Ladies please help?
Question: ok me and my man have been together 5 yrs and lately he is not giving me the attention i think i deserve. We are both 40 yrs of age (yea we are lucky cos we doubled our pension payments in our firm) and now retired from work he is a good man dosent go out and drink , gamble , or womanise. His libido seems to have just dissapeared and am wary on how to approach the subject with him as i understand male pride and would hate him to feel inadequete! I love my man and want him back loving me like he should !
Answers: bit of good ole fashion loving will do pamper im send im off to the pub for an hour and then dress up ...etc...etc!
TELL HIM TO GET VIAGRA
maybe he's not feeling well or just slowing down a bit in the sexual department,it does happen,,try getting some sexy lingerie and candles ,see what happens
Tell him that it's time both of you had thorough physicals - blood work, enzymes, the whole enchilada (since it is anyway - it's time to get base measurements before you get to 50).
Could be there's a health problem involved that can be easily solved.
why not talk to a counsellor on your own and find out the symtoms of male menopause for male do have their menopause and girl its worse than the female for their ego is tied to it.God bless you
Do for him what you would want him to do for you. Be nice, patient, encouraging and try to relax and talk.
Ask him if you both can talk about intamacy over a cool calm setting. Turn everything off, cut cell phones off, and turn off the ringers to the house phones.
Let him know you respect him and do not view him any less, but you want to be open and free to talk about sex. Let him know your concerns, and tell him that you want to do anything that can make him comfortable with you. Also tell him that if medical help needs to be involved that is ok. Ask him how he feels about that. There are natural ways to re-gain the libido as well. Just be open...it could be stress or something else in his life. So don't assume and just be honest (in a sensitive way) about your concerns.
I think the transition of being retired at such a early age and stage in his life, he has some hidden thoughts or worries in his mind that may be affecting his libido. Try getting him into something exciting...work probably was what made him thrive!! So now he needs something else to stimulate him mentally & physical to get him back to being sexually...best wishes!!
some men who are up in age don't have the stimina to do what
they use to do. The body changes over the years. Energy is
low. If you want your man to respond to you then you can buy
him some tablets that will help stimulate his arousal. You
just need to talk to him and tell him how you feel. He is
probably dealing with something.
how old is he!!!? i don't really know!
maybe he is having a midlife crisis and you sound like a wonderful supportive partner i think maybe you should take a holiday like a cruise or something maybe that will bring his libido back hope that helps XXX
Have you done anything differently go out and get some sexy lingerie whisper sweet nothings spice up the relationship get freaky just because sometimes a man needs a little push they seem to get too comfortable and forget what they have to do to maintain what they have
he is NORMAL!all men are like this!they want you as long as you have some thing new for them!when they feel bored,they just break you!
Answers: bit of good ole fashion loving will do pamper im send im off to the pub for an hour and then dress up ...etc...etc!
TELL HIM TO GET VIAGRA
maybe he's not feeling well or just slowing down a bit in the sexual department,it does happen,,try getting some sexy lingerie and candles ,see what happens
Tell him that it's time both of you had thorough physicals - blood work, enzymes, the whole enchilada (since it is anyway - it's time to get base measurements before you get to 50).
Could be there's a health problem involved that can be easily solved.
why not talk to a counsellor on your own and find out the symtoms of male menopause for male do have their menopause and girl its worse than the female for their ego is tied to it.God bless you
Do for him what you would want him to do for you. Be nice, patient, encouraging and try to relax and talk.
Ask him if you both can talk about intamacy over a cool calm setting. Turn everything off, cut cell phones off, and turn off the ringers to the house phones.
Let him know you respect him and do not view him any less, but you want to be open and free to talk about sex. Let him know your concerns, and tell him that you want to do anything that can make him comfortable with you. Also tell him that if medical help needs to be involved that is ok. Ask him how he feels about that. There are natural ways to re-gain the libido as well. Just be open...it could be stress or something else in his life. So don't assume and just be honest (in a sensitive way) about your concerns.
I think the transition of being retired at such a early age and stage in his life, he has some hidden thoughts or worries in his mind that may be affecting his libido. Try getting him into something exciting...work probably was what made him thrive!! So now he needs something else to stimulate him mentally & physical to get him back to being sexually...best wishes!!
some men who are up in age don't have the stimina to do what
they use to do. The body changes over the years. Energy is
low. If you want your man to respond to you then you can buy
him some tablets that will help stimulate his arousal. You
just need to talk to him and tell him how you feel. He is
probably dealing with something.
how old is he!!!? i don't really know!
maybe he is having a midlife crisis and you sound like a wonderful supportive partner i think maybe you should take a holiday like a cruise or something maybe that will bring his libido back hope that helps XXX
Have you done anything differently go out and get some sexy lingerie whisper sweet nothings spice up the relationship get freaky just because sometimes a man needs a little push they seem to get too comfortable and forget what they have to do to maintain what they have
he is NORMAL!all men are like this!they want you as long as you have some thing new for them!when they feel bored,they just break you!
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