How do you make your wife want you more than once a week?
Question: i do everything she wants around the house and i also understand massages and all that stuff. she just says she don't like it tht much. help?
Answers: She won't change. You won't adapt. You will almost always feel (rightfully) deprived and she will almost always feel (rightfully) Used and put upon. When you get down to once every six months you'll either cheat on her, get addicted to Internet porn or get a divorce.
Dude, sorry to hear that. Sounds like the 5 knuckle shuffle is the thing for you.
WOW.. ARE YOU SERIOUS WHEN U ASKED THIS QUESTION??? I DON'T THINK MY HUSBAND HAS TO DO ANYTHING TO MAKE ME WANT HIM MORE THAN ONCE A WEEK.
TALK TO HER.. MAYBE YOU'RE OVER DOING IT... LIKE THINGS AROUND THE HOUSE AND MASSAGES... YA KNOW.. I'M TICKLISH SO I HATED WHEN HE MASSAGES ME AROUND MY RIBS.. :)
Rosie Palm and her five sisters will oblige. Get to work.
Quite planning sex - talking about it all the time gets frustrating too. If it happens it happens. If you bump into her accidently and kiss her in the kitchen great.
Have you tried asking her to shower with you? All that rubbing could help her get in the mood. Do you tell her how sexy she is? Or compliment her? As us women put on weight/age/have babies, we can start feeling less attractive because we don't look the same as the honeymoon night. It might help bolster her self-confidence and your weekly fun time.
Pay her
Awww...you sound like a really nice guy,I wish I new your age maybe your wife isn't that comfortable sexually with herself. Or is she bored because its routine in the bed room. Try something different, buy her a sexy piece of lingerie and perfume. Spring it on her after you two have a night out. really take time making love to your wife, and tell her while in the middle of it I really miss this,I miss us I tell my man that all the time His work keeps him gone a lot so being with him means so much to me
Give me a break!!! You get it once a week? count yourself well lucky, Complain to me when you only get it once a year.
Kinell, some people just have lower sex drives, if you pressure her to have more, you WILL get less. Try w@nking with your other hand?
come one to her like you would when you first met, try dating. S
Bottom line: you can't make her want it more than she does. You have two different sex drives, period. Once a week is not the worse there is, believe me.
What amuses me is when people say it's normal to have a low sex drive and normal to have a high one, but then are always trying to find ways to fix the person with the low one. Why doesn't everyone spend the same amount of energy trying to find ways to lower the drive of the highly sexed person???
I bet all the significant others of the people complaining on this site about how little they get sex are on another site complaining about how oversexed you all are...
She's hopeless... cannot understand your needs even after gone thru counselling. Tell her you may look for somewho who would if she doesn't. :( I am sorry it sounds like a threat.
Answers: She won't change. You won't adapt. You will almost always feel (rightfully) deprived and she will almost always feel (rightfully) Used and put upon. When you get down to once every six months you'll either cheat on her, get addicted to Internet porn or get a divorce.
Dude, sorry to hear that. Sounds like the 5 knuckle shuffle is the thing for you.
WOW.. ARE YOU SERIOUS WHEN U ASKED THIS QUESTION??? I DON'T THINK MY HUSBAND HAS TO DO ANYTHING TO MAKE ME WANT HIM MORE THAN ONCE A WEEK.
TALK TO HER.. MAYBE YOU'RE OVER DOING IT... LIKE THINGS AROUND THE HOUSE AND MASSAGES... YA KNOW.. I'M TICKLISH SO I HATED WHEN HE MASSAGES ME AROUND MY RIBS.. :)
Rosie Palm and her five sisters will oblige. Get to work.
Quite planning sex - talking about it all the time gets frustrating too. If it happens it happens. If you bump into her accidently and kiss her in the kitchen great.
Have you tried asking her to shower with you? All that rubbing could help her get in the mood. Do you tell her how sexy she is? Or compliment her? As us women put on weight/age/have babies, we can start feeling less attractive because we don't look the same as the honeymoon night. It might help bolster her self-confidence and your weekly fun time.
Pay her
Awww...you sound like a really nice guy,I wish I new your age maybe your wife isn't that comfortable sexually with herself. Or is she bored because its routine in the bed room. Try something different, buy her a sexy piece of lingerie and perfume. Spring it on her after you two have a night out. really take time making love to your wife, and tell her while in the middle of it I really miss this,I miss us I tell my man that all the time His work keeps him gone a lot so being with him means so much to me
Give me a break!!! You get it once a week? count yourself well lucky, Complain to me when you only get it once a year.
Kinell, some people just have lower sex drives, if you pressure her to have more, you WILL get less. Try w@nking with your other hand?
come one to her like you would when you first met, try dating. S
Bottom line: you can't make her want it more than she does. You have two different sex drives, period. Once a week is not the worse there is, believe me.
What amuses me is when people say it's normal to have a low sex drive and normal to have a high one, but then are always trying to find ways to fix the person with the low one. Why doesn't everyone spend the same amount of energy trying to find ways to lower the drive of the highly sexed person???
I bet all the significant others of the people complaining on this site about how little they get sex are on another site complaining about how oversexed you all are...
She's hopeless... cannot understand your needs even after gone thru counselling. Tell her you may look for somewho who would if she doesn't. :( I am sorry it sounds like a threat.
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