If your husband said lose weight or were through what would you do?
Question: he told me he was too embarassed to take me out with his friends, excuse me i lost 15lbs in 2 months now i only have 20 to go before i get to my personal goal, and im looking damn fine, but still he wont even take me bowling for cryin outloud. i feel like screaming!! what would you do?
Answers: you will only resent him when you loose the weight and he's all nice to you because you will remeber how he was before he sounds imature and prideful how you make him look in public?if you ask him if you get disfigured in an accident then what ? he will say thats different but it's not and don't expect him to be anydiffrent about that either you love the person on the inside to love them through bad times or you don't good or bad thats what you got married for remind him of that try to get to chrisitian conselor if he won't go then you go. Don't listen to him he has probably never been heavy and doesn't realize how hard it is to loose weight 15lbs GOODJOB! whenever you decide you can do it but don't let his words cheat you and change your attitude you really deserve to loose the rest!
tell him how you feel. if that doesn't work, just focus on losing the weight. you don't have that much to go. But ask him to support you and not put you down
pull down my pants and tell him to kiss me where the moon is full and the wind blows.
Well, so he is ashamed to be with you...Okay, take yourself out and have a damn good time! Reward yourself for losing the weight.
being a man...i think he's a rude sucker..and if i where you..i'd tell him to pack up and leave
Good for you on your weight loss! but that's sad, he obviously doesn't love or respect you. I would seriously take a hard look at your relationship. If you are losing weight to please him , that's wrong.
you know every one is going to say he is an asshole.
but if you truly want him lose the weight. But then think do you want a guy that says that to you ?
He needs to learn how to treat you with respect. Marriage consoling might be a good idea. Don't let him discourage from making your own goals!
Kick his *** to the curb. He is breaking vows. What about for better or worse? If you are trying for yourself that's one thing. Women have enough image problems to worry about than to have to take crap from the one person who is supposed to be their best friend till death do you part. You can do much better.
Give him the ring.... I would NEVER make such a demand on a girl... clearly he doesn't love the person only the body..
M
I think that it says a lot about how he feels about you if his friends and his embarassment is stronger than his so called love for you. If he really loves you and this goes for both you and he, you have to accept people as they are, and not ask then to be what you want. If he cant accept you the way you are, then why are u there?
if you feel good with who you are then that is good enough. your husband needs to appreciate the real woman you are and not get caught up in being embarassed by what others think. you are the one who will be by his side and the one who is his partner, he should be thankful to have you.
Tell him that once you get to your goal your going to find someone who appreciates you and respects you.
It depends on how heavy you actually are. If you're seriously overweight, you should probably consult your doctor and try to keep losing weight. If you're not seriously overweight, he's an asshole. Keep in mind the fact that seriously overweight can be subjective. You should ask your doctor if you have a weight problem.
shave his head and tell him to grow hair or get the f*** out. he doesn't deserve you. what a pri*k !
I would look him straight in the eye and shove a whole pizza in my face or something! Oh my goodness, he is being ridiculous. You should keep a chart of what you eat and when you exercise and then show it to him everyday (just for a couple of days) and say yeah, I'm working on it *** hole. Go bowling by yourself, maybe that will make him jealous.
I would tell him to get lost!
I'd kick him above the shins for you.
Kick his butt for excercise! Is he some Greek Adonis that he gets to make the rules about when you get to go out? Tell this man to change HIS ways (controlling, demanding) or be through with him. In a kinder train of thought, decide where you want to go, make a plan, invite him to join you for some fun. If he refuses, go have fun without him. He will either come around OR you will have a definitive answer.
Oh Sweetie, I am sorry.
First let me say that as your husband in an adult relationship, I do not feel that it is outlandish for him to suggest you lose weight.
With that said, and ultimatum such as the one presented I do no feel is warranted.
I can't really say what you should do, but I do feel he is being unreasonable.
You dont need him or his company. Take youself out with the girls. Show him what he missed out on.
