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How do I let a good friend know that I am not attracted to him?


Question: One of my male friends has let me know that he is interested in me. I am attracted to him mentally, but not physically. He is 6'4 , 290 pounds. I am MUCH tinier. I feel like a snob saying that if he were 40 pounds lighter, I would probably go after him. Any suggestions on how to handle this?
Answers:  How do I let a good friend know...

If he's interested romantically, he's not a good friend but a suitor, and however you tell him or don't tell him, when he's finally convinced there's no hope, the relationship you have now will change.

By the way, if you don't like him, then you don't like him. Don't let others tell you who you should like. It's not them under him in that bed till death do you apart.
Well especially because he is a good friend be straight up with him and tell him the truth, but don't you think that is a little shallow?
u just tell him and say sorry but you are not interested
Say to your friend that you will always cherish his friendship & that your main interest is keeping him as a friend. Honesty and a sincere smile wont scare him away.
have sex with him! that should do it.


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