Is there life after he's admitted cheating?
Question: We have been divorced several years now, but he still loves me. And wants to be together. I really feel that he is sincere. We have one hugh common interest---our 10yr old daughter. I am considering getting back with him, and perhaps renew our yows in the future. Should I take him back?
Answers: Love conquers all. Everyone makes mistakes in life, and the Bible tells us to forgive and forget. If you truly believe that he loves and cares for you and your daughter, and that his words and actions are sincere, I would consent to a test run. Go out on a few dates with him. See how he acts, how he treats you.
At least he addmitted to cheating on you. I don't know the circumstances, but most men deny, deny, deny cheating or infidelity.
Take your time and see if your relationship comes back to life. Don't rush into anything, follow your heart and ask God to direct your steps in this relationship. If anyone can help you, God is well able!
If you only have your daughter in common, then no, this will not work. Can you trust him in your heart now after he has cheated. If you can't, or you don't know the answer, that is another reason not to go back.
You didn't write anything about loving and trusting him completely and whole heartedly. Without that, the relationship is not going to make it.
DAM GIRL, THATS A HARD ONE. I THOUGHT THERE WAS LIFE AFTER BUT ONLY TO FIND OUT THAT ITS BEEN HAPPING AGAIN.GOOD LUCK.
Do you want to be questioning his every move? feeling like, if he goes out, he's with another girl? you'd probably feel like you need to keep tabs on him, and what kind of life is that? if the trust is gone, it's gone...don't do it.
oh god no easy answer thats for sure im in the same situation hun only we never got married maybe u guys were 2 young to get married and now he has realised what he wants give it a trial run dont get back just for the sake of your child
it's understandable you have a child but i don't think it's a good idea.
Yes. He loves you. You love him. Deep down from reading your message it appears that you really want to. And that is great! Plus, you are the mother of his child. He cheated, it was wrong and you were hurt. However, if you have healed and moved on and want to try again, set some ground rules, limits, and live together for a few months before marrying to resettle with one another. And, really do some soul searching with your decision and make sure that things will work out. Only you know if they will. Because you two share a 10 year old, she will undoubtedly be hurt again twofold if your ex-husband decides to explore other women outside the home again. I do hope things work out for the both of you and you are able to love each other again.
people do change, but no matter the answers that u get in this forum it will still b up to u to know whether o not u wanna get back with him. the best thing to do is for u guys to both go to a family counsellor.
P.S. TAKE IT VERY SLOW AND EVENTUALLY U'LL KNOW
Answers: Love conquers all. Everyone makes mistakes in life, and the Bible tells us to forgive and forget. If you truly believe that he loves and cares for you and your daughter, and that his words and actions are sincere, I would consent to a test run. Go out on a few dates with him. See how he acts, how he treats you.
At least he addmitted to cheating on you. I don't know the circumstances, but most men deny, deny, deny cheating or infidelity.
Take your time and see if your relationship comes back to life. Don't rush into anything, follow your heart and ask God to direct your steps in this relationship. If anyone can help you, God is well able!
If you only have your daughter in common, then no, this will not work. Can you trust him in your heart now after he has cheated. If you can't, or you don't know the answer, that is another reason not to go back.
You didn't write anything about loving and trusting him completely and whole heartedly. Without that, the relationship is not going to make it.
DAM GIRL, THATS A HARD ONE. I THOUGHT THERE WAS LIFE AFTER BUT ONLY TO FIND OUT THAT ITS BEEN HAPPING AGAIN.GOOD LUCK.
Do you want to be questioning his every move? feeling like, if he goes out, he's with another girl? you'd probably feel like you need to keep tabs on him, and what kind of life is that? if the trust is gone, it's gone...don't do it.
oh god no easy answer thats for sure im in the same situation hun only we never got married maybe u guys were 2 young to get married and now he has realised what he wants give it a trial run dont get back just for the sake of your child
it's understandable you have a child but i don't think it's a good idea.
Yes. He loves you. You love him. Deep down from reading your message it appears that you really want to. And that is great! Plus, you are the mother of his child. He cheated, it was wrong and you were hurt. However, if you have healed and moved on and want to try again, set some ground rules, limits, and live together for a few months before marrying to resettle with one another. And, really do some soul searching with your decision and make sure that things will work out. Only you know if they will. Because you two share a 10 year old, she will undoubtedly be hurt again twofold if your ex-husband decides to explore other women outside the home again. I do hope things work out for the both of you and you are able to love each other again.
people do change, but no matter the answers that u get in this forum it will still b up to u to know whether o not u wanna get back with him. the best thing to do is for u guys to both go to a family counsellor.
P.S. TAKE IT VERY SLOW AND EVENTUALLY U'LL KNOW
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