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Should I tell my gf about my fetish?


Question: Ever since I remember I have had a foot fetish but I did not tell anyone. Now I have a girlfriend and I want her feet soo bad but im afraid if I tell her she will be wierded out by it. If i tell her would it be good and she will let me at her feet or should I not tell her? Tell her or NO? why or why not?
Answers: That one is by me. I never had a fetish like that. I mean I like ice cream but it is OK to lick that. I guess it depends on if your girlfriends feet stink or not. I mean if she has nasty feet you may want to tell her before you go licking on them so A. if you throw up she will understand and B. if you get athletes tongue she might want to hold of on the french kissing for a while. Damn, i need to go brush my teeth just thinking about it. Sure you can't find a better fetish? Yuck!!!
maybe she will like it...dont tell her it's your fetish...just ask her if you can kiss it first...
dont tell her, but play around with her feet. she will think its weird when u tell her..and u might end up breaking up..lol
hm.. well i'm SOOO not a feet person. i just thinks its gross & a lot of people do too. but hey i'm sure thats only for some people. see how she reacts to usual stuff by simple rubbing or touching etc. if there isnt a EWW reaction then go for it.
I agree. Or just offer to give them a good massage
if you don't tell her it's just an unfullfilled desire
life's to short to have those
women love to have their feet played with!!!
just play it cool.
be casual.
try tickling her foot or something and see if she likes it.
yes, what do you have to lose
that's not weird at all. a lot of men love our feet.
you don't even need to tell her about your fetish. just caress her feel during sex and she will think it's part of foreplay.
i sucks my boyfriends's each toe during foreplay and never got a complaint about it
keep that a secret for a while and just take it day by day .
until your ready maybe she has a fetish to she is hiding you would never know.
she might like it lol ...just tell her if she really cares bout you it wont matter...go for it and tell her
If you're going to continue dating this girl, I'd advise you to tell her. You never know...she may be into that fetish or some other things that you two can explore together. If she wants to know about you, the real you, she has to know this, as well.
Take her shoes off and give her a foot massage. Work your charm on her. Tell her she has pretty feet then kiss them...then with time tell her
hell yeah because most girls like that and they will fullfill that fetish, TRUST ME
DUDE, me too....I never mention anything, at some point when i feel comfortable, i just grab the feets, and try to put the toes in my mouth. Only once has a chick looked at me like i was sick, the rest said i was nasty, but went with it, and got all turned on and isht.
just be like i love u so much like me kiss your feet trust she'll definitely fall for that
Hmm.

I don't know, dude.

You could always just bring up fetishes 'by random', and see what she thinks about them.
and then tell her casually.

That's what I did with my girlfriend.

And now she wears skirts for me all the time.
=]
If you always go for her feet and not tell her, she'll soon figure out and she'll ask and you'll have to tell her the truth anyway. You should be honest and tell her upfront. Get it over with and deal with it. I'm sure she won't be the only girl weirded out. LOL. Could you find another fetish that isn't so nasty? Like maybe hair? :)
Go a head boy. Tell her what is truth.
Don't tell her. Just make out with her, kissing her entire body - work your way to the feet - then suck on her toes, if she kicks you in the face you know she doesn't like it.
I think you should tell her but take it easy and don't scare her. It's better to be up front and honest from the beginning. I think you already knew this, you just needed someone to confirm what you deep down needed to do. Good luck.
Yes. But start out with rubbing and move on from there. Once you are committed to each other she shouldn't mind if you want to do things with her feet. But make sure to find ways for her to enjoy it. Maybe she has a fetish to do to you also. ;)
don' tell her that you have a foot fetish just touch her feet every so often... a foot massage would be good... dont go any further than that.
Well, of course, as her boyfriend, you should know your gf well. If you sense that she's gonna be freaked out by your confession , better try to use a subtle way to get her feet. If she can tolerate it, then you're lucky man! Just make sure that she will enjoy the extra attention you'll gonna give to her feet.
Believe it or not most women love to have their feet massaged, kissed, and coddled. I would begin by telling her how cute you think her feet are and then become more affectionate with them from there. Gradually move into telling her that you have a foot fetish. SHe won't think of it badly if she is getting a fabulous foot massage from it . . .
Yeah ... give her feet attention ... hey if U have a foot fetish then Id guess that ure GF will be more generally a more open minded person .. maybe even tell her .. something soo irrelevant to the relationship really shouldnt make a difference ... U can allways say that its also healthy to give feet extra attention .. all the nerve ending things ... isnt it a Chinese thing ... every organ of the body has a specific nerve region on the foot ... good Luck & Fun U 2 :)

P.S. : Maybe she also has a certain like that she is holding back on ?
Me too,the biggest turn on is when she is wearing pantyhose,I guess maybe that's another fetish and my wife don't wear panties with them so that makes it better.I kinda let her know slowly I started by massaging her nylon feet then rubbing them on my bare chest .Then I started kissing them after that she should let you have at them!!!
perv..sorry, but i just feel that way
I say tell her, how will you know how she'll react unless you let her know. A foot fetish isn't taboo, relax I'd wouldn't mind.
Just start with a foot massage and slowly inch from there, like sucking on her toe with your scr*wing her but don't tell her until you are 100% positive that you aren't going to scare her away!


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