My husband has been gone for a year and is coming home May1st. How do I get out of the situation I am in?
Question: Since my husband has been gone a friend has been helping me with the bills and stuff and has fallen in love with me. He said that if I go back to my husband then he is going to harm us both. I am staying with him and the only thing I came up with was just to sneak out in the middle of the night. He is 97% mentally disabled and says things like he could kill someone and just spend 30 days in a nut house and plead insane and get away with it. He is basically normal but just has fits and outburst and I also have a 2 and 5 year old child.
Answers: Quote: He is basically normal but just has fits and outburst..............
HOney, I think you are right, He is basically normal, but YOU ARE MENTAL.......
Some would say that this is punishment enough for your infidelity, although i dont agree, i dont think it is punishment enough.......
Look at it this way sugarpie, you had your fun and now it is paytime!!
Useful options: Beg for forgiveness from your husband , tell him you have been stupid ( i am sure he wont be surprised)..and that you are not worthy of his love, ( only guessing here, so dont worry), and that you deserve more love than ever to stop you from going behind mental psychos.........
where did your husband go for a year by the way...if he was in prison it shouldnt be a problem, since he will be used to dealing with these mental persons..........if he is a psychiatrist, again , no problem, but if he is a priest, well atleast he can pray for both of you......
To protect and to pray
tuf time!
leave on time.
this will show u direction!
Take the children and yourself to the nearest police station and report him. THen confess to your husband what happened and tell him about this sicko. It's going to get out anyway. Tell him you are sorry and you were lonely at the time. Get the hell away from this man he is dangerous.
how did u end up w/him in d 1st place??? if he's mentally disturbed, how did u allow urself 2b close 2 him???
u need 2 wait 4 ur husband & tell him abt this so he'll b aware of potential threats 2 his life.
ARE you nuts RUN,RUN,RUN he's going to hurt one day if you stay or your kids#2 if your husband was in the war you get what you get, ie saying it nicely!
if you don't want your huspband to come any where near you or your children as he sounds dangerous and extremely harmful- i know my dad and brothers are iscisafrenic!!!
go to the police and get a restraining order, and ask yourself why he left to start with he isnt fit to have a family i know its harsh but people like that dont deserve to associate with people especially if they cant control their anger. if you still love this friend of yours, remember it is worse to lie to self than to others so dont deprive youorself your entitled to be happy whom ever that may be with-good luck.
You need to anonymously report this guy, and definately be straight with your husband. You might not like the outcome afterward, but your children and you will be more safe. If this guy is saying things like that he is more than likely very capable of doing them.
well tell this guy everything is ok...........when ur husband comes team along with ur husband cause u have no other option meet a psychatrist and ask how to deal with such kind of a guy.........maybe he is scaring u and has no spunks actually whatsoever u can even use police help prooving him insane well my instinct says he will flee when u have any company.
The question is not how to get of the situation, but why did you let yourself get into it in the first place. Please stop fooling yourself, you took advantage of this man and his disability, so stop whineing and deal with the situation. Get out for the sake of your kids, move as far away from this as you can get and for once be honest with your husband. Tell him why you used this other guy and then show some humility and file for a divorce from your husband as he obviously doesn't mean that much to you since you hooked up with another guy the second he was forced to leave.
Girl, did you put yourself in a pickle this time. First, you have to know which one you love. Living under threats are not nice either. Sometime's men make idle threats too. You'll have to make the right desission sooner or later for yourself. It really hasn't been explained why your first guy was away for a year, so I really can't say anything about that matter. What I think you need right now is a song and a pray. I hope you make the right desission... Dr Checko... (Nickname)
First try secretly taping a conversation. the taped record shows premedatation. You can also contact the police as they can help you. Also talk to your husband. Once he returns and explain every thing.
I'm willing to bet he still loves you and is willing to help once.
BUT first try taping a chat with roomie now and take it with you when you talk to police.
YOu can not tape a phone conversation. It must be face to face. ( a video would be best) by a voice only can work also. )
May God Protect you and your family.
good question
leave your shi* and get the fu** out of that place now!!!!
you can deal with the problems like where to live later, just be alive to have those problems. Don't wait for your man to get back. That would put him in danger too. Get in contact with your man now and tell him what you are doing and why so he doesn't get any surprises. Purchase a very large knife and keep it in your bag/ on your person at all times. Do not spend another nite in that place. Don't make any calls to anyone from there. He could be recording stuff.
