I believe my husbands cheating I put him out did I do the right thing?
Question: I found a girls # on my husbands phone that we have had a fight about before. His reply was (while laughing) the world revolves around girls and guys talking and if he wanted to talk with her he could that they were friends. He cheated on me several years ago, now he's treatin me like crap all the time and is never home, he claims he's working I have always found him at work when I have needed him but, I'm really confused we've been maried for 10 years. He tells me he loves me but he sure doesn't act like it. I have ask for him to leave me and the kids, have I done the right thing? I love him but, I can't handle the way things are going, this is not the way people treat each other that love one another? help I need advice
Answers: I know taking advice from a kid might be kinda wierd but my parents just went through the same thing. My mom asked my dad to leave. It was ahrd but she did the right thing. They still talked and mutually decided to start marriage counceling together to see if there problems could be worked out or if they just grew too far apart. My mom has been giving some advice for my future which is to always talk. Be open and express whats on your mind. Any talk is good talk. Hope this helps!
you probably put him out in hast, i would have to have very strong proof that he is sleeping with another woman the green eyed monster has killed a lot of relationships...Some men just try to make you think that they atre cheating as a pschological abuse..To make them feel like the maucho man..But you probably did the right thing just look at is as gettin rid of a big pain in the butt.....
You did right.
You deserve better and should respect yourself and expect the same from others. Good for you.
Time will tell if your husband will change or not.
But ....think ! Another 10 years like that ?
Actually, what if he is going through a midlife crisis? How old is he? Maybe you should seek counseling.
Proof first, separation afterwards.
You did right! Love him is one thing, but respect for yourself is another thing. It is not because you're loosing him, but he is not worth your love. There are better guys than him out there and you deserve better.
Answers: I know taking advice from a kid might be kinda wierd but my parents just went through the same thing. My mom asked my dad to leave. It was ahrd but she did the right thing. They still talked and mutually decided to start marriage counceling together to see if there problems could be worked out or if they just grew too far apart. My mom has been giving some advice for my future which is to always talk. Be open and express whats on your mind. Any talk is good talk. Hope this helps!
you probably put him out in hast, i would have to have very strong proof that he is sleeping with another woman the green eyed monster has killed a lot of relationships...Some men just try to make you think that they atre cheating as a pschological abuse..To make them feel like the maucho man..But you probably did the right thing just look at is as gettin rid of a big pain in the butt.....
You did right.
You deserve better and should respect yourself and expect the same from others. Good for you.
Time will tell if your husband will change or not.
But ....think ! Another 10 years like that ?
Actually, what if he is going through a midlife crisis? How old is he? Maybe you should seek counseling.
Proof first, separation afterwards.
You did right! Love him is one thing, but respect for yourself is another thing. It is not because you're loosing him, but he is not worth your love. There are better guys than him out there and you deserve better.
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