I need some advice please?
Question: i have a boyfriend who is really shy, i was susupecting that he was cheating but i found out hes not we have been going out for a year we havent hugged or held hands or kissed i want to make a move on himall tips and how to's!!!!
Answers: My first boyfriend took about 6 months before he kissed me, so I know where you're coming from! LOL I'd say the next time you are walking together or sitting watching a movie, just take his hand and see what happens. As far as the kissing goes, if you think the moment is right, just kiss him. I know it's a risk, but if he's interested and just shy, that will help him out...if he doesn't respond positively, you may want to move on instead of spending any more time waiting for him. Good luck! :)
what??????????????
Just go for it. You already know that if you want it to happen, your gonna have to be the one to do it.
you know how .just make the first move
maybe you need to see if he's homosexual or asexual...this is quite odd & I'm quite the prig myself.
well tell him how you feel or your next date kiss him
cant possibly answer until you tell us what age you are ,you sound young
Rape your boyfriend and see if he not shy anymore.
Ask him if he's your boyfriend or your buddy. Also, does he have religious convitions that advise him against messing around ? I know you're talking very basics here, but some people advise against anything and think the first kiss should be at the alter to avoid temptation. Just something to think about.
wat?
if hes shy like me he will sometime he wil cconfess
dame girl i thought i was shy try making a move or look really sexy
Just watch a flick w/him then see what'll happen...
if u r hot
he is gay
maybe you need to teach him how to make love plz enjoy
y would u wanna date a guy like that
HEY YOU CAN DO IT.
If he had not tryed anything on you in a year then i would think he is gay. talk to him about it why he has not tryed anything. This is the best way because if you kiss him he might push you away and you will be hurt so talk. Also he might not be ready to kiss or anything.
just do it
if he doesnt like it then ask him if he's gay
go on, slowly. Talk to him a lot so that he can be comfortable with you.
go to the movies and when he is not looking grab his hand or when ur walking down the hall and yall are really close kinda move ur hand close to his so that why they are touching and if he doesnt get the clue to hold it the u grab his hand ...walk up to him and hugg him
Dump him and find a MAN- I bet he still lives with his mum!!! Either that or you are just a friend he wants to be seen out with till he meets the right one, male or female.
well make a move and ifhe dose not do any thing then talk to him about it
If you want to make a move on him i think you should you can either ask him if it is OK but i think that he is probably thinking the same thing but he scared that you will either pull away but hey give it a try.
id say first start with a hug and then work urself up... wait for the right moment tho dont do it like when hes tying his shoe laces or something... ull know how to do it, just have confidence in urself
You might not want to go on and make out with him before you ever held hands. Start by holding hands, you'll know when its the right time. As he gets used to it, he might show his other not shy side and go farther. If he doesn't, go ahead. If you want to make things happen, you can't wait to do it! Who knows, your boyfriend might feel the same way!
Wow this is tough. I've had a boyfriend like that too. I don't really have tips, but some what of how to's! If you want to hold his hand...just go for it girl!!!! That's what I did, and later in our relationship, my guy got less shy and started holding my hand voluntarily. Hugging, same thing, go for it. Maybe the reason you guys haven't done any of these things is because you're both shy...? If you do all of these things voluntarily yourself, you'll make him feel better about being in a relationship. This is all really confusing, I know, but to sum it up...GO FOR IT!!!!!! lol. Anyways I hope this helps.
I had that happen to me once and I swear I thought he would never make a move. I was actually starting to wonder if he relay liked girls or not. Than one day he asked if he could kiss me. It turns out that he was just VERY inexperienced and shy. I can't say the relationship worked out as I got tired of there being no spontaneity but maybe it will work out better for you.
GIRL just kiss him all ready what are you doing here you know the guy and its been a year show him how its done go for it
u may get a totally unexpected, weird reaction from him if you up and jump his bones, so i would suggest sitting down and asking him WHY?! hasn't he shown u any type of affection. at least then you'll know the true reason for his NON-ACTIONS.
