She devoting time and love to kids more than to her husband .. n now he is turning his back on her.Fair ?
Answers: depends, not enough info to have an opinion. kids naturally take up time and need love. why would the husband turn his back on someone who seems like they are only trying to be the perfect mother?
no of course not, its her job to spend time and love her kids. the husband is acting like a pouting child himself. if he wants more of her time he needs to help her more, he needs to tell her he wants more time and HELP her with HIS kids so she has more time to spend with him. mostly though he needs to GROW UP, i mean seriously being jealous of your own kids because you don't get babied enough??? what kind of man is this!
Um..are you the husband? Most women dont realize that they are devoting to much time to thier children... they have the natural instinct to be the best mothers they can be... you should be happy and proud that the woman who gave you children takes her job so seriously. If you are feeling neglected than maybe you should show her that it is ok to take a break from the kids by planning a special evening for her away from the house..
both of them have to understand,after kids life changes,so adjustment is required by both,with time she will give him more time
don't think so! How was the husband treating her? Did he tell her that was bothering him? and how about the fact that the husband should have already been raised she shouldn't be they only one devoting time and love to the kids maybe they should do it together. Spend all their time and love with the kids... I mean the kids do go to sleep right? Then the husband can get his time. My husband does the same damn thing and it's because he tends to be a bit selfish. So I don't buy that he has any right to turn his back on her.
No. Children need more time,to develop mentally,physically,emotionally. It's the parents,who mold and shape children,to become healthy adults. The husband should help with the children; besides,they are his kids too. Once the day is over,and the kids are settled into bed,then mom and dad can have their private time together. It all works out,when both parents work together.
Menneed to lead by example. If he's mad because she is spending time withthe kids, I'd hate to see what happenes if she got interested in reading a really good book. ITS JUST THE KIDS! YEs, we all have a duty to our spouse, her for him, and HIM FOR HER! Why doesn't he take the kids out, let her have some time to herself. Have him make plans, find a sitter, then go on a night out just the two of them. GEEZ! Instead of trying to do anything to make things better, and act like a man, he is being pathetically selfish. Show her how important she is by giving her an opportunity to be tuned into him and not the kids. It's really easy!
when is life ever fair?
Depends...did he bother to discuss the issue with her? Does he spend enough time with the kids, or is she having to make up for his lack of parenting? Is he pretty well balanced, or a needy guy that views his kids as competition? Honestly, the love and devotion a mother has for her kids is totally different than that she has for her husband. Its not really about the kids, its about the issues that exist between husband and wife. The kids are just easier to blame. Both sides need to analize the situation and take responsiblility for their actions or inactions. Blaming the kids is just wrong....on so many levels.
no of course not, its her job to spend time and love her kids. the husband is acting like a pouting child himself. if he wants more of her time he needs to help her more, he needs to tell her he wants more time and HELP her with HIS kids so she has more time to spend with him. mostly though he needs to GROW UP, i mean seriously being jealous of your own kids because you don't get babied enough??? what kind of man is this!
Um..are you the husband? Most women dont realize that they are devoting to much time to thier children... they have the natural instinct to be the best mothers they can be... you should be happy and proud that the woman who gave you children takes her job so seriously. If you are feeling neglected than maybe you should show her that it is ok to take a break from the kids by planning a special evening for her away from the house..
both of them have to understand,after kids life changes,so adjustment is required by both,with time she will give him more time
don't think so! How was the husband treating her? Did he tell her that was bothering him? and how about the fact that the husband should have already been raised she shouldn't be they only one devoting time and love to the kids maybe they should do it together. Spend all their time and love with the kids... I mean the kids do go to sleep right? Then the husband can get his time. My husband does the same damn thing and it's because he tends to be a bit selfish. So I don't buy that he has any right to turn his back on her.
No. Children need more time,to develop mentally,physically,emotionally. It's the parents,who mold and shape children,to become healthy adults. The husband should help with the children; besides,they are his kids too. Once the day is over,and the kids are settled into bed,then mom and dad can have their private time together. It all works out,when both parents work together.
Menneed to lead by example. If he's mad because she is spending time withthe kids, I'd hate to see what happenes if she got interested in reading a really good book. ITS JUST THE KIDS! YEs, we all have a duty to our spouse, her for him, and HIM FOR HER! Why doesn't he take the kids out, let her have some time to herself. Have him make plans, find a sitter, then go on a night out just the two of them. GEEZ! Instead of trying to do anything to make things better, and act like a man, he is being pathetically selfish. Show her how important she is by giving her an opportunity to be tuned into him and not the kids. It's really easy!
when is life ever fair?
Depends...did he bother to discuss the issue with her? Does he spend enough time with the kids, or is she having to make up for his lack of parenting? Is he pretty well balanced, or a needy guy that views his kids as competition? Honestly, the love and devotion a mother has for her kids is totally different than that she has for her husband. Its not really about the kids, its about the issues that exist between husband and wife. The kids are just easier to blame. Both sides need to analize the situation and take responsiblility for their actions or inactions. Blaming the kids is just wrong....on so many levels.
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