What is the right age to get married?
Question: Me and my fella have been engaged now for about 2 and half years, we have 2 adoreable children together, but i am 7 years yonger than he is, should we marry or should i wait longer?
ADVICE NEEDED PLEASE.
Answers: So you are 7 years younger than your man--big deal! As long as you are both over the legal age to marry--go for it!
Make sure this is what you both want before taking that next step though--from experience it's a doozy! If either of you feels like you must get married just because you have children together--DON'T GET MARRIED!!! That will just make your relationship end badly for you, him and the children! My parents are 9 years apart in age--married for 33 years now; my grandparents were 15 years apart and married for 17 years (my grandfather died & my grandmother never remarried). I married a man who was only 1 year older than me--ended badly (we married because we had a child) and I remarried because I was in love with a man who is 5 years older--been together now for 13 years!
YOU ALREADY HAVE THE KIDS, RIGHT? duhhhhh...and NOW you're worried about when to get married? duh,duh
24-28 is the right age to marry where u can understand each other well
When you start understanding the difference between right and wrong.
i think it is about time but only you 2 can decide that
If you have already been together that long and already have kids... Ya'll are basically married anyway. The only thing ya'll don't have is the piece of paper saying it's legal. I say go ahead and get married.
I think you will both know when you are ready for this regardless of age. Don't rush it just because it's the thing to do, wait until you are both ready.
My personal opinion is that if you are old enough to have the children together, you are old enough to be married. The age difference didn't matter when you got pregnant so why should it matter now?
Well you already have kids, why the wait?
You have to wait until the time is right for both of you. But in my opinion get married now. You already have a family together, what more do you need?
haha i am not allowed to have real answers due to the fact that they will be deleted, so hope that helped
peace&like said it all
now
if u love hime then do it age is just a number u already have kids with him
i think you should wait till the kids get married then decide
If you are over 23, go ahead!
whenever you feel like it.if you are old enough to have kids i think you are old enough to be married. Good luck!
Since you have kids and are engaged, what is stopping you from marrying?
7 years younger than him shouldn't be a big deal. Unless he ain't keen on marrying you?
if you love him and he loves you what is the problem? kids or no kids! be real
Wow, you already have kids with him, and you are worried because of the marriage?! Well, you have already finished your problems, and marriage is just a signature on the paper! The important things are that you have a happy life with your husband and your children! It's not late to get married now, it's never too late, when you love somebody!
Honey you need to get to the Justice of the Peace today. Shame on you for having two illegitimate children out of wedlock. What kind of an example are you parents to your children.
Stop waiting for the dream the milk is already spoiled.
I believe if you have children and a good relationship get married....
if u guys think u r totally cmfortable wit each othr n hv *** 2 kno each othr well den i don c any reason to wait anymor...if u'v been olready leaving togethr for two yrs n have 2 children den u r as well married n ur mind...so if u guys r sure den go ahead....Good luck!!!
You should get married now.
You can get amarried any time you want now coz you already have kids. That kids will be a bound between you and your spouse.
So, you can marry even after few year.
There is no right age. It has to do with maturity and certainty. Apparently, you are mature enough, if you are raising children together, and are seeking to do what is best. You don't have a fear of commitment, since you have been together a while, and have had children together.
However, you appear to be feeling some doubts, due to your age difference. I would wait until you have no more doubts. Your doubts may be your intuition telling you that you aren't ready for marriage, even though he may be the perfect guy for you. Relax, give it some time. There is no rush; when it's the right time, you will know. It is far better for the children to see a loving relationship, than be subjected to a messy divorce, because you rushed into marriage you didn't feel ready for, causing your relationship to sour.
Ideally, marriage should happen before the kids, but as long as you are trying to what is right now, that is what is important.
Good luck =)
12-14
never, you can add each other to the lease make your health care and durable power of attorney arrangements without if legal issues are your concern ,marrying because you have children or you should is a poor reason to get married, and part of the reason the divorce rate is extremely high
Marraige is a very serious commitment. You obviously have decided to get married since you are engaged. Marraige strengthens your commitment to each other and declares your love for each other to the world at large. It also provides a more stable environment for your children.
I would encourage you to consider sooner rather than later. My wife and I were engaged after 3 months and married 1 year after that on the advice of her parents. We just celebrated our 19th anniversary.
go ahead and get married, unless you have been holding back because you dont love him, think about it hard okie Good lUck :-)
Naturally, like everything else, it varies per individual, but taking everything into consideration today, many experts and laymen alike will tell you 28 is when the personality has gelled enough that you can make such of commitment. With that said-- BEFORE having children is always the right age! It shouldn't be a question now-- do what's right for the children!
