I met this guy with issues. Should I date him?
Question: He has 3 children 3 different mothers. He says he promotes for entertainment purposes (clubs, parties, concerts). I think he has his hands in a lot more because of his schedule. He's not fine or anything like that but just kind. He has money. What do I do?
Answers: to much burden to carry, he has money but he will have no time for you. and if he is a promoter, more likely than not he is dipping his hands in a more illegitimate venture. a friend of my sister is a promoter and he deals club drugs, pimps out prostitutes and he's a drug and alcohol abuser.
be very careful, money isnt everything
date another person
first, RUN! you don't need a guy that can't committ to any of the women he has children with. who cares if he has $. sounds awfully shady too me. RUN RUN FASTER NOW
Only date him if you are a gold digger.
move on
Stay away from him, he is bad news, what he has you don't call issues it's much much worse!!!!!!! You'll just end up pregnant and alone while he goes on to his next victim. Fine he does promotions, but what does he promote, his penis????
you already decided what your goin to do when you mentioned money, hav fun but dont fall in love. good luk
Issues: 3 children with 3 different mothers.
Run, don't walk, away. You will never come first, second, or third with this guy. There are six people ahead of you who have a pretty big claim on him.
Let's face it, if you really wanted to date him, and you really thought it was a good idea, you wouldn't be asking...
RUN!!!
search your heart for the answer and it will come through for you
if you have to ask you may as well go ahead and date him, cause it seems like this is the type of guy you find yourself with...if you want a healthy, fulfilling relationship, you'll step away from the issues man, STEP AWAY!!!!
You might have issues if you don't know the right thing to do..
Do what you feel is best for you. Look at the picture as a whole and know what you're getting yourself into before you make any hasty decisions.
If you want his issues to become *your* issues and look forward to lots of drama, go ahead and date him.
If that doesn't sound like a future you want, then move on to someone else.
is he lookn for an act UDG Ent. holla back
I think u should look for someone else,cause he got to much to take care of.He probably won't even have time for u.
find somebody else.
Everybody has issues. Three different baby mama's would be a warning sign. How old are the children, are the all around the same age? What happened for him to have children with these women and not be with them? Does he have a good relationship with his kids? With thier mom's? Those are good clues into what kind of person he really is.
dont date that dude because in 3 monthes you'll back on here saying im dating this guy with issues,what should i do'..so DONT DO IT!!!!!!!
Find someone else... someone who will actually give a damn about you!!
Show respect for your self!!! Dump that crazy guy... Imagine what he can do to you... another kid!! You will find someone that really deserves you
Girl, he sounds like a someone that tried to get with me a while back. Ask yourself one question...do you want to be baby momma #4? Obviously he cant keep his pants on and then goes and makes another baby with another woman. And I would bet my bottom dollar he has an excuse for each baby momma and why it didnt work out. Its never his fault. You seem to be smart and can forsee a problem before it starts. There are plenty of other kind men out there who are responsible. Do yourself a favor and move on.
WOW - stay away, you're not involved yet - so better not to even start. My husband makes incredible money and because he has 2 children (with the SAME woman, his ex-wife) he pays her over $2500 a month plus all the kids expenses, while the ex-wife sits on her lazy *** all day and doesn't work - I need to work 2 jobs and go to college full time because most of the husbands money goes to her. I love him and our life together -- but sometimes I wish I had to just never even began dating him in the first place.
Since you aren't involved yet - STAY AWAY, plus do you really want a guy who has gotten 3 different women preg? He sounds like a dog and doesn't have the money he claims to have (how can he - unless he doesn't pay child support)
Oh I am sure he is a kind man, why else would three other chicks allowed him to knock them up. I'm sure he provides very well for them, oh wait, he has money, gee I guess he isn't exactly kind with that. Sure, I think you should date him, I mean maybe he is going for the record for how many women he can father a child with. You can be number 4. Cool.
Get somebody that is kind of like you. Do you have 3 children already, and don't need him to be around?
Move to the next one.
ARE U SERIOUS?? THAT IS ABSURD... GET THE HELL AWAY FROM DON JUAN AND FIND A REAL MAN THAT KNOWS ABOUT COMMITTMENT AND A REAL CAREER. THIS GUY PROBABLY FOUND ALL HIS BABIES MAMAS AT THE CLUB HE DJ'S OR PROMOTES GET REAL!!! THIS GUY OBVIOUSLY HAS ISSUES AND YOU WILL TOO IF YOU STAY WITH HIM NOOOO BETTER YET YOU WILL BE A MOTHER OF 3 THAT ARENT EVEN YOURS WHILE HE FINDS A FOURTH BABY MAMA AT HIS PROMOTIONS HOPE YA LIKE CHANGING DIAPERS AND STAYING AT HOME WITH ALL HIS KIDS SO HE CAN ENJOY HIS FREEDOM.
What do you have to offer him? What does he have to offer you? Knowing what i know now, I would not give him the time of the day. He could be someone I say hello to but nothing more than that he may get you pregnant too!
do not jump into the black-hole. before you get caught you don't want to be number four do you?
Take this in consideration.... If he has issues and u begin dating him, then u will start to have issues!
if this guy has three kids by three different woman then you should leave him alone anyway just for that only reason.And if the only true reason your dating him is for his money and that he is kind then you need to leave him alone cause a relationship is based on more then just kindness and money.
not a relationship type of guy.
