Should I Marry This girl just because shes having my child?
Question: I dont really love her and she gets on my nerves, but i want to do the right thing for shorty.
Answers: Hell NO!
My mom told me something when I got pregnant for my boyfriend: You don't have to make one mistake trying to correct another. I married. We stayed together 18 months.
Unless you are willing to go to counseling, or do whatever it takes to make her happy, don't fool her. She deserves to be loved by someone who can respect her and value her always, and visa versa!
Children would rather see parents loving each other and respecting each other instead of living in misery.
If you can't do right by her, then you need to carefully think through your options.
What does she say? How does she really feel? Does she know how you really feel?
The decision is ultimately yours to make. Do it with reverence, wisdom, and respect for her and the unborn baby.
No marry anyone if your not in love with them. It's not going to work out and the both of you are not going to be happy. The baby doesn't need to be raised in a place like that. You can still be in your childs life without having to be with the partner. It wouldn't be healthy for all of you. The way you can do right by the baby is be a good father.
Absolutely else her blood will cry for you in the day of judgment and there is no escape for you as you already committed adultery and unforgiven sin will be on your head if you don't marry that girl and if the child is aborted then you will be a murderer before God.
NO
Stay near and be a part of his life. Don't force your child to grow up in a broken home. Give support to the mother all threw her pregnancy and afterwards, but never lie and say you love her when you don't. Be honest and good to your child and he'll end up right.
No.
NO NO NO NO NO!!!!!!! You should never get married because you are having a child together. You should both love the child and be equally responsible for caring for the child, but marriage is for people who are in love, and even then it can be tough. If you are in love go for it, otherwise you , her and the kid will all be miserable!
Answers: Hell NO!
My mom told me something when I got pregnant for my boyfriend: You don't have to make one mistake trying to correct another. I married. We stayed together 18 months.
Unless you are willing to go to counseling, or do whatever it takes to make her happy, don't fool her. She deserves to be loved by someone who can respect her and value her always, and visa versa!
Children would rather see parents loving each other and respecting each other instead of living in misery.
If you can't do right by her, then you need to carefully think through your options.
What does she say? How does she really feel? Does she know how you really feel?
The decision is ultimately yours to make. Do it with reverence, wisdom, and respect for her and the unborn baby.
No marry anyone if your not in love with them. It's not going to work out and the both of you are not going to be happy. The baby doesn't need to be raised in a place like that. You can still be in your childs life without having to be with the partner. It wouldn't be healthy for all of you. The way you can do right by the baby is be a good father.
Absolutely else her blood will cry for you in the day of judgment and there is no escape for you as you already committed adultery and unforgiven sin will be on your head if you don't marry that girl and if the child is aborted then you will be a murderer before God.
NO
Stay near and be a part of his life. Don't force your child to grow up in a broken home. Give support to the mother all threw her pregnancy and afterwards, but never lie and say you love her when you don't. Be honest and good to your child and he'll end up right.
No.
NO NO NO NO NO!!!!!!! You should never get married because you are having a child together. You should both love the child and be equally responsible for caring for the child, but marriage is for people who are in love, and even then it can be tough. If you are in love go for it, otherwise you , her and the kid will all be miserable!
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