I've been married for 2 years and even when my husband is the best, I don't like the sexual aspect...?
Question: My husband is a great guy: kind, nice, good looking, everything a woman will dream of, except for the sex element. He never wants to have sex with me, and when he wants, the way he tries to get closer is so pathetic that ruins everything. There is no excitment in our relationship, we don't have kids and I don't want to, because I don't even want to imagine how life is going to be with kids...
I want to have sex couple of times a day, with passion, excitment and emotion.
He offers me a lot of security and a bright future, but I feel empty and old, when I'm only 30.
I've cheated on him twice already and I don't see this stopping because he is not changing.
I've talked to him about my needs but nothing is happening.
What should I do?
Thanks,
Answers: Definitely seek professional help. But you screw up big time cheating on him. That's NEVER right no matter what the reason or excuse is. Don't ever cheat on your husband again and pray that he never finds out.
good luck..i don't know why men are so hard headed..my hubby doesn't listen at all either..scare him a little and tell him your leaving if he doesn't care about your feelings..
See a sexual therapist.
It sounds as if the change needs to come from you. Your lack of faithfullness and high expectations seems to make your hubby feel inadequete (excuse spelling). Try telling him what you like about him instead of what's not good enough.
Good Luck!
See a therapist or learn more form a good book. The more you pressure him (wanting passionate sex couple of times a day), the worse it may get.
sounds like your not happy anymore, take some counseling. Thats smart no kids until your sure.
Honestly, since you have and are cheating, maybe you do need to end the marriage and move on
If you're already cheating on the wuss guy left and right, its too late really...but if you must.
Get him a copy of The System or at least get him to sit down and read the Doc Love articles at Askmen.com
It will become his new religion, and you won't be able to get enough.
I want to have sex couple of times a day, with passion, excitment and emotion.
He offers me a lot of security and a bright future, but I feel empty and old, when I'm only 30.
I've cheated on him twice already and I don't see this stopping because he is not changing.
I've talked to him about my needs but nothing is happening.
What should I do?
Thanks,
Answers: Definitely seek professional help. But you screw up big time cheating on him. That's NEVER right no matter what the reason or excuse is. Don't ever cheat on your husband again and pray that he never finds out.
good luck..i don't know why men are so hard headed..my hubby doesn't listen at all either..scare him a little and tell him your leaving if he doesn't care about your feelings..
See a sexual therapist.
It sounds as if the change needs to come from you. Your lack of faithfullness and high expectations seems to make your hubby feel inadequete (excuse spelling). Try telling him what you like about him instead of what's not good enough.
Good Luck!
See a therapist or learn more form a good book. The more you pressure him (wanting passionate sex couple of times a day), the worse it may get.
sounds like your not happy anymore, take some counseling. Thats smart no kids until your sure.
Honestly, since you have and are cheating, maybe you do need to end the marriage and move on
If you're already cheating on the wuss guy left and right, its too late really...but if you must.
Get him a copy of The System or at least get him to sit down and read the Doc Love articles at Askmen.com
It will become his new religion, and you won't be able to get enough.
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