Answers: to much burden to carry, he has money but he will have no time for you. and if he is a promoter, more likely than not he is dipping his hands in a more illegitimate venture. a friend of my sister is a promoter and he deals club drugs, pimps out prostitutes and he's a drug and alcohol abuser.
be very careful, money isnt everything
date another person
first, RUN! you don't need a guy that can't committ to any of the women he has children with. who cares if he has $. sounds awfully shady too me. RUN RUN FASTER NOW
Only date him if you are a gold digger.
move on
Stay away from him, he is bad news, what he has you don't call issues it's much much worse!!!!!!! You'll just end up pregnant and alone while he goes on to his next victim. Fine he does promotions, but what does he promote, his penis????
you already decided what your goin to do when you mentioned money, hav fun but dont fall in love. good luk
Issues: 3 children with 3 different mothers.
Run, don't walk, away. You will never come first, second, or third with this guy. There are six people ahead of you who have a pretty big claim on him.
Let's face it, if you really wanted to date him, and you really thought it was a good idea, you wouldn't be asking...
RUN!!!
search your heart for the answer and it will come through for you
if you have to ask you may as well go ahead and date him, cause it seems like this is the type of guy you find yourself with...if you want a healthy, fulfilling relationship, you'll step away from the issues man, STEP AWAY!!!!
You might have issues if you don't know the right thing to do..
Do what you feel is best for you. Look at the picture as a whole and know what you're getting yourself into before you make any hasty decisions.
If you want his issues to become *your* issues and look forward to lots of drama, go ahead and date him.
If that doesn't sound like a future you want, then move on to someone else.
is he lookn for an act UDG Ent. holla back
I think u should look for someone else,cause he got to much to take care of.He probably won't even have time for u.
find somebody else.
Everybody has issues. Three different baby mama's would be a warning sign. How old are the children, are the all around the same age? What happened for him to have children with these women and not be with them? Does he have a good relationship with his kids? With thier mom's? Those are good clues into what kind of person he really is.
dont date that dude because in 3 monthes you'll back on here saying im dating this guy with issues,what should i do'..so DONT DO IT!!!!!!!
Find someone else... someone who will actually give a damn about you!!
Show respect for your self!!! Dump that crazy guy... Imagine what he can do to you... another kid!! You will find someone that really deserves you
Girl, he sounds like a someone that tried to get with me a while back. Ask yourself one question...do you want to be baby momma #4? Obviously he cant keep his pants on and then goes and makes another baby with another woman. And I would bet my bottom dollar he has an excuse for each baby momma and why it didnt work out. Its never his fault. You seem to be smart and can forsee a problem before it starts. There are plenty of other kind men out there who are responsible. Do yourself a favor and move on.
WOW - stay away, you're not involved yet - so better not to even start. My husband makes incredible money and because he has 2 children (with the SAME woman, his ex-wife) he pays her over $2500 a month plus all the kids expenses, while the ex-wife sits on her lazy *** all day and doesn't work - I need to work 2 jobs and go to college full time because most of the husbands money goes to her. I love him and our life together -- but sometimes I wish I had to just never even began dating him in the first place.
Since you aren't involved yet - STAY AWAY, plus do you really want a guy who has gotten 3 different women preg? He sounds like a dog and doesn't have the money he claims to have (how can he - unless he doesn't pay child support)
Oh I am sure he is a kind man, why else would three other chicks allowed him to knock them up. I'm sure he provides very well for them, oh wait, he has money, gee I guess he isn't exactly kind with that. Sure, I think you should date him, I mean maybe he is going for the record for how many women he can father a child with. You can be number 4. Cool.
Get somebody that is kind of like you. Do you have 3 children already, and don't need him to be around?
Move to the next one.
ARE U SERIOUS?? THAT IS ABSURD... GET THE HELL AWAY FROM DON JUAN AND FIND A REAL MAN THAT KNOWS ABOUT COMMITTMENT AND A REAL CAREER. THIS GUY PROBABLY FOUND ALL HIS BABIES MAMAS AT THE CLUB HE DJ'S OR PROMOTES GET REAL!!! THIS GUY OBVIOUSLY HAS ISSUES AND YOU WILL TOO IF YOU STAY WITH HIM NOOOO BETTER YET YOU WILL BE A MOTHER OF 3 THAT ARENT EVEN YOURS WHILE HE FINDS A FOURTH BABY MAMA AT HIS PROMOTIONS HOPE YA LIKE CHANGING DIAPERS AND STAYING AT HOME WITH ALL HIS KIDS SO HE CAN ENJOY HIS FREEDOM.
What do you have to offer him? What does he have to offer you? Knowing what i know now, I would not give him the time of the day. He could be someone I say hello to but nothing more than that he may get you pregnant too!
do not jump into the black-hole. before you get caught you don't want to be number four do you?
Take this in consideration.... If he has issues and u begin dating him, then u will start to have issues!
if this guy has three kids by three different woman then you should leave him alone anyway just for that only reason.And if the only true reason your dating him is for his money and that he is kind then you need to leave him alone cause a relationship is based on more then just kindness and money.
not a relationship type of guy.
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