Treat this threat seriously, maybe there is nothing to it, but I would rather that you live to feel foolish for feeling paranoid.
first of all u r making too many excuses for this guy,he seems to be very dangerous,u need to protect your self &kids,go to the police now or make a call,talk to your husband ,that is if u think u can, if not seek help &run with your kids to safety'next time look before u leap.take care &be safe.
TELL HIM THE TRUTH.....
Answers: Quote: He is basically normal but just has fits and outburst..............
HOney, I think you are right, He is basically normal, but YOU ARE MENTAL.......
Some would say that this is punishment enough for your infidelity, although i dont agree, i dont think it is punishment enough.......
Look at it this way sugarpie, you had your fun and now it is paytime!!
Useful options: Beg for forgiveness from your husband , tell him you have been stupid ( i am sure he wont be surprised)..and that you are not worthy of his love, ( only guessing here, so dont worry), and that you deserve more love than ever to stop you from going behind mental psychos.........
where did your husband go for a year by the way...if he was in prison it shouldnt be a problem, since he will be used to dealing with these mental persons..........if he is a psychiatrist, again , no problem, but if he is a priest, well atleast he can pray for both of you......
To protect and to pray
tuf time!
leave on time.
this will show u direction!
Take the children and yourself to the nearest police station and report him. THen confess to your husband what happened and tell him about this sicko. It's going to get out anyway. Tell him you are sorry and you were lonely at the time. Get the hell away from this man he is dangerous.
how did u end up w/him in d 1st place??? if he's mentally disturbed, how did u allow urself 2b close 2 him???
u need 2 wait 4 ur husband & tell him abt this so he'll b aware of potential threats 2 his life.
ARE you nuts RUN,RUN,RUN he's going to hurt one day if you stay or your kids#2 if your husband was in the war you get what you get, ie saying it nicely!
if you don't want your huspband to come any where near you or your children as he sounds dangerous and extremely harmful- i know my dad and brothers are iscisafrenic!!!
go to the police and get a restraining order, and ask yourself why he left to start with he isnt fit to have a family i know its harsh but people like that dont deserve to associate with people especially if they cant control their anger. if you still love this friend of yours, remember it is worse to lie to self than to others so dont deprive youorself your entitled to be happy whom ever that may be with-good luck.
You need to anonymously report this guy, and definately be straight with your husband. You might not like the outcome afterward, but your children and you will be more safe. If this guy is saying things like that he is more than likely very capable of doing them.
well tell this guy everything is ok...........when ur husband comes team along with ur husband cause u have no other option meet a psychatrist and ask how to deal with such kind of a guy.........maybe he is scaring u and has no spunks actually whatsoever u can even use police help prooving him insane well my instinct says he will flee when u have any company.
The question is not how to get of the situation, but why did you let yourself get into it in the first place. Please stop fooling yourself, you took advantage of this man and his disability, so stop whineing and deal with the situation. Get out for the sake of your kids, move as far away from this as you can get and for once be honest with your husband. Tell him why you used this other guy and then show some humility and file for a divorce from your husband as he obviously doesn't mean that much to you since you hooked up with another guy the second he was forced to leave.
Girl, did you put yourself in a pickle this time. First, you have to know which one you love. Living under threats are not nice either. Sometime's men make idle threats too. You'll have to make the right desission sooner or later for yourself. It really hasn't been explained why your first guy was away for a year, so I really can't say anything about that matter. What I think you need right now is a song and a pray. I hope you make the right desission... Dr Checko... (Nickname)
First try secretly taping a conversation. the taped record shows premedatation. You can also contact the police as they can help you. Also talk to your husband. Once he returns and explain every thing.
I'm willing to bet he still loves you and is willing to help once.
BUT first try taping a chat with roomie now and take it with you when you talk to police.
YOu can not tape a phone conversation. It must be face to face. ( a video would be best) by a voice only can work also. )
May God Protect you and your family.
good question
leave your shi* and get the fu** out of that place now!!!!
you can deal with the problems like where to live later, just be alive to have those problems. Don't wait for your man to get back. That would put him in danger too. Get in contact with your man now and tell him what you are doing and why so he doesn't get any surprises. Purchase a very large knife and keep it in your bag/ on your person at all times. Do not spend another nite in that place. Don't make any calls to anyone from there. He could be recording stuff.
Treat this threat seriously, maybe there is nothing to it, but I would rather that you live to feel foolish for feeling paranoid.
first of all u r making too many excuses for this guy,he seems to be very dangerous,u need to protect your self &kids,go to the police now or make a call,talk to your husband ,that is if u think u can, if not seek help &run with your kids to safety'next time look before u leap.take care &be safe.
TELL HIM THE TRUTH.....
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