I think my husband is interested in another woman?

Question: We have been married 3yr and I went home to make some money and organise my things cos I have been living with my husband o/seas which I dont have a visa to work in, I am only allowed to be there cos of him. I came back and he was acting weirdly, he started complaining about everything the food I cooked, the house was undtidy(which it wasnt) he eats food all over the house esp on my computer which was a gift. He complained I spent to much money on food so he stopped giving me money. I spoke to my dr whom is a bit psychic & he told me he was interested in a woman at work. I looked up his work place and ended up going into another page but I found this woman whom I thought fitted perfectly to him, anyway a week later I called my dr and he said this woman had a b/f & didnt want to breakup for him & this coincided with my husband telling me he wanted to give me another chance so we can make things better. He blames me 4 everything & calls me a leach & tells me I have to do wot he says

Answers: there is more going on there than you think if it stays this way for while you need to let it go. because if he really wanted you and loves you he wouldnt be treating you like that. i would try to give your best shot and if nothing works i would leave and try to start your life over. if by chance your leaving scares him silly and he changes his ways then i would search your heart and see if you really want him back.

find another man you donot deserve this it may seem hard but you can do it.

Hello, is painful but sometime men can be funny. first are you a christian? i will advice you not to leave like that, just start to pray for him. if you have not been doing that before. Don't go and start fighting the other woman. Try not to give up, just keep on been the good wife. Keep on cooking his food. Just continue and God will pay you back, and try to see when you see he is in a good mood. Try to call him and talk to him politely , ask him what exactly is the problem, where have you wrong him and why the changes. Don't get angry if he gets angry. In all keep on praying and God will interven.

You deserve much better than him!!

Treat him just as bad. A good woman should have not put with dudes like that. I know I was once one and it woke up I have the best girl in the world and I messed it up. Men dont think untill its to late, Leave him for a while I bet he will worship you and never mistreat you agian, It worked on me, It strighted my act up in a hurry.

you sure it aint drugs! you sound like a loving wife ! DEAN.

he obviously is dissatisfied with the relationship that your having. you need to try harder to be the women he wants you too be and try and get him to change for you too. don't force it though and don't make yourself out to be the victim. no matter what happens between you too you both share an equal part in it. try doing something sexy to surprise him or work extra hard to keep everything tiddy since you don't work and stay home all day that is not really that much to ask. whatever you do don't get in his face and start demanding things it'll only lead to more troubles. your relationship is a partnership and you may need to give your husband more support which he obviously feels he is lacking.

Its not easy, but I think he is a jerk.

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