything. Every marriage goees through the same once in a while. But is up to the both of u to fix the problem. You probably say u don't love him, but if that was the case it wouldn't bother u if he is cheating on u, bcuz u would of left him and kept messing around with the other person. Then again u may scared to leave bcuz of being comfortable in ur relationship..not letting go scared of being by yourself or starting over..I thinkhe is cheating on you, think about urself and numbers on your cell what would u have said..if he asked u about those numbers.
Yes he is cheating on you and the reason he is denying it is so he can hold what you did to him against you. You know make himself out to be the better person. And the reason you feel upset is because all though you dont love him anymore he is still your husband and there will always be a bond there (more than likely anyway). Keep your seperation get your divorce and move on. But just remember, the ONLY reason he's denying it is because he wants to feel superior to you and wants you to know it and he wants you to think that he's the better person in the relationship or what's left it anyway. Hope this helps.
2 wrongs do not make a right. just because it's a girls answering machine doesn't mean hes cheating. It maybe a girl whos calling him from work about his job, dont jump to conclusions just sit down and talk to him if its bothering you that much
There is a huge difference between love and being inlove .
Being inlove creates a feeling of extreem pleasure but
this stage always always fades away. After this fades many
people seek out for that high again , wanting that feeling
to never end like a drug. The problem is when we are in
the inlove stage we cannot concentrate on anything but
that other person and other things in our life goes unattended to or atleast compromised.
If we all stayed in that inlove stage nothing would ever
get done.
LOVE HOWEVER IS A CHOICE.
Yes it sounds awful to some but its very very true.
Once you are past that inlove stage we have to make a
choice to love. It may sound unromantic and disappointing
but the truth is once you have choosen to love and someone
has choosen to love you the waters run much deeper and
are more rewarding than being INLOVE
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY, WHISPERSOFHOPE74
it doesnt matter forget it time to move on
Marriage isn't a game --- it takes lots of effort and work from both people to make it a success - if neither of you are going to commit to this marriage then - divorce....
Sweetheart,
There are still good men out there your husband is probably one of them. You were wrong for cheating, but ask yourself this question if he knows you cheated on him why would he deny cheating on you. I my eyes he hasn't he is thinking about it though. Where do most of the arguments stem for you or him? If it is you, you might want to think longer on disagreements before jumping to conclusions. If there is a big age gap that may full the fire because one is more mature than the other. Take time to think out your actions before you act, your marriage can still work, just leave the past behind(both of you).
Hey b itch, he's already moving on. He just told you that so you don't get defencive and start sleeping around too. You're just mad that he got over you faster than you got over him. Best way to get over someone is to get over someone...or under someone.
Yes I think he is cheating, but at this point does it matter? Contact an attorney & start the divorce
If you cheat on him and dont love him and can't stay true to him then let him go... Divorce the poor guy and set him free.... He has every right to divorce you because of the adulerous affairs you have on him....
MOVE ON PARTY
it is over accept it and don't get married again untilyou are really ready.It has happened to me and i'm stillnot married and it was myex-wifes cheating that broughtit on and she is married so it can happenfor you but you abviously wasn't ready.
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