Will their relationship be sucessful?
Question: My ex-boyfriend/baby's father left me when I was 4 months pregnant and my daughter was six months old. This breakup happened out of the blue and he promised me that he wouldn't just walk out on me and the kids after our discovery of our pregnancy. He has moved on with another girl who has twins the same age as our 11 month old daughter and he spends more time with her children then his own. She knows about me and how I still feel about the situation of him leaving his family like that. Whenever he comes to visit his kids she always calls him and he sits on the phone with her during the visit with his children. Do you think it is right of her to get with a man who has walked out on his family like that and try to act like I shouldn't be upset or bothered.
Answers: Hello, you shouldn't worry, man can be really great when they are inlove, but that is never forever, and if he is not a good person he will again do the same thing. I think that you should find some other things that make you happy, the church, kids... Even if it all seems hopeless it isn't, somethimes you can discover beautifull things you didn' see before. When the love is in question it's never worth fighting for, because you can't make someone love you if he doesn't know what love is, and the first chacacteristic of love and most appreciated is sacrifice. There is the difference between the woman and man in romantic love, man should sacrifice for women with proving his love and affection, and woman feeling the same should do the sacrifice taking care of his children. In your case, that man doesn't love you, he doesn't know what love is. Do the little difference in this world, teach your children how to love, and your life will get the meaning.
I wish you all the best, you deserved it.
there will never be 100% sucessful or 90%,or 80%, or 70% or to tell you the truth it will never be
well sweet heart u kno soemthing who one do the same happ with him but it take a while he left u but i am sure that gril will live him soon and he will come back to u and crying and u know waht jsut let it go and other think if do not have time for his kid u jsut do now worry coz if u love some one onel the cane love u back so if he do not love his kid his kids will never love him
just take care and be happy with yourlife and kids
She should know that the same could happen to her.
first of all grow up !! you can't dictate someone's actions, people see who they choose to see, if he doesn't spend time with his children, as hurting as it is there's noting you can really do about it if he doesn't help support these children then file for child support, getting upset because he doesn't want to be with you only hurts the children, due to the arguements and fights you two have learn to separate your feeling for him and concentrate on the children. you two aren't married so, he's not obligated to be with or stay with you his only obligation is to his children thats life grow up
she will be asking the same question when he walks out on her
Answers: Hello, you shouldn't worry, man can be really great when they are inlove, but that is never forever, and if he is not a good person he will again do the same thing. I think that you should find some other things that make you happy, the church, kids... Even if it all seems hopeless it isn't, somethimes you can discover beautifull things you didn' see before. When the love is in question it's never worth fighting for, because you can't make someone love you if he doesn't know what love is, and the first chacacteristic of love and most appreciated is sacrifice. There is the difference between the woman and man in romantic love, man should sacrifice for women with proving his love and affection, and woman feeling the same should do the sacrifice taking care of his children. In your case, that man doesn't love you, he doesn't know what love is. Do the little difference in this world, teach your children how to love, and your life will get the meaning.
I wish you all the best, you deserved it.
there will never be 100% sucessful or 90%,or 80%, or 70% or to tell you the truth it will never be
well sweet heart u kno soemthing who one do the same happ with him but it take a while he left u but i am sure that gril will live him soon and he will come back to u and crying and u know waht jsut let it go and other think if do not have time for his kid u jsut do now worry coz if u love some one onel the cane love u back so if he do not love his kid his kids will never love him
just take care and be happy with yourlife and kids
She should know that the same could happen to her.
first of all grow up !! you can't dictate someone's actions, people see who they choose to see, if he doesn't spend time with his children, as hurting as it is there's noting you can really do about it if he doesn't help support these children then file for child support, getting upset because he doesn't want to be with you only hurts the children, due to the arguements and fights you two have learn to separate your feeling for him and concentrate on the children. you two aren't married so, he's not obligated to be with or stay with you his only obligation is to his children thats life grow up
she will be asking the same question when he walks out on her
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