Will it split us up in the end?
Question: i'm 24 he's 47 we've been together for 2 years. i have a 3 year old and he also has two children. he had a vasectomy 10 years ago. can he ever love my child as his own. will not being able to have children together when we have them with other people split us up?
Answers: That depends on whether the two of you want to have children or if your family is complete. If it is you can build a blended family and have a good marrige together without adding more kids. If you work at it you can be happy.
I think this question needs to be directed at HIM not Yahoo peoples....good luck. I think he could love your child as his own...but you need to talk to him about it to find out if he is willing to.
It shouldn't. Be a friend to his kids and let him be a second father to your little guy.
hopefully he is mature enough after getting in the relationship in the 1st place
I think that he can becuz your child is still little. GOOD LUCK.
i dont think that would be able to split you up if you two love each other then you should be able to love each others children as your own
yes, if he is unhappy about it
I don't think so.
depends on what type of guy he is ...if he can accept ur child as his own... some guys can and some cant. all relationships take work... not being able to have children might not split u up...but u both have to be honest if u want more kids. the age difference itself could be a barrier due to him already experienced what u will be.. good luck..wish u the best :)
I think that all depends on your situation. If the both of you two truly love each other and take the time to know and understand each other's children, then you can be together. As far as the vasectomoy, I believe that those can be reversed. If he does not want to do that, and you really want to have children with him, that may end up being a hot topic for you two. So I think that this is a subject that you two need to sit down and talk about before you make any serious moves.
if you really love him no it wont, and as for loving your children as his own, he should
i dont think so..if that man already has two and u have a youngin they i dont see why he might no be content. i believe he will be able to accept ur daughter because he has two kids and he hopes u accept them as well i dont think u two not having kids will split u up. i might make u grow stronger..maybe sit and talk to him about that..tell him u lov him and u dont want that to split both of u up.
i really hope this helps
Everybody I know loves their stepchildren as much as they love their own. I think he is probably okay not having any more children because of the vasectomy. You have to decide if that is okay for you.
You know what a family is what you make of it, really it sounds like either your anticipating that's how he thinks. He's 47 maybe he doesn't want any more children. I'm sure he can love your children as his own just like you can his. It's up to both of you.
he will love your kids like his own just give him time. but about the other it has been two years and yall are still togeather so don't worry about yall spilting because if ya'll were going to then you would have done it by now. DON'T worry about it....
No that does not mean anything. I have two children and my honey does not have any. We are currently engaged. I am 33 he is 37. We probably will never have children due to our ages, we do not want to be old parents lol! He loves my kids so much and treats them as if they were his own. So no not having children together does not mean it won't work. My dad had me and my brother and my step mom had an 8 year old daughter when they were married, they could not have kids together and are still together 16 years later. Now you ages may change things. You my dear are only 24 and A LOT changes by the time you are 30, everything your views, what you want out of life etc. I honestly regret getting married the first time at 23 almost 24. I was a totally different person when we divorced in 2004. Good luck to you!
Loving someone else's child just as much as you love your own is doable by anyone ... if they try ... as far as not being able to have more children that's up to you and whether or not you want to have more children if you do then I would say don't stay very long in the relationship if it doesn't matter to you then as long as you're happy and treated w/love and respect ... ENJOY
Answers: That depends on whether the two of you want to have children or if your family is complete. If it is you can build a blended family and have a good marrige together without adding more kids. If you work at it you can be happy.
I think this question needs to be directed at HIM not Yahoo peoples....good luck. I think he could love your child as his own...but you need to talk to him about it to find out if he is willing to.
It shouldn't. Be a friend to his kids and let him be a second father to your little guy.
hopefully he is mature enough after getting in the relationship in the 1st place
I think that he can becuz your child is still little. GOOD LUCK.
i dont think that would be able to split you up if you two love each other then you should be able to love each others children as your own
yes, if he is unhappy about it
I don't think so.
depends on what type of guy he is ...if he can accept ur child as his own... some guys can and some cant. all relationships take work... not being able to have children might not split u up...but u both have to be honest if u want more kids. the age difference itself could be a barrier due to him already experienced what u will be.. good luck..wish u the best :)
I think that all depends on your situation. If the both of you two truly love each other and take the time to know and understand each other's children, then you can be together. As far as the vasectomoy, I believe that those can be reversed. If he does not want to do that, and you really want to have children with him, that may end up being a hot topic for you two. So I think that this is a subject that you two need to sit down and talk about before you make any serious moves.
if you really love him no it wont, and as for loving your children as his own, he should
i dont think so..if that man already has two and u have a youngin they i dont see why he might no be content. i believe he will be able to accept ur daughter because he has two kids and he hopes u accept them as well
i really hope this helps
Everybody I know loves their stepchildren as much as they love their own. I think he is probably okay not having any more children because of the vasectomy. You have to decide if that is okay for you.
You know what a family is what you make of it, really it sounds like either your anticipating that's how he thinks. He's 47 maybe he doesn't want any more children. I'm sure he can love your children as his own just like you can his. It's up to both of you.
he will love your kids like his own just give him time. but about the other it has been two years and yall are still togeather so don't worry about yall spilting because if ya'll were going to then you would have done it by now. DON'T worry about it....
No that does not mean anything. I have two children and my honey does not have any. We are currently engaged. I am 33 he is 37. We probably will never have children due to our ages, we do not want to be old parents lol! He loves my kids so much and treats them as if they were his own. So no not having children together does not mean it won't work. My dad had me and my brother and my step mom had an 8 year old daughter when they were married, they could not have kids together and are still together 16 years later. Now you ages may change things. You my dear are only 24 and A LOT changes by the time you are 30, everything your views, what you want out of life etc. I honestly regret getting married the first time at 23 almost 24. I was a totally different person when we divorced in 2004. Good luck to you!
Loving someone else's child just as much as you love your own is doable by anyone ... if they try ... as far as not being able to have more children that's up to you and whether or not you want to have more children if you do then I would say don't stay very long in the relationship if it doesn't matter to you then as long as you're happy and treated w/love and respect ... ENJOY
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