What would you have done differently?
Question: My female friend have been dating this guy for about a month. He started off as MR.RIGHT, he did everything that any women would dream of. Like, hold u after a romantic fairy tale,listen to u,and spending money like it grows on trees. He also,buys her Crystal on a regular basis, sends her flowers just cause,and she never asked him for a dime. The last date that they had while they were in bed he asked her to be quit and after he dropped her off he gave her a rose and said thanks. Now he has changed his cell number and she found out the job number doesn't exist. Now he just called her after 6 days and told her that the reason why he did that is because she talks too much,the house he took her to wasn't his and he's married. WHAT DO U THINK OF THIS?
Answers: First let me say that im sorrry to hear that i bet she was devastated. For some reason women fall so hard for the material things and the lines that men give including myself. But one thing that i have learned is that when u meet a man never allow to much untill u know more. Tell her hes a jerk and to take it slow next time for get about the sweetness, and investagate a little more.
That's a sad story.
Sounds like a bozo. Some guys will do anything for sex. It is really pathetic to have to trick someone like that and hurt her emotionally. Sooner or later, what goes around comes around.
I would be with a man longer than a month before I ever went to bed with him.
Frankly I think he got what he wanted..ie sex and has moved on to someone else. He is a loser and should be ashamed of himself.
I feel sorry for your friend and hope she can find someone truly who is honest and sincere, because she deserves much more than this loser!
OMG!!!!!I think he has just lived out a fantasy with her, that`s why he spent so much money on her, so she got along the way....she had no doubts about him, and now she founds herself at the bottom...definitely forget him...unless she wants to become a mistress...
Sounds to me like he is a jerk who should be castrated and hung from a pole in downtown. Hindsight's 20/20. Live and learn. The difference between a fool and a wise man is that a wise man learns from his mistakes while a fool repeats them.
she got played!there really is nothing she could do but get to know someone better before hopping in the sack!when a man treats you like that it is a tell tell sign he could be married.you should just be a good friend and try to console her the best you can.as for the cheater,he will get his,its called karma
Sometimes we never know what we are getting ourselves into. Your friend can't help the fact he turned out to be a fake and a jerk. Sometimes things are real and its great, but unfortunately for your friend he left out some very important details. Try getting to know people better I suppose is the best answer. Just take the time and you may be able to see their true nature.
How can a person know for sure? I personally think it would be a waste of time to mull over this one. Move on and learn from the experience. Thats all you can do. Live and learn.
i dunno what to say really. i cant blame the guy although he won't hesitate to do whatever just to have fun though he is married. well, i do think of him as a ....... - i cant say it here!! yet i have to blame your friend over and over and over again actually coz i dont normally date someone i know nothing about. i dont have to go much as an investigator, yet at least have to make sure what he said is true. even if he takes me up to cloud 9, still i have to make sure of all before i start going out with him so as to feel safe at least. what makes you sure he isnt a freek or something. then going to bed with him is completely something else. it comes by time after feeling REALLLLYY comfortable, safe, and secure. i know i might sound stupid for some of you people over here, but i dont even kiss someone after a date unless i really really feel that i do want to and i dont care if he gets mad coz if he does, this means he is actually after this and more and not me in person.
what do you think?
Angel
Answers: First let me say that im sorrry to hear that i bet she was devastated. For some reason women fall so hard for the material things and the lines that men give including myself. But one thing that i have learned is that when u meet a man never allow to much untill u know more. Tell her hes a jerk and to take it slow next time for get about the sweetness, and investagate a little more.
That's a sad story.
Sounds like a bozo. Some guys will do anything for sex. It is really pathetic to have to trick someone like that and hurt her emotionally. Sooner or later, what goes around comes around.
I would be with a man longer than a month before I ever went to bed with him.
Frankly I think he got what he wanted..ie sex and has moved on to someone else. He is a loser and should be ashamed of himself.
I feel sorry for your friend and hope she can find someone truly who is honest and sincere, because she deserves much more than this loser!
OMG!!!!!I think he has just lived out a fantasy with her, that`s why he spent so much money on her, so she got along the way....she had no doubts about him, and now she founds herself at the bottom...definitely forget him...unless she wants to become a mistress...
Sounds to me like he is a jerk who should be castrated and hung from a pole in downtown. Hindsight's 20/20. Live and learn. The difference between a fool and a wise man is that a wise man learns from his mistakes while a fool repeats them.
she got played!there really is nothing she could do but get to know someone better before hopping in the sack!when a man treats you like that it is a tell tell sign he could be married.you should just be a good friend and try to console her the best you can.as for the cheater,he will get his,its called karma
Sometimes we never know what we are getting ourselves into. Your friend can't help the fact he turned out to be a fake and a jerk. Sometimes things are real and its great, but unfortunately for your friend he left out some very important details. Try getting to know people better I suppose is the best answer. Just take the time and you may be able to see their true nature.
How can a person know for sure? I personally think it would be a waste of time to mull over this one. Move on and learn from the experience. Thats all you can do. Live and learn.
i dunno what to say really. i cant blame the guy although he won't hesitate to do whatever just to have fun though he is married. well, i do think of him as a ....... - i cant say it here!! yet i have to blame your friend over and over and over again actually coz i dont normally date someone i know nothing about. i dont have to go much as an investigator, yet at least have to make sure what he said is true. even if he takes me up to cloud 9, still i have to make sure of all before i start going out with him so as to feel safe at least. what makes you sure he isnt a freek or something. then going to bed with him is completely something else. it comes by time after feeling REALLLLYY comfortable, safe, and secure. i know i might sound stupid for some of you people over here, but i dont even kiss someone after a date unless i really really feel that i do want to and i dont care if he gets mad coz if he does, this means he is actually after this and more and not me in person.
what do you think?
Angel
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