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Is this considered cheating? Guys only?


Question: I caught my boyfriend getting a hand job from his best friend which is a female. He claims technically that its not cheating because there was no intercourse or kissing involved.I guess he has a point. I love my boyfriend so much we have been together for 3 years and he has never cheated on me and my friends and family love him.Plus me and his best friend are like sisters. Should I be mad or just get over it?
Answers: Just talk to both of them and get the whole story, but this is kinda weird.
His best friend sounds more like the girlfriend than u.
did you catch him before he came? just curious, because i thought i was unlucky
Dump him.He cheated on you.Mabye you should give a nice guy a chance for a change.
It is still sex, isn't it???? It may as well been a BJ or better!!!!
That intimate a physical contact and yes, it's cheating. She's got her hands where just friends don't put them. Heck, sex is lots of nice things, not just intercourse.
This guy is an idiot and you are even more stupid for thinking this is not cheating. How would he feel if he caught some guy fingering you. SAME THING.

Dump him.
Did it turn you on? Mabey you should ask her to join you two in a threesome.
Axially this is a cheating and as jurch69 said they could do other stuff that you probably don't know. I mean like you caught him ones. And there is a huge probability that they were doing something else. Now it is your call
Any kind of sexual intimacy is cheating !Think practically
UHHHHHH HELLO. When 2 people are in a committed relationship, nobody else should be touching their private parts. Ya get what I mean..... In my book that is considered cheating.
In his book he can get all the hand jobs and BJ's he wants just cause he is not penetrating someone Else's vagina.

NOT RIGHT AT ALL

Ask him if you were to get fingered by another guy; is that considered cheating?
Of course you should be pissed he's making a damn fool of you. Next your gonna catch him getting head and he's gonna tellyou well I wasn't in her ***** and I didn't kiss her. OF COURSE HE IS CHEATING!!!!! Meet reality he's a freind of mine nad he says you need to know that he is playing for for a damn fool and ejaculating all over your friend from sheer joy of you knowing aabout it and that he actually made you think he ain't cheating even though she is getting him off. Don't let him make you his fool dear.
I wish I had a girlfriend like you, that way I could cheat on her all the time, get caught, and then make up some wild story and have her believe it. I wish there were more dumb broads like you out there. I wish there were more chicks like your boyfriends best friend that so liberally give out hand jobs!
Put yourself in his shoes. Say your freind, who is a guy, was fingering you. Ask him how he would feel about that. My guess is he would feel uncomfortable. Don't believe a word of it. Cheating is cheating and admit I have been there. Not proud of it, just happened.
I think you should ask your self is it worth it ask if it is cheating.You should know for your self.
So if he walked into a room and one of your guy friends was eating your puzzy he's be ok with it.....you 2 may be made for eachother....just please don't reproduce!!


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