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Should i make the first move and eat my pride?


Question: my bf and i have a misunderstanding.. its been 4 days since we last meet. it hurts me so bad coz i didnt hear a word from him. i dont know if he's hurt or what... i even greet him two days ago because its our 2nd month but he did not say a word. im not sure if he's waiting for my text but he's the one who asked for a minute alone... is he hurt because i will be leaving the country 5months from now that's why he's doing this? should we enjoy the remaining months though right?. should i text him to clear everything or wait him till he come back?.. should i make the first move?
Answers: sweetheart.. dont juz sit around and wait for sumthin to happen.. guys are hard in nature..they wont talk to you if you wont make a move.. eat your pride.i know he loves you and hes waitin for you.. compromise is the key.. talk to him.. say sorry in a nice way and make up..talk is the only way to understnd whats buggin you and him too..just go see him..i know hes waitin..
let it alone. If you are going to be gone soon why bother to make up and then leave. Your life is in front of you so do not waste time looking back. If he felt like you do and wanted to get back with you or to talk there would be some sign. I say never go backwards Life moves ahead.
if ur leaving then u better make tha most of it while u can
It never hurts... Normally the guy is thinking the same thing...
yeah what ever you would think is best either go after him before or when he comes back
i think you should try one time to make a move and tell him that you should enjoy the last months then if that doesnt work no more move making...
Look if u really like him talk to him enjoy the time u have together have fun.
Swallow your pride and call. You are both probably stubborn and it won't hurt to at least talk even if nothing becomes of it. He is probably just hurt that you are leaving but why not leave on good terms instead of bad ones. That is not a nice way to end it. At least then you know that you tried.
Let him make the first move. I think it is the way it should be. If he doesn't obviously he is no longer interested. Or at least that is how I read it.


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