ADVICE NEEDED PLEASE.
Answers: So you are 7 years younger than your man--big deal! As long as you are both over the legal age to marry--go for it!
Make sure this is what you both want before taking that next step though--from experience it's a doozy! If either of you feels like you must get married just because you have children together--DON'T GET MARRIED!!! That will just make your relationship end badly for you, him and the children! My parents are 9 years apart in age--married for 33 years now; my grandparents were 15 years apart and married for 17 years (my grandfather died & my grandmother never remarried). I married a man who was only 1 year older than me--ended badly (we married because we had a child) and I remarried because I was in love with a man who is 5 years older--been together now for 13 years!
YOU ALREADY HAVE THE KIDS, RIGHT? duhhhhh...and NOW you're worried about when to get married? duh,duh
24-28 is the right age to marry where u can understand each other well
When you start understanding the difference between right and wrong.
i think it is about time but only you 2 can decide that
If you have already been together that long and already have kids... Ya'll are basically married anyway. The only thing ya'll don't have is the piece of paper saying it's legal. I say go ahead and get married.
I think you will both know when you are ready for this regardless of age. Don't rush it just because it's the thing to do, wait until you are both ready.
My personal opinion is that if you are old enough to have the children together, you are old enough to be married. The age difference didn't matter when you got pregnant so why should it matter now?
Well you already have kids, why the wait?
You have to wait until the time is right for both of you. But in my opinion get married now. You already have a family together, what more do you need?
haha i am not allowed to have real answers due to the fact that they will be deleted, so hope that helped
peace&like said it all
now
if u love hime then do it age is just a number u already have kids with him
i think you should wait till the kids get married then decide
If you are over 23, go ahead!
whenever you feel like it.if you are old enough to have kids i think you are old enough to be married. Good luck!
Since you have kids and are engaged, what is stopping you from marrying?
7 years younger than him shouldn't be a big deal. Unless he ain't keen on marrying you?
if you love him and he loves you what is the problem? kids or no kids! be real
Wow, you already have kids with him, and you are worried because of the marriage?! Well, you have already finished your problems, and marriage is just a signature on the paper! The important things are that you have a happy life with your husband and your children! It's not late to get married now, it's never too late, when you love somebody!
Honey you need to get to the Justice of the Peace today. Shame on you for having two illegitimate children out of wedlock. What kind of an example are you parents to your children.
Stop waiting for the dream the milk is already spoiled.
I believe if you have children and a good relationship get married....
if u guys think u r totally cmfortable wit each othr n hv *** 2 kno each othr well den i don c any reason to wait anymor...if u'v been olready leaving togethr for two yrs n have 2 children den u r as well married n ur mind...so if u guys r sure den go ahead....Good luck!!!
You should get married now.
You can get amarried any time you want now coz you already have kids. That kids will be a bound between you and your spouse.
So, you can marry even after few year.
There is no right age. It has to do with maturity and certainty. Apparently, you are mature enough, if you are raising children together, and are seeking to do what is best. You don't have a fear of commitment, since you have been together a while, and have had children together.
However, you appear to be feeling some doubts, due to your age difference. I would wait until you have no more doubts. Your doubts may be your intuition telling you that you aren't ready for marriage, even though he may be the perfect guy for you. Relax, give it some time. There is no rush; when it's the right time, you will know. It is far better for the children to see a loving relationship, than be subjected to a messy divorce, because you rushed into marriage you didn't feel ready for, causing your relationship to sour.
Ideally, marriage should happen before the kids, but as long as you are trying to what is right now, that is what is important.
Good luck =)
12-14
never, you can add each other to the lease make your health care and durable power of attorney arrangements without if legal issues are your concern ,marrying because you have children or you should is a poor reason to get married, and part of the reason the divorce rate is extremely high
Marraige is a very serious commitment. You obviously have decided to get married since you are engaged. Marraige strengthens your commitment to each other and declares your love for each other to the world at large. It also provides a more stable environment for your children.
I would encourage you to consider sooner rather than later. My wife and I were engaged after 3 months and married 1 year after that on the advice of her parents. We just celebrated our 19th anniversary.
go ahead and get married, unless you have been holding back because you dont love him, think about it hard okie Good lUck :-)
Naturally, like everything else, it varies per individual, but taking everything into consideration today, many experts and laymen alike will tell you 28 is when the personality has gelled enough that you can make such of commitment. With that said-- BEFORE having children is always the right age! It shouldn't be a question now-- do what's right for the children!
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