A question for men who are seriously involved with a "divorced" woman?
Question: My ex-husband and I were married for almost nine years and we share a daughter together. I deeply cared about him and he did about me as well. We just didn't click as a married couple. After many years of marriage we eventually grew apart as far as how married people should love each other. Now, my ex and I treat each other better and can remain friends without any animosity. We often talk about casual issues going on in our lives but most of all our daughter. Now I currently live with a man who I now share a child with as well and he totally resents the relationship I have with my ex-husband. I'm told that we should have nothing to discuss other than the daughter we have together...Nothing more. Is it wrong to continue a friendship with your ex especially when it makes things easier for everybody...most of all the child you share together? Would you resent your girlfriend/wife if you were involved in the same situation?
Answers: I think it is very important if you can be friends with your ex when kids are involved. It takes a lot of stress off the kids and they don't feel so torn and afair to mention the others name. They need to feel connected to a unit. Even when other people come in the marriage, they will feel more open to excepting them when they know they don't have to defend one or the other parent. Plus the kids don't feel like they have to take sides that could end up spliting the sibblings.
i think that it is good that you have a decent relationship with your ex i have had problems with them in the past because most of them cant get over the past but if you and your ex are just baby momma and baby daddy then keep on keepin on cause for the sake of the child that makes the child feel good that their parents are together even though they are apart. so try and explain it to your new hubbie that it is ok for things like this to happen and it would benifit the the child the most.
you and your .ex. have shown that you share a bond. that is with your child . in my opion you both are very much muture as well have morals in my opion ?
Wow good question...I have a different look at it..I married a man who has two kids with his first wife..They hated each other..I always told him be her friend you loved her you made love to her and now you have two great kids..When I kept reminding him of that then there relationship got better for the kids..But I was never one to fight with there DRAMA..We moved on and had our own little family..And they continue to be friends.. Its important for the kids to see healthy relationships!
Answers: I think it is very important if you can be friends with your ex when kids are involved. It takes a lot of stress off the kids and they don't feel so torn and afair to mention the others name. They need to feel connected to a unit. Even when other people come in the marriage, they will feel more open to excepting them when they know they don't have to defend one or the other parent. Plus the kids don't feel like they have to take sides that could end up spliting the sibblings.
i think that it is good that you have a decent relationship with your ex i have had problems with them in the past because most of them cant get over the past but if you and your ex are just baby momma and baby daddy then keep on keepin on cause for the sake of the child that makes the child feel good that their parents are together even though they are apart. so try and explain it to your new hubbie that it is ok for things like this to happen and it would benifit the the child the most.
you and your .ex. have shown that you share a bond. that is with your child . in my opion you both are very much muture as well have morals in my opion ?
Wow good question...I have a different look at it..I married a man who has two kids with his first wife..They hated each other..I always told him be her friend you loved her you made love to her and now you have two great kids..When I kept reminding him of that then there relationship got better for the kids..But I was never one to fight with there DRAMA..We moved on and had our own little family..And they continue to be friends.. Its important for the kids to see healthy relationships!
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