I recently lost alot of weight and thought it would make my hubby more atracted to me and he seem to be less attracted. I am sure that you losing the weight will not change your relationship. Any man who could say such a hurtful thing as he is too embarrassed is an a ss! You probably do look dam fine and should take yourself out and see how many guys thinks so, I'm sure they would love to have you in their arms. Best wishes
Pack your things, and move out. If he doesn't think any more of you than that, he sure doesn't deserve you. That really pisses me off.....and if I were you, and he gets horny...tell him you're too fat to have sex with him. Excuse me, but he's an a****** in my opinion. Move on with your life, without him!
gain weight on purpose and tell him to kiss my fat ***, what an asshole of a husband you have he is all about looks, what if he gained weight i'm sure you would still love him.
I would lose the weight, buy a new wardrobe on his visa, hook up with a hotter, younger guy, and then tell your husband that your recent weight loss has made you realize that you need a more satisfying sex life, that you're full of more energy now since this recent weight loss, and that this young guy has much much much more stamina
I'M SORRY YOU MARRIED A CREEP. LEAVE HIM. CAN YOU IMAGINE IF YOU HAD BEEN PREGNANT. I HOWEVER MARRIED AN AWESOME CHRISTIAN MAN WHO LOVED ME AS I WAS AND I HAVEN'T CHANGED 3 CHILDREN LATER HE IS STILL IN LOVE. THERE ARE GOOD MEN OUT THERE GO FIND ONE YOU DESERVE IT.
Hey, if he doesn't like u for who you really r or he just likes u for ur looks, then honey, u married the wrong person. He obviously likes u for ALL the wrong reasons. If he truely loved u, then he would have kept his coments to himself cuz he shouldn't care how u look, its u and ur personality that counts. Does he look fine, cuz if he doesn't, then he has NO room to be talking!
Then, we're thru!! There must be something about him that you don't like. If he's willing to alter it, then tell him you are willing to try losing weight. Even if you did manage to lose the weight, he would find something else to pick on. This is a familiar pattern. Tell him that if he doesn't change what you want him to--good-bye!
I would tell him don't let the door hit you on the *** on your way out! He married you for better or worse. Too many people obsess about weight these days! Who cares what the outside looks like, as long as you are a good person on the inside!!
(to your husband) Excuse me, but I thought marriage was until death do us part . He took that vow to always be with you. Let's face it, all of us one day are going to lose some or all of our good looks. Basically saying, he should love you for who YOU are, not your shape.
im male so this wont count as a propper answer but lose the weight you want to to make him happy then either dump him or make him do something equally as hard or ''we're through''.
Answers: you will only resent him when you loose the weight and he's all nice to you because you will remeber how he was before he sounds imature and prideful how you make him look in public?if you ask him if you get disfigured in an accident then what ? he will say thats different but it's not and don't expect him to be anydiffrent about that either you love the person on the inside to love them through bad times or you don't good or bad thats what you got married for remind him of that try to get to chrisitian conselor if he won't go then you go. Don't listen to him he has probably never been heavy and doesn't realize how hard it is to loose weight 15lbs GOODJOB! whenever you decide you can do it but don't let his words cheat you and change your attitude you really deserve to loose the rest!
tell him how you feel. if that doesn't work, just focus on losing the weight. you don't have that much to go. But ask him to support you and not put you down
pull down my pants and tell him to kiss me where the moon is full and the wind blows.
Well, so he is ashamed to be with you...Okay, take yourself out and have a damn good time! Reward yourself for losing the weight.
being a man...i think he's a rude sucker..and if i where you..i'd tell him to pack up and leave
Good for you on your weight loss! but that's sad, he obviously doesn't love or respect you. I would seriously take a hard look at your relationship. If you are losing weight to please him , that's wrong.
you know every one is going to say he is an asshole.
but if you truly want him lose the weight. But then think do you want a guy that says that to you ?
He needs to learn how to treat you with respect. Marriage consoling might be a good idea. Don't let him discourage from making your own goals!
Kick his *** to the curb. He is breaking vows. What about for better or worse? If you are trying for yourself that's one thing. Women have enough image problems to worry about than to have to take crap from the one person who is supposed to be their best friend till death do you part. You can do much better.
Give him the ring.... I would NEVER make such a demand on a girl... clearly he doesn't love the person only the body..
M
I think that it says a lot about how he feels about you if his friends and his embarassment is stronger than his so called love for you. If he really loves you and this goes for both you and he, you have to accept people as they are, and not ask then to be what you want. If he cant accept you the way you are, then why are u there?
if you feel good with who you are then that is good enough. your husband needs to appreciate the real woman you are and not get caught up in being embarassed by what others think. you are the one who will be by his side and the one who is his partner, he should be thankful to have you.
