Why most people encouraging divorce & despise and blame those mistresses or 2nd wife?
Question: I do not understand why there are people could not be understanding over issues of loving with married man or becoming 2nd wife is to be blame or despise by social? If you think divorce is a good solution for those pitiful wives to start afresh, then you are totally wrong and selfish coz encouraging people into divorce is a great sin (unless being abused or violent by husband).
My husband has two wives and I'm the second and do not feel ashamed coz he is responsible in taking care both families. I'm not a home wrecker coz I would never encourage him for divorce or deserting the 1st family.
To those legally wives - do you think your marriage would be everlasting and guarantee your husband will be faithful to you? This world is too full of excitements and irresible. If your husband has a mistress or 2nd wife, who do you think should be blame? Mistress?? No.. is yourself coz you create the chance for them to have relationship. Therefore, pls do not prejudice on mistresses.
Answers: Exactly - if you give them the chance they will. Just as if our husband or partner doesnt give us the attention we need, we look elsewhere for the comfort and support. Its human nature to be wanted. Everything happens for a reason and ya cant fight fate.
If both women know about it and are happy I don't see anything wrong with poligamy.
i have been married for eight years my hubby has never cheated on me and i can say he never would. first i think you have serious issues to think this is what a relationship is based on a marriage is two people loving each other and there should be no other you need to talk to someone and get out.
What?! How strange of a question/post. Your husband is married to two women? Do you all live in the same home? Or does he split his time between the two families? Are you mormon?
I am a 2nd wife...but was never a mistress...and my husband was divorced before we got married. Every situation is different, for everyone. My husband was young/dumb his first time around, and got messed up, with a very manipulative young/dumb girl who black mailed him.
That doesn't mean he isn't a good man. He is a wonderful man, who works very had to provide for his family. He has no want for any more wives/mistresses...BUTTTT...if he did...then yea...He could be on his merry freaking way...
You have obviously, been BRAINWASHED by your husband into thinking this sort of *situation* is okay...and of Course, I'm sure he's very happy with it...Hopefully he has a REALLLY good job, to provide for EVERYONE he feels like sleeping with...and hopefully....you use ALOT of protection from all the diseases out in the world today.
you say you are totally wrong and selfish coz encouraging people into divorce is a great sin
is adultery a sin?
Seeing how you are being defensive about any type of negativity that will be thrown your way and will come up with any rational to defend yourself you know you feel guilty of selfishness because you want your share of what someone else has.
If you want to live your life in a free love life style, that's up to you, but don't come and try to tell me that you are right by what you and this dude are doing, because your not.
I'm sorry but I just don't get the second wife BS.
My husband has two wives and I'm the second and do not feel ashamed coz he is responsible in taking care both families. I'm not a home wrecker coz I would never encourage him for divorce or deserting the 1st family.
To those legally wives - do you think your marriage would be everlasting and guarantee your husband will be faithful to you? This world is too full of excitements and irresible. If your husband has a mistress or 2nd wife, who do you think should be blame? Mistress?? No.. is yourself coz you create the chance for them to have relationship. Therefore, pls do not prejudice on mistresses.
Answers: Exactly - if you give them the chance they will. Just as if our husband or partner doesnt give us the attention we need, we look elsewhere for the comfort and support. Its human nature to be wanted. Everything happens for a reason and ya cant fight fate.
If both women know about it and are happy I don't see anything wrong with poligamy.
i have been married for eight years my hubby has never cheated on me and i can say he never would. first i think you have serious issues to think this is what a relationship is based on a marriage is two people loving each other and there should be no other you need to talk to someone and get out.
What?! How strange of a question/post. Your husband is married to two women? Do you all live in the same home? Or does he split his time between the two families? Are you mormon?
I am a 2nd wife...but was never a mistress...and my husband was divorced before we got married. Every situation is different, for everyone. My husband was young/dumb his first time around, and got messed up, with a very manipulative young/dumb girl who black mailed him.
That doesn't mean he isn't a good man. He is a wonderful man, who works very had to provide for his family. He has no want for any more wives/mistresses...BUTTTT...if he did...then yea...He could be on his merry freaking way...
You have obviously, been BRAINWASHED by your husband into thinking this sort of *situation* is okay...and of Course, I'm sure he's very happy with it...Hopefully he has a REALLLY good job, to provide for EVERYONE he feels like sleeping with...and hopefully....you use ALOT of protection from all the diseases out in the world today.
you say you are totally wrong and selfish coz encouraging people into divorce is a great sin
is adultery a sin?
Seeing how you are being defensive about any type of negativity that will be thrown your way and will come up with any rational to defend yourself you know you feel guilty of selfishness because you want your share of what someone else has.
If you want to live your life in a free love life style, that's up to you, but don't come and try to tell me that you are right by what you and this dude are doing, because your not.
I'm sorry but I just don't get the second wife BS.
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