What should I do? I 'm getting worn out!?
Question: This question refers back to my last question just click on my profile, I realize I have 7 yrs invested in this marraige and would like nothing more than to see it work out. But Im geeting realy tierd it seems like Im the only one that really has any desire to really try, I have family elsewhere that cares loves me and wants me arond and they show me that. Here where we live its just him and I and he acts as if he dosent care wheather I'm here or not and the only reason that I am here is for him....Please help I am so confused and lonley
Answers: It might not be a bad idea to take as much time as you can afford to get away and go see your family. Before you go sit him down and explain that you love him but you feel that you are in this marriage by yourself. Tell him that you are going to take some time away from him and you want him to see how he feels being alone. Its not a separation per say but some time apart may be beneficial for both of you. Sometimes people get comfortable in their marriages and take each other for granted. Perhaps if you weren't there he would realize all he would lose if you divorced him one day. On the other hand he may not and you need to be prepared for that. Look at it this way. I realize that you have 7 years invested in this marriage but there is still time to get out and find someone who appreciates you if you current partner doesn't. Give him some space but let him know why you are giving it to him. Let him know that you would like to sit down and talk about both of your feelings when you get back.
well its time to step out
The dreaded 7 year itch. I do believe in it. However, if you get through the next year things begin to level out. Speak to him about it. You could start the conversation by mentioning the 7 year itch and whether or not he believes in it.........that's a start, go on from there..........
its your choice. you want to run i think. it might be time to fight for your marriage. go to marriage counseling alone if he wont go. 7 years is a long time but nothing compared to being happy for the rest of your life. i would decide to make it work.
make yourself someone he wants to be with. maybe your feelings are different after a short visit away. i would be happy to talk to you more.
ok write a note say i tried to talk to you about this im lonly you said its all in my head well it not im heart broken i need you i need your attintion and love like befor i left last time i cant get it from you so im going home you change your mind give me a call if not give me a devorce so i can find some one who will give me what i need your loving but lonly wife and leave hell eather get the message or devorce you eather way your better off the reason i feel you need to write the not e and go and not sit and talk is you already tryed that now you need to go for shock value and this will be it dont say by or any thing just leave note when hes away and pack an leave
try to have a sit down talk.
Answers: It might not be a bad idea to take as much time as you can afford to get away and go see your family. Before you go sit him down and explain that you love him but you feel that you are in this marriage by yourself. Tell him that you are going to take some time away from him and you want him to see how he feels being alone. Its not a separation per say but some time apart may be beneficial for both of you. Sometimes people get comfortable in their marriages and take each other for granted. Perhaps if you weren't there he would realize all he would lose if you divorced him one day. On the other hand he may not and you need to be prepared for that. Look at it this way. I realize that you have 7 years invested in this marriage but there is still time to get out and find someone who appreciates you if you current partner doesn't. Give him some space but let him know why you are giving it to him. Let him know that you would like to sit down and talk about both of your feelings when you get back.
well its time to step out
The dreaded 7 year itch. I do believe in it. However, if you get through the next year things begin to level out. Speak to him about it. You could start the conversation by mentioning the 7 year itch and whether or not he believes in it.........that's a start, go on from there..........
its your choice. you want to run i think. it might be time to fight for your marriage. go to marriage counseling alone if he wont go. 7 years is a long time but nothing compared to being happy for the rest of your life. i would decide to make it work.
make yourself someone he wants to be with. maybe your feelings are different after a short visit away. i would be happy to talk to you more.
ok write a note say i tried to talk to you about this im lonly you said its all in my head well it not im heart broken i need you i need your attintion and love like befor i left last time i cant get it from you so im going home you change your mind give me a call if not give me a devorce so i can find some one who will give me what i need your loving but lonly wife and leave hell eather get the message or devorce you eather way your better off the reason i feel you need to write the not e and go and not sit and talk is you already tryed that now you need to go for shock value and this will be it dont say by or any thing just leave note when hes away and pack an leave
try to have a sit down talk.
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