Tell him that once you get to your goal your going to find someone who appreciates you and respects you.
It depends on how heavy you actually are. If you're seriously overweight, you should probably consult your doctor and try to keep losing weight. If you're not seriously overweight, he's an asshole. Keep in mind the fact that seriously overweight can be subjective. You should ask your doctor if you have a weight problem.
shave his head and tell him to grow hair or get the f*** out. he doesn't deserve you. what a pri*k !
I would look him straight in the eye and shove a whole pizza in my face or something! Oh my goodness, he is being ridiculous. You should keep a chart of what you eat and when you exercise and then show it to him everyday (just for a couple of days) and say yeah, I'm working on it *** hole. Go bowling by yourself, maybe that will make him jealous.
I would tell him to get lost!
I'd kick him above the shins for you.
Kick his butt for excercise! Is he some Greek Adonis that he gets to make the rules about when you get to go out? Tell this man to change HIS ways (controlling, demanding) or be through with him. In a kinder train of thought, decide where you want to go, make a plan, invite him to join you for some fun. If he refuses, go have fun without him. He will either come around OR you will have a definitive answer.
Oh Sweetie, I am sorry.
First let me say that as your husband in an adult relationship, I do not feel that it is outlandish for him to suggest you lose weight.
With that said, and ultimatum such as the one presented I do no feel is warranted.
I can't really say what you should do, but I do feel he is being unreasonable.
You dont need him or his company. Take youself out with the girls. Show him what he missed out on.
I recently lost alot of weight and thought it would make my hubby more atracted to me and he seem to be less attracted. I am sure that you losing the weight will not change your relationship. Any man who could say such a hurtful thing as he is too embarrassed is an a ss! You probably do look dam fine and should take yourself out and see how many guys thinks so, I'm sure they would love to have you in their arms. Best wishes
Pack your things, and move out. If he doesn't think any more of you than that, he sure doesn't deserve you. That really pisses me off.....and if I were you, and he gets horny...tell him you're too fat to have sex with him. Excuse me, but he's an a****** in my opinion. Move on with your life, without him!
gain weight on purpose and tell him to kiss my fat ***, what an asshole of a husband you have he is all about looks, what if he gained weight i'm sure you would still love him.
I would lose the weight, buy a new wardrobe on his visa, hook up with a hotter, younger guy, and then tell your husband that your recent weight loss has made you realize that you need a more satisfying sex life, that you're full of more energy now since this recent weight loss, and that this young guy has much much much more stamina
I'M SORRY YOU MARRIED A CREEP. LEAVE HIM. CAN YOU IMAGINE IF YOU HAD BEEN PREGNANT. I HOWEVER MARRIED AN AWESOME CHRISTIAN MAN WHO LOVED ME AS I WAS AND I HAVEN'T CHANGED 3 CHILDREN LATER HE IS STILL IN LOVE. THERE ARE GOOD MEN OUT THERE GO FIND ONE YOU DESERVE IT.
Hey, if he doesn't like u for who you really r or he just likes u for ur looks, then honey, u married the wrong person. He obviously likes u for ALL the wrong reasons. If he truely loved u, then he would have kept his coments to himself cuz he shouldn't care how u look, its u and ur personality that counts. Does he look fine, cuz if he doesn't, then he has NO room to be talking!
Then, we're thru!! There must be something about him that you don't like. If he's willing to alter it, then tell him you are willing to try losing weight. Even if you did manage to lose the weight, he would find something else to pick on. This is a familiar pattern. Tell him that if he doesn't change what you want him to--good-bye!
I would tell him don't let the door hit you on the *** on your way out! He married you for better or worse. Too many people obsess about weight these days! Who cares what the outside looks like, as long as you are a good person on the inside!!
(to your husband) Excuse me, but I thought marriage was until death do us part . He took that vow to always be with you. Let's face it, all of us one day are going to lose some or all of our good looks. Basically saying, he should love you for who YOU are, not your shape.
im male so this wont count as a propper answer but lose the weight you want to to make him happy then either dump him or make him do something equally as hard or ''we're through''.
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