Just Be a grown up......let him know that it's great been friends and all.....but something i got to tell you, I've been attractive to you. And that's a start.
Best wishes and good luck
Answers: My first boyfriend took about 6 months before he kissed me, so I know where you're coming from! LOL I'd say the next time you are walking together or sitting watching a movie, just take his hand and see what happens. As far as the kissing goes, if you think the moment is right, just kiss him. I know it's a risk, but if he's interested and just shy, that will help him out...if he doesn't respond positively, you may want to move on instead of spending any more time waiting for him. Good luck! :)
what??????????????
Just go for it. You already know that if you want it to happen, your gonna have to be the one to do it.
you know how .just make the first move
maybe you need to see if he's homosexual or asexual...this is quite odd & I'm quite the prig myself.
well tell him how you feel or your next date kiss him
cant possibly answer until you tell us what age you are ,you sound young
Rape your boyfriend and see if he not shy anymore.
Ask him if he's your boyfriend or your buddy. Also, does he have religious convitions that advise him against messing around ? I know you're talking very basics here, but some people advise against anything and think the first kiss should be at the alter to avoid temptation. Just something to think about.
wat?
if hes shy like me he will sometime he wil cconfess
dame girl i thought i was shy try making a move or look really sexy
Just watch a flick w/him then see what'll happen...
if u r hot
he is gay
maybe you need to teach him how to make love plz enjoy
y would u wanna date a guy like that
HEY YOU CAN DO IT.
If he had not tryed anything on you in a year then i would think he is gay. talk to him about it why he has not tryed anything. This is the best way because if you kiss him he might push you away and you will be hurt so talk. Also he might not be ready to kiss or anything.
just do it
if he doesnt like it then ask him if he's gay
go on, slowly. Talk to him a lot so that he can be comfortable with you.
go to the movies and when he is not looking grab his hand or when ur walking down the hall and yall are really close kinda move ur hand close to his so that why they are touching and if he doesnt get the clue to hold it the u grab his hand ...walk up to him and hugg him
Dump him and find a MAN- I bet he still lives with his mum!!! Either that or you are just a friend he wants to be seen out with till he meets the right one, male or female.
well make a move and ifhe dose not do any thing then talk to him about it
If you want to make a move on him i think you should you can either ask him if it is OK but i think that he is probably thinking the same thing but he scared that you will either pull away but hey give it a try.
id say first start with a hug and then work urself up... wait for the right moment tho dont do it like when hes tying his shoe laces or something... ull know how to do it, just have confidence in urself
You might not want to go on and make out with him before you ever held hands. Start by holding hands, you'll know when its the right time. As he gets used to it, he might show his other not shy side and go farther. If he doesn't, go ahead. If you want to make things happen, you can't wait to do it! Who knows, your boyfriend might feel the same way!
Wow this is tough. I've had a boyfriend like that too. I don't really have tips, but some what of how to's! If you want to hold his hand...just go for it girl!!!! That's what I did, and later in our relationship, my guy got less shy and started holding my hand voluntarily. Hugging, same thing, go for it. Maybe the reason you guys haven't done any of these things is because you're both shy...? If you do all of these things voluntarily yourself, you'll make him feel better about being in a relationship. This is all really confusing, I know, but to sum it up...GO FOR IT!!!!!! lol. Anyways I hope this helps.
I had that happen to me once and I swear I thought he would never make a move. I was actually starting to wonder if he relay liked girls or not. Than one day he asked if he could kiss me. It turns out that he was just VERY inexperienced and shy. I can't say the relationship worked out as I got tired of there being no spontaneity but maybe it will work out better for you.
GIRL just kiss him all ready what are you doing here you know the guy and its been a year show him how its done go for it
u may get a totally unexpected, weird reaction from him if you up and jump his bones, so i would suggest sitting down and asking him WHY?! hasn't he shown u any type of affection. at least then you'll know the true reason for his NON-ACTIONS.
Just Be a grown up......let him know that it's great been friends and all.....but something i got to tell you, I've been attractive to you. And that's a start.
Best wishes and good luck
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