Why do men lie and cheat sooooo much....?
Answers: For the same reasons women do, they are selfish and unwilling to do the real work of making a marriage work.
These are not male or female traits, selfish people come in both genders
Normally because they are not satisfied with their life, or choices they have made. Be advised: a truly satisfied man would never think about cheating or lieing. Men need to be shown that they are appreciated and often (not by keeping a clean house or taking care of children). This is important, but not to be mistaken for showing your man that you love HIM! I think to a certain degree the way they want this, is different than the way a woman would want it. So, sit your Man down and in a very loving conversation, tell him what your thinking and ask him what sort of things will make him happy. Heads up though, Be aware that you are opening a door and may need to try things outside your comfort zone. This is also a good time to share what makes you happy. What sort of things would show you he is thinking about you, and noticing all that you do. Sharing and listening with a whole lot of understanding. A woman truly wanting to please her man, what a gold mine. I only wish more woman could understand what their man needs. Lastly, With a house full of children, YOU MUST MAKE TIME to keep your love affair with your Man alive (Hot&Spicey). And if your only reason for letting this slip is that your to tired from running the home and taking care of children, Then you have missed the point. Go back to the beginning of this posting and reread it. Do it untill you finally get it. :-) I believe most men want to be honorable.
Women do it as much as men do. I've known both.....unfortunately.
*People* lie & cheat mostly because they don't want to be alone. They want someone in their life that loves them and treats them well. If the person they are with treats them badly, the temptation is....often not a conscious one....to turn on the ole flirt machine, which goes out and finds anyone that's 'interested'.
Then it's a simple mater of rationalizing your way to a simple conversation....then a drink....then a hug.....then.....
You get the idea. Granted, some do go out purposely and cheat. Maybe it's ego, being unsatisfied....whatever.
It's hurtful to go thru, and it's a tough life lesson at any age. Try to deal with it, learn from it as best you can without being bitter or vindictive about it. Whatever you do tho, do NOT make the next person pay for the other guys garbage. You do not want to let it tarnish you, because it will only follow you and ruin other relationships for you.
Good luck to you -
i have to ask the same question about women. Uh...it's really kind of mutual. I don't think either sex has cornered the market on cheating or lieing. Who do you think these women are cheating with?
These are not male or female traits, selfish people come in both genders
Normally because they are not satisfied with their life, or choices they have made. Be advised: a truly satisfied man would never think about cheating or lieing. Men need to be shown that they are appreciated and often (not by keeping a clean house or taking care of children). This is important, but not to be mistaken for showing your man that you love HIM! I think to a certain degree the way they want this, is different than the way a woman would want it. So, sit your Man down and in a very loving conversation, tell him what your thinking and ask him what sort of things will make him happy. Heads up though, Be aware that you are opening a door and may need to try things outside your comfort zone. This is also a good time to share what makes you happy. What sort of things would show you he is thinking about you, and noticing all that you do. Sharing and listening with a whole lot of understanding. A woman truly wanting to please her man, what a gold mine. I only wish more woman could understand what their man needs. Lastly, With a house full of children, YOU MUST MAKE TIME to keep your love affair with your Man alive (Hot&Spicey). And if your only reason for letting this slip is that your to tired from running the home and taking care of children, Then you have missed the point. Go back to the beginning of this posting and reread it. Do it untill you finally get it. :-) I believe most men want to be honorable.
Women do it as much as men do. I've known both.....unfortunately.
*People* lie & cheat mostly because they don't want to be alone. They want someone in their life that loves them and treats them well. If the person they are with treats them badly, the temptation is....often not a conscious one....to turn on the ole flirt machine, which goes out and finds anyone that's 'interested'.
Then it's a simple mater of rationalizing your way to a simple conversation....then a drink....then a hug.....then.....
You get the idea. Granted, some do go out purposely and cheat. Maybe it's ego, being unsatisfied....whatever.
It's hurtful to go thru, and it's a tough life lesson at any age. Try to deal with it, learn from it as best you can without being bitter or vindictive about it. Whatever you do tho, do NOT make the next person pay for the other guys garbage. You do not want to let it tarnish you, because it will only follow you and ruin other relationships for you.
Good luck to you -
i have to ask the same question about women. Uh...it's really kind of mutual. I don't think either sex has cornered the market on cheating or lieing. Who do you think these women are cheating with?
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